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oh my gosh i am sooo sexually fustrated and dont know what to do anymore..at first it was all about waiting for marrage then my ex and i broke up..so here i am a virgin!! wanting to get rid of it as soon as possible..i feel i am missing out...so can yall discribe your first time and if it was worth it to do it then...or if you should have waited..i am ready to throw in my beliefs and do it all ready!!! even though my heart says wait for the right time and my mind is saying enough is enough all ready..i feel like i am tormenting my dang spirit...

2007-02-20 23:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by dasu751520 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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don't go out sleeping with the first thing that comes along. I lost my virginity at age 19 and I wish I didn't do it, the guy turned out to be a real loser. I am holding out for the right person to do it again with and I don't care if it takes the rest of my life. You should be proud of yourself and I want to personally congradualte you, your the first female that I have met that I don't concider a slut :)

2007-02-21 00:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well don't wait to long. Ever hear of the movie, the 40 year old virgin? Your heading right there. Hey the first time isn't all that it is cracked up to be, so don't live in a fantasy. If it is the first time for your partner too then neither of you has any experience and the pleasure just won't be there. Like anything sex only gets better with practice.

2007-02-21 08:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well you've already made it this far, why throw all your beliefs out the window. I think you will regret it and it won't be worth it if you don't give your virginity to someone you really care about. Won't you get a little toy to help get through your frustration. I think you should keep waiting, and not throw it all away. Especially if you don't have anyone in your life right now, then you'll have to keep looking for another person to have "fulfill your needs" since you don't have a partner. I think you should wait. Good Luck!

2007-02-21 00:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have waited this long, so don't throw all that effort and beliefs away. I think you should wait until it's special after marriage. Your husband and yourself will appreciate. Don't make the past 30 years of your life to look like they were a waste of time and effort. You waited for so long and you can wait for the right moment and you feel how it was worth it and how special it's going to be. Good luck!

2007-02-21 02:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by M. Shaaban 3 · 0 0

You should wait another 30 years and while contemplating your future escapade join a convent and do God's work. Sex will come ( no pun intended) if it's meant to be. Remember sex outside of a marriage is a sin. If the temptation is still there, remove all of you sex organs and donate them to science ( being sarcastic). I have a question for you. Do you believe having/giving oral copulation is considered sex? An Ex-U.S. President believed it wasn't until the world called him and her out Wow! What an embarrassment that must have been. Treat your body as a temple and you will be rewarded.
Matt. 6:33 First, then, seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness and the rest of those things will be added unto you.

2007-02-21 00:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Listen to your heart and WAIT!!!! My first time was when I was 17 yrs old, I was dating the guy most of high school but after we had sex, he pretty much said, let's break up cause in college we won't be together. I felt like a damn fool! It only lasted like 5 mins and it hurt like hell. If you wait for someone who you really love, it will be worth it. I'm not saying wait until you get married ( I believe in test driving before I buy, LOL) But it has more meaning when you love the person. Until then, get yourself a toy!!

2007-02-21 00:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0 0

hmm i think u have to wait until u get the right person for you because when you wait and hold your virginity upto the age of 30 then it can be much more easy for you to hold it for a bit long more unless Mr. Right arrived in your life .. because the major problem is this that i can also suggest you t have sex with anyone but by doing so you lost your virginity .. and in the mean while if your Mr. Right met you then you have a loosen side at yur end .. and always remeber one thing boys always love to love and praise a virgin girl .. so have a better time

2007-02-21 00:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 1 1

if you do it just to do it, you will certainly regret it and it probably will not even be enjoyable. you don't necessarily have to wait until marriage (but that's your own personal decision), but you should wait until it's somebody you at least like. until that time comes, go visit your local x-rated video store. they usually have a variety of toys that you can use to release some of that frustration you are experiencing. also it will give you a chance to explore your body and figure out what you like and don't like that way you can have a more pleasurable experience when you're with somebody.

good luck and i hope you find who and what your looking for.

2007-02-21 00:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by fungirl 3 · 1 0

I know what you mean. I'm a 27 year old male and am a virgin. Do what your heart feels. Wait for one you love. Good luck.

2007-02-21 16:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Deutsche359 2 · 0 0

Eat plenty of chocolate and work out a lot at the gym, run, swim and/or play sport. I'm talking an hour or more a day.That should help with the frustration.

2007-02-21 00:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by lawomicron 4 · 1 0

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