I am a middle school girl. I have the biggest crush on one of my friends. I cant get him out of my head. His name is Brian and he is my age, same grade, and everything. He is smart,cute,funny,nice hair,nice eyes, great hair, and he has the best personality. One of the best things is that he likes me. Even though he knows i like him and i know he likes me we still havent became more than friends. That is because we are way to shy to do anything. I dont have anything like his e-mail,myspace, or what ever because i am to shy to well ask for anything. So is he. I have tried asking him out but it never works i back out at the last second. I have tried notes but never had the courage to go through with it and give it to him. I know it may sound stupid but i even dream about him. Not day dream but actual dreaming i just cant get him out of my head. What do i do? I am so confused i need some help.
your answers will be very appriciated
2007-04-08 18:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
someone needs to make the first move
im sure both of u are waiting for the other to go first
i think u should go ahead n talk to him about this
face to face
good luck
2007-04-08 18:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Random Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With email and myspace noone can be too shy anymore. Chatting online will allow you to say things that you may not be able to say in person. Once you both feel comfortable meet in person. The edge may be taken off because you two will have already gotten to know each other.
2007-04-09 01:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by coxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to every successful relationship is good communication. The reason most relationships break up is poor communication. So, if you want to have a serious relationship, communicate. I know, it sounds easy but is tough to do. But think of what will happen if one of you doesn't make the first step. You move on, or somebody else moves in. So take the first step...if you really think he is worthwhile. Even if he turns out to be a real jerk, you owe it to yourself to try. Good luck.
2007-04-09 01:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in this position so many times i am also a middle school student and trust me, i know wat ur going thru. HEres wat u do....
friends are a big part of middle school dating. My best girlfriends are the reason i have boyfriends. since both of you are shy, use one of ypour girlfriends that knows him as a middle man. Talk to her about wat ur trying to do and then have her talk to him without making it obvious. ALWAYS make her make him admit his feelings first and then let her express your feelingd to him. This way, neither one of you has to be awkward or shy because you have ur girl.
If its true that ur always thinkin about him which im sure it is since this has happened to me several times, u need to do something about it b4 u lose ur mind hahaha. Boys will make u crazy, as with me, but you cant let these feelings go to waste. the best part is that you know he likes u 2 so thats not even an issue. i hope i could help!!
:: if you cant get somepne off of your mind, maybe theyre sposed to b there::
2007-04-09 01:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knwo how you feel. I am in the same place. Exept he doen't like me. Dont ask him out yet. Throw a party and invite him. Make sure that he knows you are attracted though.
2007-04-09 01:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by smart blonde is not an oxymoron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...well....get one of his friends to tell him to ask u out. or get ur friends to set u guys up! it might sound a little wierd having all these people know wut u feel about him but it'll work!!
2007-04-09 01:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by vivian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋