actually, when he ask me to stead, I thought of giving it a try. But later on, when he said" I love you" I've got no feelings...instead, I feel like breaking up with him... But he just won't let go of me. What should I do???
2007-04-08 21:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by Sister JellyFish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Isn't this the ickiest part of being a woman? We want someone, sometimes any one to think we are great and then when somebody does--he is totally the wrong one! It is so frustating. You need to tell him you only like him as a friend --cliche that it is--it will let him know that you like him as a person but don't want to lead him on. Introduce him to other single gals you know--maybe he will like one of them and you will be off the hook. Whatever you decide to do-don't be mean! You don't want to scar the poor guy for life!
2007-04-08 21:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by RedSonya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly if you didn't have feelings for him, you shouldn't have agreed to go steady.
Now you have to be firm and tell him that you are just not interested in him that way. Will it hurt his feelings? Of course it will, but you owe it to yourself and to him to be honest about how you feel, as you should have been at the beginning.
I gather your fairly young still, so look on this as a learning experience.
Firstly, you shouldn't do something just because everyone else is. Secondly, you should be true to the way you feel, and not let someone talk you into a relationship, if that's not what you want. Third, you should consider how your decisions are going to affect the people around you.
Live and Learn.
2007-04-09 04:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel, jsut say you don't feel that way for him and youre sorry but you'd still like to be friends rah rah all that bs...
2007-04-09 04:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by apple 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him it's not working for you.
2007-04-09 04:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start talking with him about this and u must be enjoy don't nervous
2007-04-09 04:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mumu V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋