Family & Relationships - 8 April 2007

Hi, I m recenlty married and my wife gives a psychic behavior.Though ours was aranged marriage but it's she who first met with me first and we decided to go ahead. About her psychic behaviour she closes her eyes in bedroom and doesn't show any interest in physical relations and doesn't show any attachment for me. Before marriage, i felt that there is something wrong(bcz of less communication from her side) but could not conclude anything because we had met only 2 times before the marriage was fixed and I got to move to Australia. Till the time, marriage was fixed things were normal and now right after 1 month of marriage.... things have become destastrous. I didn't had word with her since 1 month and 2 months have been passed since our marriage. Her family is full-fledged under her control. I wonder how a newly married girl can have zero sentiments for her husband. There could have been only 2 possibilities -first she has mental problm and second she has some affair. somn pls. suggst

2007-04-08 21:20:17 · 14 answers · asked by hitemeha2 m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

actually, when he ask me to stead, I thought of giving it a try. But later on, when he said" I love you" I've got no feelings...instead, I feel like breaking up with him... But he just won't let go of me. What should I do???

2007-04-08 21:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by Sister JellyFish 1 in Friends

So, there is this guy that i like and he saw me in pictures and he said im beautifull, so my best friend who knows him is gonna introduce me to him on saturday. I need advice on how can I make him like me I mean really like me, not love mew but still hes really cute and his older than me with one year(im 14).Please help

2007-04-08 21:07:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married 3.5 yrs. before, I found my wife very hyper & hash to everyone
In my family. So many times I tried to make her understand but she refuses to listen to me
As her stubborn nature. I’m a social businessman but she never understands my problems
& difficulties.Becase of her this aggressiveness I lost my newly born baby.
Now she blames on me for this accident every time. After this I underwent to depression.
But still her behavior is same. (After 2 months of my marriage we found she is suffering from psoriasis so I took her to Doc.he told us the treatment will start after pregnancy
Then after all these I took her to Doctor He said while the course of medi. We should not try for baby, but even she does not take the medicines)
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Once I tried to tell my in-laws about my problem but they
Again blamed me for these all.
These all happened 2 yrs. back, after these all her mother got sick seriously (she loves her widow mother lie anything)
She stayed couple of months with her. When she came back again she is behaving same.
Kindly help me How to solve this problem as I can't discuss this with my mother-in-law & other relations.

2007-04-08 20:55:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 20:33:02 · 18 answers · asked by AmBroSia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 20:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by self-contious guy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 20:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by jason c 1 in Family

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in September of 2006 and since then we have not been in contact since. I have not heard a single word from her. We were in a relationship for 2 years and 15 days and when we broke up I lost contact with her and her family.

But this past Wednesday, I received a call from her father. He left me a voicemail, saying he "was just wondering how I was doing, if I was still going to school in the city, talk to you later."

I called him back a couple hours later and he didn't answer so I left him a message saying hi and told him what was new in my life and school, and I told him that I was leaving to go back home in one month.

Why would he be calling me now? I mean, I haven't heard from him or his daughter who broke my heart in over 6 months.

Before the breakup there was mention of me transferring to another school, and in one month I have to go back to Arkansas for the summer. Could my ex have told him to call? Should I see her before I leave to go back home?

2007-04-08 19:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this guy that I really like, but I don't want to tell him directly. Can you give me some tips of how am i going to tell him pls?

2007-04-08 19:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 19:53:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my ex so muc i forgave her for so much she did to me, She said thats a choice you made. I done so much for her and she said You cant hold that over my head. Shes gone now tring to get with another guy but i cant get her out of my head i loved her so much and two years together and she doesnt care i got asked out on 3 dates after we broke but turned down everyone there just not her i cant shake her what can i do am i done did i lose the one thing that made me happy.

2007-04-08 19:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am just curious about this just because i think it's kind of funny..
ok when my x husband is over to visit his daughter and were talking he will touch my hand or my leg while he is talking, like "hey" (touch hand) "whats the blah blah blah".
if he knows i loathe his very existance why would he do that?

2007-04-08 19:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a fantastic boyfriend, but.... we are are lacking passion (physical) and a future (he's pretty immature). Recently I met a friend of a friend and I am thinking of him too frequently. It is making me question my relationship. All I am thinking of is flirting with this new guy. At the same time, I am scared of settling with what I have and I am scared to lose the good.
-plus the other guy may not have any (aka 0) interest in me...

2007-04-08 19:47:55 · 3 answers · asked by jamieheartsroxy 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend (whom I was friends with) accused me of really rotten things. Instead of talking to me first she just assumed it was me and didnt provide me any opportunity to "tell my side." Now normally, i would just say screw her.. who needs somone like that? For some reason this is really bothering me. I cant seem to get over it and every day instead of getting easier it gets harder. I really care about her and she really hurt me. What can i do to get over this? Is there something wrong with me because i cant let it go?

2007-04-08 19:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why doesn't my soon to be x-husband stop lying to me! he has been lying to me since november about why he cheated on me. i know he is still seeing her and he just tells me some BS lie. "we put or relationship on hold till the divorce paper work is done" he says.
what a crock! he's all clean cut, shave chest, wears cologne, new clothes.
why cant he just tell me the truth! AHHH!
is this some sort of game or what... why wont he stop lying?

2007-04-08 19:38:41 · 25 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl I talk to at a coffee bar. Over the past few weeks we've gotten to know each other fairly well. In past conversations she told me things like she was born and raised in Berlin, she speaks 4 languages, her mother is Croatian (so is my grandmother). Yesterday I was in and didn't notice her in the back, I paid and as I was walking out she ran to the side of the counter and said "Hey Buddy" and we talked a little while.
She told me her birthday is coming up in a few weeks.
I would really like to ask her to lunch or dinner and get to know her better, but I don't think it would be appropriate to ask her in front of her coworkers. Also, she called me buddy, which has me thinking that she may just see me as a friend...or maybe she couldn't remember my name. What do you think? What should I do?

2007-04-08 19:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by _ 2 in Singles & Dating

i moved to anothe town a few months ago and i made a friend. She and are like sisters her home is my home, my home is her home. So she was having guy problems and i'd talk to her and her bf(at the time) on the phone. I never met him b4 but, he saw my picture and thought i was so pretty. Him and my friend were havin problems so he broke up with her. We still talked every once in a while. She has a new man but still talks bout her ex. Then her ex and i talked and he saids i'm so nice and doesn't sem like i would take him 4 granit. He really likes me and i kinda have a little feelings inside of me for him too, but i don't wanna do my friend dirty. help. i no it sounds easy to not talk to him but, him and i click well.

2007-04-08 19:29:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I work with just broke up with her boyfriend (after about 2 years). Even before she broke up with him we were flirting and talking to each other on the phone and stuff. I have not officially asked her out yet but she has let it been known that she does not want a "boyffriend" write now. I know she likes me at least a little bit, but she does not want a boyfriend write now. What does this mean? should I wait? should I give her time or what?

2007-04-08 19:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by funkymonk73 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends are in a little bind. They have been together for years. and i mean together. My best friend and her boyfriend's relationship is on the rocks. He thinks that she wants to get married to him. She thinks he doesn't want a Cling-on girlfrind (which she kinda is.) i want them to do whatever they want to do, but they are asking the wrong girl to atlk between them. I'm not talking about me, I'm talking about this girl who is my best friend's other friend. She was in their relationship battle talking between them like she knew all about it. (and she probably did.) my point is, should i be jealous of her because she knows more, or should i just let it go? i'm worried about what she said to my friend's boyfriend. it might make him decide to let my best friend go.

2007-04-08 19:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by canteringfool 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband quarreled last week.I told my parents about this. They told they will solve this. So, they called my husband 2 days before and they tried to solved it. I told them that my husband never gives times to me. He is always busy with something or the other. He does not take care of me and i told my parents that i need some time to think over this matter, but yesterday they threathened me. My father told me that i should go back and live with my husband otherwise my father will kill himself and mother is also supporting my husband only. They told me to give him a chance. so i went back yesterday, but he has not changed. he is the same as before. so please advice me on this issue. I want to be a good mother. so i went back to my husband's house. please help me??? I promised my parents that i will never fight with my husband nor try to kill myself which i had done before. I cannot live like this. I do not understand how to handle it. Please help??? Give me some good suggestion

2007-04-08 19:18:46 · 11 answers · asked by kashifunnisa k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And at what age did you get married?

2007-04-08 19:18:27 · 16 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Beaver, sausage, come on people! Get a life! This stuff was funny up to about senior year of high school at the latest!

2007-04-08 19:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by cs_ds_02 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My g/f and I have had a big fight over this.I was using a coconut body wash from B&B Works and had a fit.She says its not for men.Only women shop there.She doesnt know any men that use it but me.I have many guy friends who use them.She says she doesnt like me smelling like coconut or strawberries.What is everyones opinion on this subject.Thanks for any help or suggestions.Should I use body wash or stick with bar soap to make her happy?

2007-04-08 19:16:41 · 17 answers · asked by Woody 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked him out. We went out for six months and he broke up with me because he thought i was mad at him. Don't you think i would've broken up with him if i was that p/o??Anyway, that's not the point. what should i do to get over him

2007-04-08 19:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by **BootyBabe** 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 19:08:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i like that ive been hanging out with and hes shy and i cannot tell if he likes me, i like him a lot so muich that i'm sort of shy around him which is unusual, any ideas on how to tell if he likes me or just wants to be friends?

2007-04-08 19:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by AAAAA 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 19:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Yvonne Cesaro 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have lived in Alaska since 1987, and ready for something else. The only other place I lived was in Columbus Ohio. My wife is from Idaho, We have 4 kids: 18, 13, 13, 8. Love the ocean so somewhere within a few hours drive would be nice. We do not do any drugs or party so a smaller close knit community would be nice. My wife does assisted living / elderly care so she should not have a hard time finding a job anywhere. I have always been around auto electric shops and car audio so it should not be a problem either. We have been looking at areas in Texas and Nevada, but do not know the area well enough. Any help would be appreciated and we plan on leaving here in about 3 months after we sell our house. Thanks!!!

2007-04-08 19:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by Steve C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a middle school girl. I have the biggest crush on one of my friends. I cant get him out of my head. His name is Brian and he is my age, same grade, and everything. He is smart,cute,funny,nice hair,nice eyes, great hair, and he has the best personality. One of the best things is that he likes me. Even though he knows i like him and i know he likes me we still havent became more than friends. That is because we are way to shy to do anything. I dont have anything like his e-mail,myspace, or what ever because i am to shy to well ask for anything. So is he. I have tried asking him out but it never works i back out at the last second. I have tried notes but never had the courage to go through with it and give it to him. I know it may sound stupid but i even dream about him. Not day dream but actual dreaming i just cant get him out of my head. What do i do? I am so confused i need some help.

your answers will be very appriciated!!!

2007-04-08 19:04:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been together for 2.5 years now and have a great relationship. it started out a little rocky only b/c i was super clingy and used to moving in w/a guy right away (this is why i divorced twice). we've talked about moving in together and someday marrying. i have 3 little girls that i have part-time that he loves very much. we always go out and do things together. we're both 28 and done with college. he's never lived with anyone let alone someone with kids but has told me before it's what he wants-he just has to get used to it.

we've looked at rings on the internet for me and for my birthday he bought me a 1500.00 diamond necklace. he also just gave me the key to his house.

he tells me i'm his best friend and i'm always the first person he tells his problems to or asks for advice from. he just told me on fri that he's in love with me and he made the decision a long time ago that i'm the one he wants.

is there a marriage in the near future or not for a while?

2007-04-08 19:03:44 · 6 answers · asked by prncessang228 7 in Marriage & Divorce