Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

Mywork usually takes me out of town for a couple of days. One day I received a missent message on my mobile phone. The message came from my husband and he was definetely sending the message to another girl. I confronted him right away and after serveral verbal exchanges, I asked him to leave the house. This is not the first time he has cheated on me. Did I do the right thing? Some of my friends are telling me to give him another chance.

2007-02-18 02:05:47 · 18 answers · asked by confused lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My my mom and dad don't want me to, but i really want too because all of friends are going and i'm going to be bored if i don't.
What should i do listen to my parents or go without their perssion
please help me out

2007-02-18 02:05:05 · 11 answers · asked by Daniella D 3 in Friends

This happens to me all the time, all over the place. Is there a way that I can prevent this from happening?

2007-02-18 02:04:56 · 16 answers · asked by gone 1 in Singles & Dating

Thier back together now, but everytime they break up he gets with me, he called last night, I really miss him, how can you tell if they will ever break up for good?

2007-02-18 02:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by Tamra P 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom is dating my ex boyfriends father. dont know what to do!!! ive told her my feelings about the whole relationship and she just ignores me.

2007-02-18 02:01:36 · 33 answers · asked by x0zreneex418 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 02:01:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you have no one. All the friends I have are busy. I dont feel like going out anymore, because there is nothing to do. All I do is think about him, and I cant stop crying. I am so hurt, because I was dum enought to actually think it would work. I dont know what to do to keep my mind off of him

2007-02-18 02:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this woman for a few years, and we have a very good relationship. We both work hard and have promising professional careers. We essentially live together and are very close to each other. She knows almost everything about me except that I really, really like wearing footed pajamas at night when it's cold (yes, I know it sounds silly, but I'm serious). Although we sleep together, I only wear them when she's out of town. I've tried to give this up, but I like footed sleepers too much. Should I tell her, or just continue to keep silent about this?

2007-02-18 01:58:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hurt a very precious girl to me and now she feels bad....
how can I make it up to her?
help me U guys...................................
I think she doesn't want to see me and almost everynight she's crying.................................

2007-02-18 01:58:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-18 01:58:08 · 24 answers · asked by Lee G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

am nervous and other times i am not. it is like sometimes it is hard to get the words to come out and we will just look at each other and not say anything. he always makes sure to say something to me at the end of the day though. do you think there are any sparks here?

2007-02-18 01:57:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His ex wife is beautiful. As if my self-esteem weren't low enough I found a text message he had written to her that said, "i still think about the days when i was madly in love with you."

As far as I knew, they weren't even on speaking terms. What could all this mean? He told me he had no love for her and that she was a total *****. She's manipulative and withholds his son from him... I don't know what to think.

2007-02-18 01:55:27 · 24 answers · asked by Carley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A well educated lady living by herself. she wants to make the leisure enjoyable. she has most of the time doing nothing. Your valuable answers with suggestions expected. Thanq

2007-02-18 01:54:44 · 19 answers · asked by Padma S 2 in Singles & Dating

Over the past month I noticed she didn't repsond to any of my messages sent to her on this online dating site. After realizing she might not be interested in me, I left a message with her on valentines day to say happy valentines and that i didn't get a message from her, wishing that i had a chance to chat with her, and that this would be the last message. I made this decision because i dont want to make her feel that i'm pestering her, there's no point, especially when this person isn't interested.
Two days after valentines day she replied me with her first message ever saying the below: "aww...that's so sweet. will you be my valentine? this year on valentine's day i just stayed at home and watched tv...hopefully in the near future i'll be watching tv with someone beside me :)

What does this message mean to you?

Thanks a bunch.

2007-02-18 01:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by rocher765 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my bf earlier today cos he just couldn't bring himself to tell me how he felt about me. I was always telling him how much i cared about him and hated things being so one-sided (i needed to feel secure and loved in the relationship). i told him over a week ago that if he couldn't find a way to express himself i was walking away from us. anyhow, nothing changed and so i did. today on the phone he was telling me how upset he was and asked if i'd come see him tomorrow night, i felt sorry for him and so i said yes. i'm just worried that he's going to start crying and tell me all the things i wanted to hear - but i really think its too late now, he had so many chances and only did something about it when i left him. how do i stand strong and stick to my decision if he starts crying and saying all the sweet things i've been dying to hear...?

2007-02-18 01:53:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she shaved her head and MY GOD she looks like S*it!!
-i actually thought she MIGHT be able to have a comeback but after seeing this there is NO WAY bet you money she'll be flat broke by next year :)

2007-02-18 01:53:25 · 6 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Singles & Dating

+ I am a girl and my friend is a boy!

(that might help u a little)

2007-02-18 01:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by The 5-O 1 in Friends

I heard many girls telling me so. I am not implying 100% extinct but I am referring those men who know they will be faithful to their wives till their old age at 80s and above.

Any comments?

2007-02-18 01:52:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is living in my parents house because he is new to the area and still looking for a place of his own. We've had sex in my parents house, but now he says he feels bad and that it is disrespectful considering how much they're doing to help him. The problem is - we're both so busy when would we find time to have sex other places?

I don't like his decision, and keep going out to his room in the detatched guest house to have sex with him. Am i being inconsiderate? And what should we do?

2007-02-18 01:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Carley 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, so there is this guy i really like, but at least one of my friends likes him, and they have had texts that basically say they both like each other, and my friend still doesnt know that i like him, what should i do, she is my best friend, and i dont want to hurt her!!! Help!!!!

2007-02-18 01:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by dancin' chick 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out yesterday that my boyfriend got me an engagement ring (It's a long story). I knew he would be getting one soon, even sooner because I knew he was getting taxes back. He thinks my finger is small (compared to his they are longer and slimmer). He thought maybe a 7. I have never been really big on wearing jewelry, especially rings. I remember getting costume jewelry from Claire's or something that was size 9 or 10. Are they the same as far as measurements? He said that it can be resized for free so it's not bad. Has anyone ever had that happen?

2007-02-18 01:48:38 · 22 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Weddings

but she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now,she subconciously flirts with every guy at school.She says she does that with her best friends without knowing.We have been really good friends for about 4 months. She said if she ever hurt me it would ruin our friendship.Apperently her last bf hurt her pretty badly and she didnt want to risk anything but 2 months ago i told her that i liked her and she said that she kinda liked me but didnt want anything right now. 5 days ago when we talked about her flirting problem she asked if i liked her and i said yes. Her answer was that she was just confused right now. So i dont know what to do,she is really cool and i like her alot but i dont understand what the problem is.She says she likes me and then she says she doesn't want a relationship and then she says she is confused.Should i try to be friends with her even though i will always like her or just move on?I dont think i can just be friends with her.We talk about 2 to 3 hours a day.

2007-02-18 01:48:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy cheated on her, lied to her, used her for sex, told her empty promises and is a very bad attention whore when he's around. When she succeeds at something he just shoots her down with a "no you did this and this wrong..." Any time he's at my house or around me I get extremely annoyened by his fakeyness, loudness, put-downs and non-stop chatter. He also ruhtlessly eats all the food in MY own house as well as! She keeps on crawling back to him when he tells her he'll change...I can't stress to her enough that he'll NEVER change, he's done this to her for over 2 years! Do you think I should tell her that this time when she gets back with him, I don't want him any where me and my family?

2007-02-18 01:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are there statistics for this? Which states have the highest percentage of virigins? Which states have the lowest percentages of virgins?

Serious answers please.

2007-02-18 01:46:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel really depressed i know this is so dumb ,
but i just dont know how to cheer up ...also....
GUYS... random question whats ur fav part of a chicks body?

2007-02-18 01:46:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well a guy in college that i really like was in a class with me last semester. He has a girlfriend, however since this semes. started he is now in two of my classes. Every day he sits right beside me, we make fun of each other and we're always playing aroud(he always marks in my notebook, he has even drwan a heart) . It's really hard to avoid him bcuz i have to see him everyday!!! what would u do? he always stares right into my eyes when speakin to me, and now when i bring a drink to class he always drinks from it. i try not to flirt with him but it seems as if he is always flirting. need help!!!??? hes a really smart guy an doesn't seem to be a dirt bag, we are both trying to get into the same med school....and want the same goals in life. Just not sure if he wants to be just friends. I really do like him alot and as the weeks go by i feel like our connection is growing stronger. i feel as if i'm falling for him.

2007-02-18 01:44:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are looking at Mill Forge, any comments would be apreciated good or bad and any ones experiences of weddings here. Thanks

2007-02-18 01:44:08 · 7 answers · asked by HELEND 6 in Weddings

2007-02-18 01:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Folks, what women do really think about that? Do you think someone like that would be a jerk?! and you guys are you looking more into the inside or still interested about shapy girls?

2007-02-18 01:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by Holmes 1 in Singles & Dating

We all know about upper hands in a romantic relationship...but how about a friendship? This girl and I get along great, and I really like her as a friend, but I always get the feeling that she's trying to get the "hand" in our friendship...it's really frustrating because it's a friendship...is she trying to go after something more? Or is she just nuts? Cause even though I really enjoy chilling with her, I always get the feeling that she wants to be the one in charge....anyone heard of this before?

2007-02-18 01:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating