2007-04-08 18:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by tolentino03@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, if I was a man and I seen a whole bunch of red, purple, a baby and a whole bunch of white stuff shoot out of where I put my thing! I'd be shocked too! lol your body goes through a whole lot of changes a man, even though he has seen before in other women sadly as male nature can never really handle or process in his own woman! The one thing they may not be frightened of is the pregnant glow, It turns allot of fathers ON! But, after that it's really hard for them. My best suggestion is to build your body up like a brick house, call a baby sitter and for the whole day, night and next morning act like one of those girls in the "movies"! HAHAHA! I'm serious and I hope it works because if he didn't love you, he wouldn't have married you and chose you to have his little man. So, don't be afraid of what will happen! BE SEXY!
2007-04-08 18:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by blakbutterfly14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be many reasons. Jealousy of the attention you are paying to your son. The feeling that you don't love him as much as you love your son. Any number of things. So, talk to him. Tell him how you are feeling and ask him the question directly. If the marriage is worth saving, then communications are vital. You don't say how long ago your son was born. If it's within six months, I wouldn't worry. Over a year and I would begin to wonder. Tell him how important he is in your life. Tell him how much you love him. Tell him how much you admire him, want him in your life, and how much you want to have sex with him. Maybe he just needs some encouragement. If that doesn't work, consider couples counseling.
2007-04-09 01:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably afraid he will hurt you, this is a common misconception. The best thing to do is ask him what is going on & why. Guys don't know how long it will take to heal properly. Maybe if you actually had sex since the birth you made a noise he thought meant you were hurting? Talk to him the less you talk the further you grow apart.
2007-04-09 04:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He now sees you as the mother of his son more than his wife. If it bothers you ...talk to him about it. It will not change unless you do.
2007-04-09 01:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by calired67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you have your baby maybe he is scared he will hurt you.
2007-04-09 02:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he is a fool...i'm me on yahoo will chat
2007-04-09 01:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try something new with yourself..i mean...get your hair cut....maybe work out? do something to get his intrest...good luck sweetheart
2007-04-09 01:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing HE'D be the one to ask...
2007-04-09 01:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very common i dont know why tho
2007-04-09 01:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by skitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because you loose now. no offence.
2007-04-09 01:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by FunDude#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋