My ex girlfriend (whom I was friends with) accused me of really rotten things. Instead of talking to me first she just assumed it was me and didnt provide me any opportunity to "tell my side." Now normally, i would just say screw her.. who needs somone like that? For some reason this is really bothering me. I cant seem to get over it and every day instead of getting easier it gets harder. I really care about her and she really hurt me. What can i do to get over this? Is there something wrong with me because i cant let it go?
2007-04-08 19:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesnt really have proof of anything.. but she is convinced that it was me. I thought she cared about me.. i guess not. thats why this hurts.. it just sucks when u care about somone and they dont care about you.
2007-04-08 19:50:46 · update #1
she accused me of stalking her and hacking into her computer.. which is ludicrous. Im not a psycho.. and wouldnt dream of doing that to anyone.
2007-04-08 19:51:40 · update #2
sorry about all the extra details.. she called the cops on me.. so i cant even try and talk to her without being arrested for things i havent done.
2007-04-08 19:53:29 · update #3
I think there would be something wrong with you if this DIDN'T bother you. However, you know what is true and what is not true, so you should be able to let it go. You placed your trust in a friend who betrayed you. It hurts, makes you feel used, and makes you wonder if the friendship was based on lies.
Don't beat yourself up over this. She sounds like a vindictive person and you can do better than that.
2007-04-08 19:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by niteowl716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. You're just in love.
But be careful. Someone who loves you would not accuse you of things you did not do. From experience... that means she may have some insecurities.
Just sit down and talk to her and let her know that she hurt your feelings by accusing you of things you did not do.
If she doesn't care about what you said, then drop her quick!
Since you can't talk to her...
* Either ignore her for ever.
* Or sue her in court for slandering your name and calling the cops on you for false reasons.
2007-04-09 02:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by That Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is bothering you because you still love her deep down. You still care for her a lot, and her wrds hurt you deeply. You can get over this by just talking to her about the situation and let her know how you feel about what she accused you of. There's nothing wrong with you because you can't let it go. It's just because you once cared for her a lot, and then she hurt you behind your back.
2007-04-09 02:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by coffee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you , when a person you care about says something about you that is not true it is only natural to want to set the record strait. if it really bothers you that much write her an email telling her what the facts are or you can text her /call if she answers but the best thing to do would be to email her because that way she cant help but read it , and she cant hang up on you.
p.s. if she does not have an email address write an letter
2007-04-09 02:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she accuse you of that was so bad? Does she have proof or is she going on someones gossip? I know she is your ex and you care for her but if she will not let you explain, how much does she care about you? There are three sides to all stories his side, her side, and the truth. God bless
2007-04-09 02:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, but you are very sensitive. I would feel bad as well if some one is hurting me with false accusations. Pick up a hobby and try to divert your attention to the new things you are intending to do.
2007-04-09 02:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wondering what rotten things did she say.....what happend to make her say those things thats not true about you..... so i can understand of the situation more and why is hard to get over it...and how i can help more
2007-04-09 02:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out to talk things out and if she's refuses, then it's her loss. Which means when her friends confront you, you can just say, she refused to talk to you.
2007-04-09 02:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋