Family & Relationships - 20 February 2007

Ok, here goes. my girlfriend and i have been going out now for about 3 months, and i know she wants to kiss me, and i really want to kiss her. now, i need like on how to move in and where to kiss and also what kind of kiss to give. i know she i has kissed before, but i haven't.

If it helps,we both take karate and usually hug after class.
i was thinking about kissing her then, probably on the forehead, watching her reaction, and then taking things from there. if any think this is a good idea just say so in you suggestions, or just say so

2007-02-20 23:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-20 23:59:42 · 15 answers · asked by rob l 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why we can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, and his pals at work are being extra nice. 1 day, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kinda hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to the fridge to get my lunch and I walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk fastly. yesterday he luked mad

2007-02-20 23:58:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

going great but he acts funny like he hiding something he called me yesterday around 1am but i was sleep. when we talk on the phone he acts like he never knows what to say and he likes holding things back and never telling me? I need my girls out there to backk me up what am i to do on this one does he like me or not or just wait and see what happens help ! Help!

2007-02-20 23:58:27 · 2 answers · asked by jazzyjqween 1 in Friends

2007-02-20 23:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-20 23:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other friend is my best friend but we all hang out together. This person has been saying the same things about her "how can they afford that house, cars, trips down south, daycare, etc. this person has only said it once to me and I told her that it isn't true, but she always talks about it to our other friends and my sister. We all have come to the conclusion that she is jealous of us. I believe it is her OWN personal feelings our husbands are honest working men... She says things without thinking and is VERY opinionated. I don't see or talk to her very much now because I continue to hear things that she says.

2007-02-20 23:55:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

oh my gosh i am sooo sexually fustrated and dont know what to do anymore..at first it was all about waiting for marrage then my ex and i broke up..so here i am a virgin!! wanting to get rid of it as soon as possible..i feel i am missing out...so can yall discribe your first time and if it was worth it to do it then...or if you should have waited..i am ready to throw in my beliefs and do it all ready!!! even though my heart says wait for the right time and my mind is saying enough is enough all ready..i feel like i am tormenting my dang spirit...

2007-02-20 23:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by dasu751520 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with him for two years. we lived together for a year before he got arrested. He has been in jail for 7 months. He will be in for 4 years, should i wait for him?

2007-02-20 23:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by Queen of the Nile 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd like responses from both men and women.

Lately, my new g/f has been wanting me to talk dirty to her in the bedroom. I dont want to accidently go off to an extreme and say something I shouldnt. What do you usually say that keeps your partner's mometum going, but is still tasteful in a dirty way? I'm 23 if you're wondering.

2007-02-20 23:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by John Redcorn 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and we have full trust in each other. She dated a guy for five years in high school and a few years of college. (we are a year out of college) We are going on a trip to Guatemala with my parents but she is flying out of Philly airport since she booked the flight later. (We are flying out of Newark.) The funny part is that she lives in New York and I live in Philly and both flights leave at 5:30am. It would involve a lot of extra driving and inconvenience for this to happpen. She switched her flight to leave out of Newark with us.
The part I would like to ask about is that when we were evaluating our options, she mentioned that the thought of staying at her ex-boyfriend's place in Philly might work out. Keep in mind that they are still not friends after they broke up.(He hasn't made attempts to get back with her and they haven't been in contact at all) Would that bother anyone else? Its not about trust but respect right?

2007-02-20 23:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This 9th grader couldn't be with a girl but he knows the girls still loves him but now she has a new BF so he waits for the girl using his classmates ID and when she talks to the classmates about him he never answers..she knows its him using his classmates ID but she will act like she doesn't know and she will write things like she misses the guy etc,,,

2007-02-20 23:53:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he has got a new gf but now (he got her this morning) he asked me today if he can ask me for advice every now and then what should I do?
I mean is it a good idea to give him advice?
and what advice should i give him?

2007-02-20 23:53:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-20 23:53:15 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-20 23:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by krissy m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-20 23:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by thomas p 1 in Friends

2007-02-20 23:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by bluemarineagent1 1 in Singles & Dating

i have two grandchildren living with me and my son 14 and i live in a council house, i cant, work at present as my grandaugher has been playing up, who is going to want me and i being negative
some women unemployed who live in council houses get men after them, nice ones as well, am i negative about myself. i carn,t cope with rejection very well

2007-02-20 23:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by denny 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you love your spouse more as time goes on or less?

2007-02-20 23:51:19 · 35 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-20 23:51:16 · 17 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Weddings

2007-02-20 23:50:50 · 9 answers · asked by earapuedrtgifvyd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies, would you rather an attractive, slim 6'4 guy, or a just as attractive, darker, more built (but not stubby or huge) 5'7 guy?

2007-02-20 23:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by sam z 1 in Singles & Dating

I seem to always disagree with my work colleague,one day we get on fine, the nxt day she is rude and extremely patronising towards me.Today she tried to tell me off-though we're equal!!!

There are other times where we flirt continuously,smiling,stare into each others eyes,emails,body language etc....A few weeks back at a works drinks, she said:

I want to trust you-get to know you better....
What happens at work stays at work....
I want us to get on....
I don't do 1 night stands,I only have proper boyfriends....
Then she asked if we're "cool"???
MEANING???

Another week (at work drink) she just stared at me, I asked her why and she said "I just want to look at you and your funny".The look was all smiles - like checking me out!!!Then she said Are we "cool?"

Whats her game???What she mean by "we cool?"

p.s. there is trouble with her boyfriend of 2 years, as he don't want to commit....colleagues say we have a love/hate thing bwt us+there's tension bwt us..

2007-02-20 23:49:49 · 8 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

are you a northerner or a southerner?

2007-02-20 23:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-20 23:44:25 · 26 answers · asked by srinivas R 1 in Singles & Dating

seriosly pls answer my question seriosly....ty

2007-02-20 23:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by the12345numbers4life 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife just delivered our 2nd child, a baby girl, healthy! Praise the Lord! bust she had to go through hysterectomy, which she had no idea yet during the delivery, since she passed out on c section and had lots of bleeding. I had to make the decission, based on 2 doctors' suggestions due to life saving.
I informed her about it on the 2nd day, after she was out of the ICU, she was sad, but can understand and accepted it, though sometimes she still cries, her question which I could not answer is:
How will it effect to our sex life? Anyone can help us on this answer?

2007-02-20 23:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by Goombul! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think it would be the betrayal of our family that would be worst. And that he could lie to the kids aswel as me would be the nail in his coffin.

2007-02-20 23:41:02 · 58 answers · asked by babyshambles 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime i meet a guy he is interested briefly but then never calls me. I am intelligent and have a good heart. I am funny and have a interesting personality, i am not a clone. I am highly attractive. I am not easy. Im not desperate i wont just be with anyone, i have high standards. I refuse to settle for second best. Why cant i get a boyfriend?

2007-02-20 23:40:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been told by many people after my break up with my man that it is so good to be independant and not rely on a man for anything. I have been told we are better off alone and that men are useless etc etc. So now tell me this, how sad a prospect is that? We should rather be happy alone and independant? Yes I can change a light bulb and wire my own surround sound. I can even fix my own car and hang my own pictures. I earn enough money to support myself, and I have enough self confidance to go out by myself. So why do I need a man? That is such a sad statement. We need each other for support and love. We shouldnt have to do everything by ourselves, even if we can. Why shouldnt we rely on our parners? I know it would be an ideal world if we could rely on each other, and then we wouldnt keep getting these emails about how bad men are or how bad women are. We do need each other. Or else what a sad and lonely life we would live. Comments?

2007-02-20 23:40:09 · 2 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5 in Other - Family & Relationships