Im only in my early teens,but this guy moved in next door and he's our friends son and he is soooooooo cute and we are totally in to each other but he's kinda on the wild side and.My dad said the we couldn't go out with each other cause he comes from a not so great background.Well on thing led to another and he ended up giving me my first kiss in Target and my parents found out, we where in a lot of trouble!!!!! The whole thing is over now and we're just friends, he is a total flirt even when he had a girl friend. They broke up and now he told me he is still in love with me . I know it not for real but I really like him any way. But I dont want to him to think I dont like him ,what should I do?
thanx 4 da help!
2007-04-08 17:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by A.K. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Early teens"? So.. 11? 12? Doesn't matter, you are too young.
Of course his "love" isn't real. You are children! Get over it. Just be friends.
2007-04-08 17:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds kind of like a player who wants someone there all the time for a little fun. He might not be mature enough for you or an actual relationship and I hate to think of him cheating on you or even just flirting with everything in a skirt. That's not how a real man acts, and every chick deserves a real man, not a lowlife.
2007-04-08 17:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by eviltanga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something I've noticed is that parents have enough experience to judge people's character. Unless your parents are snobs who want you to date rich, they might see something bad that you don't see. Something like that happened to me once . . . I was hanging out with this girl I met in class and my dad told me later that she basically wasn't a good person (in harsher language, of course). I didn't think he had seen enough of her to judge that, but boy was he ever right. She was pregnant and supposedly bisexual too! Listen to your parents on this one. I, for one, know how the wrong kinds of friends can drag a person down. Especially girls . . . a lot of girls don't have any sense when it comes to men. I've known women who literally date criminals instead of nice guys. You probably know the type . . . they get pregnant at a young age and then get upset when no one wants to date them and their problems.
I'm not some old fart either. I'm only 21. Listen to the voice of experience on this one. Good night!
2007-04-08 17:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems like a lady's man. JUst be friends and move on. And probablly listen to your dad's advice.
2007-04-08 17:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Everything's Magic♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what your parents say. most of the guys are not reliable, he might play with your innocent heart. so tell him that you're only friends and no more than that.
2007-04-08 17:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by njm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him a lot but mention that you should wait to date because you need to c if he is playing you.
2007-04-08 17:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea dads spoiling everything yea you should just flirt back with him becaus elet him know you cant have him yet you do [hard to get] works all the time lol or you could just go out with him behind your parents back butttt.... that could be bad because i dont think that would be a good idea becaus i dont know how strict your parents are but if your into him and he is into you go head
2007-04-08 17:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by liyah6 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'd listen to your parents, they seem to have some good ideas on this guy.
They are looking out for you, i suggest you let them.
2007-04-08 17:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't live a lie...it will only come back to haunt you
2007-04-08 17:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by M to the ATT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋