Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

my friend (in middle 30) has been dating with the guy (or man) who is 40 something, successful businessman. but he always tells her if she meets the right person, he doesn mind and she can go out with him because he doesnt want to commit himself into the relationship. but he still keeps dating her. if he wants just to sleep with anyone, he can (i mean he is obviously attractive) and i dont know why he wants to keep her. i want to advice my friend that he likes her. but i am not sure. i dont want my friend to get hurt after whatever i say and wont turn out that way. (hope people can understand what i mean) does he consider she is easy? or he has some feeling but he just doesnt know or he doesnt want any pressure from this relationship? could anyone like him advice me what is actually in his mind????

2007-02-18 23:58:43 · 11 answers · asked by honeycoco23 1 in Singles & Dating

I got him something for V-day, but I dont think that he got me anything. Should I still give him my gift to him (nice card & kenneth cole gift card $50)? Or just b/c your have valentine, does that mean that you have to buy a gift?

2007-02-18 23:58:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:57:30 · 11 answers · asked by tyjytj c 1 in Friends

Hi. Im 31 years old, an Indian, living in India. Im single and a virgin. Im hetrosexual. But when I think about marraige, I feel afraid. What if it breaks. Should I marry or remain single? Is live-in relationship a good idea?

2007-02-18 23:56:58 · 19 answers · asked by love32 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf really did gave me a happy surprise on valentine's day...but I still feel that i need to break up with him due to many reasons...its his bday next wednesday....do u think i should bring this out now or wait till after his bday? im confused...

2007-02-18 23:56:51 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:56:27 · 36 answers · asked by tyjytj c 1 in Friends

What do u do when u know that u love your guy...but u keep thinking that,maybe just maybe there is someone else out there who is truly the one? I guess im having doubts but i do love my guy and we been going out for 4yrs nw

2007-02-18 23:55:37 · 8 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got a Boyfriend he and I been going out, and I really have feelings for him and he has feelings for me to(that is what he told me). Then I get a Phone call from my Best Guy Friend saying that"Your boyfriend and I were at a Bar togeter,then your boyfriend got drunk and had Sex with anouther girl"! I could not believe it so then I hung up not knowing what to believe then I get a phone call from the girl she said" I just had sex with your Boyfriend and I'm way better then you"! Then she hung up,I was going to get the number but she must of blocked me before I could get it.
So I don't know weather to report this to the police,go find my boyfriend or call my best guy friend???? I need help!? Fast!

2007-02-18 23:54:38 · 21 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to the man i like and i was naked,but comfortable at the same time.He didn't really seem to notice. I then put some clothes on and i was talking to him again and he was smiling and then i realised my ring was missing.He then gave me the ring and it was bent out of shape. He put it back into shape and i put it on my finger. what do you think this means?

2007-02-18 23:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it peaceful or dull or meaningless?

2007-02-18 23:50:34 · 15 answers · asked by P S 4 in Singles & Dating

My good friend of mine died about 2 years ago. Since then I have become really good friends with his wife. She has not started dating again at all, she has said she is not ready. But I think I am in love with her and I don't kow if I should tell her or not?

2007-02-18 23:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by lawguyalek 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:50:01 · 2 answers · asked by babamitch 1 in Singles & Dating

we were together fo 6 years i was about to ask her to marry me on new years day. I caught her out xmas day

2007-02-18 23:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by GEORGE N 1 in Singles & Dating

and asks if you will go with him,does that mean there is some attraction/interest there? He also tells me if he has been thinking about me.Tells me about his friends and himself. I really like him and i felt the attraction from him before i did but i could have been wrong. Sometimes it seems pretty intense and then other times it laid back between us.

2007-02-18 23:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

Depressed please help?
I am very depressed lately. My best friend is mad at me. I broke up with a guy I really like to g oout with my exboyfriend to try and help him. I liked Matt and now I am with Paul. My best friend is so mad at me for sometihng I did not even do. My friend Jackie says there is a lot of reasons why she is mad at me. I am just so unhappy. What should I do to become happ agian

2007-02-18 23:45:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I caught my husband rec. porn on our dvr?
and it hurt me so bad. We just got married in November (I'm 20 he's 21) I confronted him about it upset and he said that if he knew it bothered me he would have never done it. Now I know what your thinking she must be fat and cant fill his needs well I'm not! my husband tells me how good I am all the time and I weigh 130 lbs and I'm 5 foot 3. Do I have the right to be upset?

2007-02-18 23:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to have sex with my partner but we do it once or twice a week. Mostly he doesn't seem he has the interest. In what way can I show him my interest to do sex with him. Specially womens please help me.

2007-02-18 23:41:43 · 17 answers · asked by PITTY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am looking for a nice sincere girl to marry, then i come across russian marriage bureaus..who claim to introduce good girls, who charge something.., so can i trust these agencies..? thanks

2007-02-18 23:40:58 · 20 answers · asked by ex_m. thank God 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my gril of 8 years. we have 2 kids. the last kid we had 1half years ago.i know 110%she would not cheat on me. since our last kid we have only made it 5 times. the past 2 we just get started she makes me stop. she gets dry to the point it hurts her i guess.she dont like having me eat her. she dont suck me. so that dont leave me any optons for what i want. shes telling me the last kid messed up her drive. could i just be that bad all the sudin? or what is her problm? i try to talk to he about it . she keps teling me the dry hurts and she has a fear of geting knoked up again! i bought some ky one day and she fliped out on me. she clames she dont like that stuff. how can she know when shes not triying it. im the only guy she has ever ben with.we met when we wear 20 we are 28 now. i need to kow what to do to get it going again.i cant take it no more. starting to feal like just a room mate. if she makes me stop one more time and dont do any thing to finish me off. i will leave. HELP ME !!!!!

2007-02-18 23:37:54 · 12 answers · asked by farm_boy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:37:13 · 23 answers · asked by Caroline 1 in Singles & Dating

i have had four friends turn out to be only looking for a way to get money from me or try and get my personal info,These men say they love you ,and pretend that they believe that god is making all this happen.When i start to care alot thats when they always come up with this,I am losing faith that there are any good men on the net!Help me spot the losers.

2007-02-18 23:36:46 · 10 answers · asked by auburn_haired_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I've an onlune friend with whom I chat very often. We've exchanged our number & talked once.
Sometimes she gives me missed calls. When asked her why, she said just like that.
Does giving a missed call means, she is missing me?

2007-02-18 23:36:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is so complicated but i guess there has to be someone out there that has been through something similar ( i hope)
I have a guy in my life that i would do anything for, he is my best friend, my daughter's father, he makes me laugh, he is a great listener all in all a great guy.
BUT.. he won't committ to a long term relationship because he was so badly burned by his ex
I have heard all the details by now (i won't bore you with him) but suffice it to say it was bad)
Now, i understand why he is afraid to committ, he thinks i'll do the same to him as she did, but the thing is i wouldn't, over the last 6 years i have been 100% faithful to him, i would never ever hurt him deliberately i tell him everything i never lie in short i would never do to him what she did but i cannot seem to convince him! We are together now 7 years and we have a good relationship but i want something more (like living together for a start) what can i do????

2007-02-18 23:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by angel31 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Obviously I know his name and I know that he lives in California .

2007-02-18 23:35:19 · 1 answers · asked by Doost Irooni 1 in Friends

I seriously need genuine answer to my following question. I can pay money (in US dollar) for your answer.The question however sough answers from girls but guys can also give their important opinion.
How likely is it for a girl who knows that her hubby is faithful to her and wont ever be in sexual relationshit with any other girl, to fell in with some guy and may have sexual act with him.
(may be coz the girl isnt sexually satisfied but however she knows the fact that her hubby loves her too much.) can the girl still betray his hubby?
What it could have been with you?
Try thinking yourself to be in that girl's position yourself and answer it please.

2007-02-18 23:35:15 · 20 answers · asked by Bill Clinton 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've irritated my frnd a lot and she sits next to me in class now because i irritated her a lot.....she wants to change the place and i don't want this to happen please help!!

2007-02-18 23:35:04 · 17 answers · asked by coolgal 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

to take a women on a date?

2007-02-18 23:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by JORDAN 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my wife for 1 year, but married for 4 mos. For little over a year, my wife has not been in the mood to make love, she has given me excuse after excuse, put blame on me, promises to go to consouling but never does. I have felt the physical pain of not having sex, and the emotional pain of not making love or other intimacies with my woman. She has many ways to manuver out of sex, drinking, falling asleep, promises for another day that never comes, going to bed exhaused to claim too tired for sex, picking out every little thing that gets on her nerves just before going to bed. I sick of it. I have talked to her about it to I'm blue in the face. I have gone through emotions from does this woman love me?, is she cheating? Do I not turn her on?, we had a tremendos sex life whats wrong now? I need love and sex, truthfully I'm looking now, I don't want to cheat on my wife, I love her but I can't live life like this. Should I let her know I reached my wits end or just do

2007-02-18 23:33:49 · 13 answers · asked by SO SO TIERD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HE TAKES HER MONEY AN BRINGS A LOOK LIKE CHILD MOLLESTERS AROUND . HES GONE FOR DAYS AT A TIME AN DOES CRACK SHELL SAY SHES DONE THEN GOES WRITE BACK TO HIM. I FEAR THAT HE WOULD HURT ME IF GAVIN THE CHANCE . HE SPIES ON ME AN I BELEIVE HE HAS AN KNOW IN SOME OCC.HAS USED ALOT OF PEOPLES ID'S THE COURT KNOWS SOME . BUT I BELIEVE THER E ISALOT MORE.HE IS NOT FROM OUR HOMETOWN

2007-02-18 23:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by kathy h 1 in Family

mysterious

2007-02-18 23:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating