My gf is pregnant and she is eight months and we are mot married or anything so the church is threatning me to be banned if i have anoother kid, or if i get my gf knocked up agine she will kick me out of the house i am going to ty to switch wards or go to an differant church or should i just stop going to church?????
2007-04-08 18:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by foxyfarther88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm all for you marrying this girl. But don't do it just because you're having a child with her. Make sure that you can actually get along with her. Good night!
2007-04-08 18:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Churches shouldn't do that so i'd stop going anyway. It's just a man made building where people come to worship the Lord. You can do that at home. Any home where the Lord is accepted and worshiped is the house of the Lord. He's not at the church personally or anything. Sounds like your church is a little crazy to me. Why don't you marry her? If she's going to throw you out of the house if you get her pregnant again then why don't she get on birth control? You didn't do it all by yourself! The church should just be happy that you are still around for your child and girlfriend. They should encourage marraige, but not threaten to kick you out. After all churches just want money anyway.
2007-04-09 01:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by trisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you use protection plain and simple. You might find a church that is more accepting because not all church's are like that. Just because you screwed up is no reason to walk away or give up on a person. That is wrong. Just keep it in your pants and then maybe you will realize to be a man and stand up for your responisbilitties and it is just as much hers as it is yours.
2007-04-09 01:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT STOP GOING TO CHURCH! That is the worst thing you can do to yourself.
You also need to think about the kid, though. A lot of parents have kids outside of marriage, not realizing the impact it may have on the child. I don't want to lecture you, but please, PLEASE, take a minute and read about my good friend.
Her parents had her before they were married. When she was seven, her father accidentally drove her mother's car into a wall and they broke up, and my friend had to go to court several time for the custody battle. In the end, she wasn't allowed to see her mother before she turns 18, and her father got full custody. Currently, she lives with another family member, with both parents many miles away. SHe barely talks to them.
My friend has low self-esteem and has thought of becoming anorexic and suicide on a number of occasions.
True story. Think about that.
2007-04-09 01:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Professor Cuddles III 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont stop going to church! Maybe you should find a diff. church, or something. My cousins got a family, and they're not married and I think they go to church. Just find a church where they will accept you.
2007-04-09 01:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by --- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say stop going. I didnt even know churches could do that, wow but yes I would just stop for a while see how it goes
2007-04-09 01:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow..i'd say your church is pretty biased..i think you should either try to use a condom more often or go to a different church.
2007-04-09 01:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you live up to your responsibilities, act like a man and marry the mother of your child?
Radical, I know.
2007-04-09 01:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just switch. Dont let someone elses judgement change your beliefs
2007-04-09 01:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well said Liz, grow up you tithead!
2007-04-09 01:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋