Family & Relationships - 19 February 2007

im seein a guy casually and wanna know if he is sleepin with anyone else and i was wondering if u think i have a right to ask that question?????

2007-02-19 23:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since I was a little girl I've never really felt feminine or masculine. Sure, I knew I was a girl, but I've never truly felt 100% girly. I'm not gay or anything... its just I feel kinda neutral. I don't feel like a boy. I wear dresses, jewelry, makeup, I just don't wear them all the time, nor do I have a desire to get dressed up. I do have my girly moments, I played with dolls as a child (but not in the sense of a normal girl.. nothing very maternal) but at the same time I also raised toads and had a desire to play boy's games, but nothing too masculine either (like wrestling or football). Its like, you are either one extreme or the other, and I fall in the gap in the middle.

I'm completely straight... I've been around, I've had a boyfriend, I'm female, but I don't feel like one gender or the other most of the time. I usually feel flattered or suprised when someone refers to me as a "she". In my mind, I'm more of an "It"

Does that make any sense?

As far as puberty goes, I was ashamed to grow breasts and have boys pay attention to me... I felt odd and out of place. When the other kids started dating (around middle-school), I never had much of an interest until I was about seventeen (my parents didn't help, whenever I had a male friend over as a child they would always tease me horribly and try to get me to like him). I'm now used to being a full grown woman, and I'm comfortable with it, and I am comfortable with guys (in fact, I love guys)... but I still can't really identify with girls, or anyone for that matter, especially in a social setting. While most girls have crushes on guys, it takes me a good while to find anyone I'm interested in and I usually have to befriend them first and get to know them, I can't pick a "good looking" guy out of a crowd and automatically have a crush on him like my female friends do. And once I like someone, thats that.. I like them, and then I get to know them better and I start loving them.. and it sounds weird but I don't have any desire for anyone else around me.. which is weird, because while my other female friends are in a relationship and they see another guy, they daydream about him, giggle, discuss how cute he is, and sometimes they can't control themselves and have flings. Once I find a guy, I'm set.. I have no desire for another person (romantically) in my life.

What is wrong with me? Am I normal, or is everyone I hang out with different? Is this a hormonal imbalance?

2007-02-19 23:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Shelly Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

well can a small girl love his own uncle???and when she asked to the astrologer about that , some r saying that he loves her physically and some r saying that he loves her and in her astrology chart its also written that there will be a marriage between them !!!!!plzz answer me!!!i need helpppp!!!!!

2007-02-19 23:55:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

2007-02-19 23:54:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How you all keep your marriage alive, sexy and romantic, and does it work?

2007-02-19 23:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-19 23:53:27 · 12 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

any of the problems that he had to cause the situation to start with,What to do should I go back and face the same situation as before? He had a little problem with liking medication too much and he lies to me about even the least thing. I don't think he has ever been completly open with me. Having a conversation with him is like pulling teeth, I have to drag every word out of him and if an issue arises and I address it he gets very defensive and confrontational. I still have some feelings for him afterall we have been together for nearly half our lives and we have children. I don't want things to be the way they were but I really don't know what I should do about the whole thing .The clock is ticking as far as the divorce is concerned, Someone please give me some great advice,!!!!

2007-02-19 23:53:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-19 23:51:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not so muscily. Would maybe loose in an arm wrestling match to them, but is not a wimp. Has a good personality, pretty attractive, and very emotionally concious?

2007-02-19 23:51:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He tells me private things and laughs at almost everything I say. He knows that I have a thing for him. Do you think he's intersted in me too? Last night we were on my phone trying to find a number and we were sitting knee to knee and touching and joking around. I am just so dumb about these things.

2007-02-19 23:50:55 · 12 answers · asked by katieinok94 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-19 23:50:44 · 5 answers · asked by Desi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating an un-happily married man for 6 mo's. I've NEVER done this before. I know it's wrong & it violates my morals, but we have an amazing connection & passion 4 eachother. After the first couple of mo's we fell in love & we'd like 2 get married someday. I'm frustrated & have no idea what 2 do. I know I should end the relationship, but he's in the process of ending the marriage. My friends think once a cheater, always a cheater & he may do the same thing w/me someday- if we stay together. I disagree because I know he married due 2 family pressures & was very young at the time. He says it was a big mistake.(1st gf) He'd like me 2 wait this out w/him. He just started a new career & isn't in a place financially where he can leave right now. He's living w/his wife in her parents rental house & his father-in-law's name in on his cars title. He feels stuck. I want 2 believe I'm not being strung along..He says it could take a few more mo's 2 save money,refi his car,move & divorce.

2007-02-19 23:49:42 · 16 answers · asked by Goodgurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A single friend of mine sent me a personals ad featuring my husband, & I was just wondering how I could find out if he has another email address & how I could find it. I don't have the $ for detectives, etc. Anyone with some help I would sure appreciate it.

2007-02-19 23:49:16 · 3 answers · asked by maria s 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating an un-happily married man for 6 mo's. I've NEVER done this before. I know it's wrong & it violates my morals, but we have an amazing connection & passion 4 eachother. After the first couple of mo's we fell in love & we'd like 2 get married someday. I'm frustrated & have no idea what 2 do. I know I should end the relationship, but he's in the process of ending the marraige. My friends think once a cheater, always a cheater & he may do the same thing w/me someday- if we stay together. I disagree because I know he married due 2 family pressures & was very young at the time. He says it was a big mistake.(1st gf) He'd like me 2 wait this out w/him. He just started a new career & isn't in a place financially where he can leave right now. He's living w/his wife in her parents rental house & his father-in-law's name in on his cars title. He feels stuck. I want 2 believe I'm not being strung along..He says it could take a few more mo's 2 save money,refi his car,move & divorce.

2007-02-19 23:48:25 · 16 answers · asked by Goodgurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this boy from church that I like and I only see him then,how do I talk to him privately?

2007-02-19 23:48:06 · 7 answers · asked by Dianaykj 1 in Singles & Dating

I have "known" this girl for a while but became much closer friends over the past year, we would chat alot at work on msn and email each other and on the phone. we hang out with the same group of friends.It came naturally that I started to like the girl alot too much on the verge of loving her. Supressed feelings of love turns to hate and thats what it turned to. I acted like i didnt like her i acted weird around her i started to seek attention basically I acted like an idiot. I had lost my confidence esteem and self respect. but we were still close. she is a beautiful girl and im not Gods gift to women - too good for me

4 months ago something terrible happened which affected her i didnt deal with it properly and basically we started to part. She doesnt chat to me much now but im desperate to chat to her I care for her so much. but it seems that how I have acted has changed her opinion of me. I regret it. How do I pursue her again? or should I? we were close before. I messed up.

2007-02-19 23:47:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been on Yasmin for 7 months now and have had serious breathing issue (heavy chest) and severe mood swings (border depression). Can this be caused by the pill? I am taking it for my skin, which has gone much better but I dont know if its worth continuing!

2007-02-19 23:44:54 · 11 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my friend alway went to each others house every day but sometimes she says things that really agervate me and she always says what she want no matter what so ive been kinda avoding her because sometimes i want to tell her what i feel when she as my house and if i do i know she'd probley never taalk to me but is this wrong of me i cant tell that she says things that make she mad because she would think i was just being mean she never like to get told shes being mean so what do i do keep avoding her?

2007-02-19 23:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so exite, if have someone i love and say love with me, but if have someone i don't love but he say love with me so hard to explain to him

2007-02-19 23:41:48 · 6 answers · asked by Ahoy 1 in Singles & Dating

cause why there is lot of anxiety, tension, trouble on everybody and everywhere?

2007-02-19 23:41:40 · 21 answers · asked by TWINKLE 1 in Friends

I have a monumental problem and i think i just found out about it. My dad was a wife beaterhe beat my mom up infront of me. It kinda stuck in my head and ever since i have the problem of not dating guys cos of this. im twenty somethin and have NEVER dated. will i ever escape this???

2007-02-19 23:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by Livin lonely 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend most of the time comes across as punk, although she isn't. She is fine most of the day, but I worry at her when she is alone at her house, or even with her parents. Everyone knows she has trouble sleeping and takes cough syrup to sleep. She's told me that the reason she's had trouble sleeping is that she is depressed, and at times mildly suicidal (she has never attempted or done anything EVER, at any time or any place). Recently she tried cutting herself on her legs, but I doubt that she's going to do that again due to her worrying about them later. I've told her to tell her parents. She says she did once, but I think she said something like "I think I might be depressed mom" which doesn't help her mom understand the situation. I told her to tell her again, but she shirks from doing so because her parents (according to her) are mostly the reason she is depressed. She knows that I plan on telling someone if she does something extreme. The question is, when is extreme?

2007-02-19 23:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by ♫ Melody 4 in Friends

2007-02-19 23:37:52 · 14 answers · asked by sue 2 in Weddings

more often i observe she is not happy after the play. wt to do to satisfy her 100%.

2007-02-19 23:37:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On the day of my engagement, i and my fiancee sat whole night alone. we talked whole night and on that day he insisted me for the kiss. i gave him kiss on his cheeks but later he wanted lip kiss and for that i was not ready. As i felt little bit awkward. i had never kissed before. So please tell me what should i do to remove my shyness. He does not wanted to force me. Later i gave him a lip kiss but it was like just to touch the lips nothing else. it was just for a sec. if we would have a long kiss than is there any problem i mean is there any chance of pregnancy.He tells me that now next time when we will meet i should be free to talk freely and not to worry about anything. i felt bad as i was not able to support him. i told him i need a time. The reason he insisted was as we are staying far and we meet only near about 2 months and we have met only twice till today. and this coming May, we are getting married. so is it ok to have physical relationship before marriage. Help me out.

2007-02-19 23:36:47 · 10 answers · asked by blooming_ruby11 1 in Weddings

Ok so say YOU started seein some1 & u connected right from the start u thought they were perfect & visa versa. But the other person wasn't lookin 4 a proper relationship at that stage. (I know some of u will say that is bulls***t! but it does happen I hav felt like that b4 as u just feel that u don't want to hav to answer to anyone & u just don't want to feel tied down at that stage no matter how well u get on wit that person! But what if in the process of u 2 bein 2gether that person messed u about due to the fact that they were confused about what they wanted due to thier inability to commit at the time & in the process hurt u. Would YOU when movin on intend to never b with that person again? Due 2 the fact that they messed u about & didn't put u 1st priority? & if u had gone ur seperate ways & after time the other person HAD realised how much of a quality & asset U are & wanted U bac would you giv them another chance?or would u decline & jus b friends?

2007-02-19 23:35:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I split from my ex a year ago, his choice entirely. He still calls me in the early hours of the morning even though he is apparently with someone else. Why does he do this. He asks about the kids (that he no longer sees), how I am, the pets, if I am seeing anyone etc. Why? I don't hate him, forgiven him and moved on but dont understand why he still contacts me

2007-02-19 23:35:15 · 22 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ello, need some advice, long one this...

Been with a girl for a very long time now, but although i think i love her, it's getting really tedious and more of a chore to keep her happy.

Then recently, a very close friend came back into my life and now i think i'm falling for her. I'm getting indications that she feels the same and i'm just so much more happier being in her company. Although i'm not going to do anything whilst i'm still attached, i just can't stop thinking about her and the times that we've had so far.

Have you been in the predicament in the past? Did it work out for you? I know that it's not fair splitting up with someone to be with someone else, but surely it wouldn't be fair on me if i just carried on being unhappy with her.

TIA

2007-02-19 23:33:03 · 16 answers · asked by A_lil_Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

A semi pro will do - fancy some online dating?

2007-02-19 23:32:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in order to get married in japan, one document is needed from your embassy.. That is proof that you are single at your home country.. Does the city office marriage section checks with the embassy if the letter is authentic or not? Do they call them or fax the letter to them and check it?

2007-02-19 23:32:14 · 1 answers · asked by japanesesensei1967 1 in Marriage & Divorce