My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and we have full trust in each other. She dated a guy for five years in high school and a few years of college. (we are a year out of college) We are going on a trip to Guatemala with my parents but she is flying out of Philly airport since she booked the flight later. (We are flying out of Newark.) The funny part is that she lives in New York and I live in Philly and both flights leave at 5:30am. It would involve a lot of extra driving and inconvenience for this to happpen. She switched her flight to leave out of Newark with us.
The part I would like to ask about is that when we were evaluating our options, she mentioned that the thought of staying at her ex-boyfriend's place in Philly might work out. Keep in mind that they are still not friends after they broke up.(He hasn't made attempts to get back with her and they haven't been in contact at all) Would that bother anyone else? Its not about trust but respect right?
2007-02-20 23:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her if she minds u sleeping over at ur ex's place.
her perception might be to save as much as possible for the both of u, forgetting about this sensitive issue.
dont keep this to urself. let her know how u feel.
all the best
2007-02-20 23:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by alibaba 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that seems kind of strange. I mean, if I was going to be stopping in a city, and I know someone who lives there but haven't had contact with them for a while, I would always think of them before a hotel or something. But, I wouldn't if they were my ex and it didn't end well... I'd say try to avoid that route, and forget she mentionned it.
2007-02-20 23:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you you sould not let it happend if he has not called her then he must be over her and if she is thinking about staying with him then she still must have some feelings for him by you letting her stay with him might bring out those feelings even more and it is true what you said it is not about trust but respect she sould have never had made that seggestion to to in the frist place if you dont want to lose her i would not do it i hope i was able to help you and Good luck
2007-02-21 02:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by nevaeh_noellie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd be upset, trust or not. If she doesn't have the money for a hotel room, pay for it yourself.
2007-02-21 00:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"She" thought about it and asked your opinion and you said I don't care for that idea and that should have been that.
Period
2007-02-20 23:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋