theres this guy i like that ive been hanging out with and hes shy and i cannot tell if he likes me, i like him a lot so muich that i'm sort of shy around him which is unusual, any ideas on how to tell if he likes me or just wants to be friends?
2007-04-08 19:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by AAAAA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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There is this guy who is a singer who ive loved his music he had a concert a while ago and i went and got introduced to him through friends, we had previously talked about his music on myspace....we decided to hang out went to a park here and hung out and talked got to know each other a little, then the next weekend we met up at a restaurant, and we were there for almost 4 hours, we ate and we sat and talked. then we left, i know he is very busy he is a christian acoustic singer and also has a band on the side, but i really am into this guy but ihe is a shy guy and i cannot tell if he is into me or not... i want to tell him that i like him a bit, but i dont want to scare him away, or ruin our friendship at all...help!!!! how can i find out without being too forward? or anything!! just advice!! i do know he has a great relationship with christ, as i am still working on mine, i wouldnt think that wuld be a huge deal, but then again ...
2007-04-08 19:15:11 · update #1
There r way to many signs to just have one clear one because guys show how they feel in many diff ways...
***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-04-11 17:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is shy, he still has a personality. When your around him, watch his facial expressions. Even if you are just offering him a cupcake, try to be around him as much as possible. I know your shy but just try to have a conversation with him. But don't get obsessed. (Don't hover around him 24/7...especially if he's shy.) Break out of your shy bubble. Hope this helps:) P.s.- I used to be really shy, too. I broke that habit, and now I am a social butterfly. Lol
2016-04-01 04:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same happend 2 me! But by the time, we wrote us lot of messegas n he asked me what i thought of im like a friend n then i asked him the same question n now i'm dating him! N if he is shy, u should try not 2 b shy around him!
2007-04-08 19:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...thats the only way you will find out right? and if you dont do that I dont know what else you'd do..just kinda be flirty around him or something and see how he reacts. If he flirts back..then he likes u if not well it doesnt mean he doesnt, especiallly if hes shy,the only way you can find out for sure is to ask him, or write him a note or something. I dont know what else to say but I hope everything goes well. :-)
2007-04-08 19:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys send a lot of mixed signals so its hard to say. You might have to be the one to ask if he wants to go out sometime. Even though he's you should be able to tell if he's into you.
2007-04-08 19:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hard. you almost have to wait it out if you do not want to be the one to initiate something. otherwise, you just need to get it out in the open. Ask something like 'so what are we', yes a cheesy line but gets to the point. :) Good Luck
2007-04-08 19:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight up with your feelings....don't play little games to fnd out or test him,,,,sit him down and have a serious talk and clear the air
2007-04-08 19:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Xav T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and ask him
2007-04-08 19:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋