ok so this girl and i have been close friends for about 2 years now a little while after we met she told me she liked me (that was in eighth grade) now im a sophmore and we're best friends istarted liking her but she has a boyfriend but i think she still likes me. shes a very devout christian so she wont admit to any kind of thoughts about other people while she has a boyfriend. i kow she liked me until he asked her out so thats why i think she still does and she warned me to be careful because we were talking ALOT and we were be coming way to close and she didnt want to end up in an affair because of her faith. what should i do??(her boyfriend has a very bad rep and she is VERY innocent)
2007-04-08 17:07:28 · 17 answers · asked by skitz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, you want to know what to do? Leave her alone. She isn't as innocent as you think! If she is, she's crazy stupid to date a guy like that. Good night!
2007-04-08 17:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to honor her wishes and be careful, why is she with a guy that has a bad reputation if she is a devout christian? Maybe there is more to this story than you even know? For your own safety, I would back off and leave her alone and let her make up her own mind and decisions, but don't hold your breath and it's OK to see other gals also... Good Luck :0)
2007-04-09 00:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Star* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you like her yet. Her faith is important to her. It is probably number one priority in her life and if you don't respect that then she's.. well not going to like you at all. Be patient and show her lots of respect. She'll see that in you and like you even more for it. It sounds like her relationship right now will probably end soon, so wait it out. And when her boyfriend and her do break up, don't go running to her. Give her time. The more respect and love you show her, the more she'll appreciate you and like you. You'll be filling her needs. And once you fill someone's needs you are very attractive to them.
Love is patient. Hang in there and your rewards will come :)
2007-04-09 00:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by sugarandspice13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow bro i 'm in the same boat i am a sophmore too i know this girl for 3 years and she has a failiure of a boyfriend i think that what i am gonna do is wait because knowing these bad boyfriends the relationship won't last that long and then go in for the rebound when the time is right and sweep her of her feet like a knight in shining armor well Good Luck!
2007-04-09 00:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ravi Joshi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you start to "like" her now? Is it because she has a boyfriend? I'd let her play out her romance with the other person before I made any moves. If he has a bad rep then it's not going to last long anyways.
2007-04-09 00:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay close enough to watch over her. If he's a creep then you will be there for her to turn to when they break up. Stay single and wait for her. If you date someone inbetween you won't come across sincere. Good luck! Never forget her innocence. Cherish it and protect it.
2007-04-09 00:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by J C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well since their is religion involved be carefull n don try n e thing it won't turn for your favor... now i have this friend going out with this guy with a rep. to but she's innocent guess what sh'e not planing on wasting her innocence she's religious to... ok so no worries their... and if your meant to be just wait and be their for her
2007-04-09 00:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if shes really in love with you then she will date you..but if she really likes the other guy then you may just have to wait until something happens in there relationship..
Its not a affair you are only like 15. and she not married to him!
2007-04-09 00:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by lisacool224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel if she love u she will pick. It my hurt the friendship but if ur such close friends then u will still be friends no matter what.
2007-04-09 00:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by llaywinky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would contiue to be a friend.but she has a boyfriend so right now that all you can be. if things change then maybe
but right now you need to respect the fact that she with some
one else.
2007-04-09 00:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋