Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

I work with this guy. Supposedly he had his friend come up to me and ask me if I was single. I say yes. I give his friend my number. This guy who is supposed to like me calls me but I am at work. and I come home late. The next day I see him at work and I asked him what he wanted to talk about. He says well my friend just gave me your number and said to call and he repoeated this twice and walked away fast. What's going on? Does he like me or not? I really dont think the friend weas just trying to match make. So, now I hear from his friend who is married that this guy likes me alot and he give me tips on how to attract him, and what he likes but this guy is still acting brisk with me even though sometimes I know he is aware of me. And I know they aren't playing little kid games. They are older guys. I' 22 and the guy who likes me is 47. what kind of game is this? Can I get some feedback please? I dont even know if I should pursue this because of the age difference, but he makes me laugh

2007-02-18 19:20:44 · 4 answers · asked by Silver 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by M A 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known him for a year after 2 mths we were best friends. This August he left for California for school. [I live on Long Island, NY] He has an apartment out there so he's staying for the 4 years of school. I've been planning a trip out there after the semester is over for a month [middle of May-middle of June] Lately, there's been much discussion about how we're friends. And just friends. He's always brought this up, not me. But he'll say he loves me. Like at the end of a phone conversation. I never know what to say, I've always reserved that for someone I'm romantically involved with. Then tonight after not really talking the past 4 days, I call him and ask him why he's been weird the past couple days. He ends the conversation abruptly, saying he had nothing to say and would call me when he did. He called back a minute later and apologized for being so mean. After that he tells me he's "crazy about me". I don't know how to interpret it. I've been in love w/him since the day we met.

2007-02-18 19:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:19:08 · 46 answers · asked by oneslovakgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents have fixed up my marriage with a man i don't like much.

I tried explaining to them that I find the thought of being marrying him uncomfortable as I don't like him. But they told me that new brides need to adjust & that it is a good match & it is for the best-so I need to get over those feelings & accept him for who he is.

In addition, he lives far off compared to where I stay. If I get married to him, I'll also have to leave my job as he's in another city. Though I do not earn much, I like my job. It makes me feel good about myself.

My question is this:
1. Is it worth running away from home, keep my job but live a harder life but independently OR
2. Is it better to compramise, live with someone I don't like but live in a comfortable house?

Please don't be judgemental about my character/ my parents...i'm seeking solutions, not opinions. Also please don't lecture me about how its 2007.

Your answers could help me make the most important decision of my life.

2007-02-18 19:18:19 · 22 answers · asked by tina t 1 in Weddings

how would you define love... what is it to you?

2007-02-18 19:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by RaiN 1 in Singles & Dating

I see girls all the time whine about how their boyfriends are pressuring them for sex or other bizzare things. It's wrong what their boyfriends are doing but what I don't get I see them a month later and they are STILL complaing. I don't get why teenage girls put up with this much crap. I think like 50% of the girls will accept the relationships they are in for a number of months yet all they do is complaing how crappy it is and how miserable they are.

2007-02-18 19:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by T boy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by ying y 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

some 1 i like alot has this huge mental block....what i mean is he is not sensitive to other peoples feelings and has no sensitivity of his own....nil and that kind of freaks me out......i like him 4 hu he is but this 1 thing gets so annoying sometimes and once i tried talking about it 2 him and he kind of insulted me.....wat should i do??

2007-02-18 19:13:09 · 4 answers · asked by Aitannaa ツ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 years old, junior in college, working part time at a grocery store. To put it bluntly, I have no real friends. There's a bunch of people who I talk to at school and work, but they all have their own groups of friends, and I'm basically left out. I've been this way my entire life, and I've pretty much accepted that as being reality for me. I've been out with one girl (a coworker from the grocery store) in december and we were talking on the phone for a few weeks. Then in January, she just stopped calling whereas she'd been calling me like crazy for a couple weeks. Turns out she got pregnant by some other guy. Now, I'm over her, and we're cool now. Ever since I went out with her, my self confidence around people has skyrocketed, but I don't know what to do with it. I've never been able to just talk to people before, and now I sort of can. What should I do? How does one make friends? How does dating really work?
I know I'm a loser, don't mention it.
Sorry for wasting your time

2007-02-18 19:12:54 · 15 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

Greece...(as in grease)

I made this one up, pass it on.

2007-02-18 19:11:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cuz I can't get any of my guy friends to spend the night with me lol they either respect me too much or something.

And you guys say any guy would jump at that chance. Bull lol.

2007-02-18 19:11:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just want to know why this fetish seems so different from the others. Everybody likes something but I think this guy has gone too far. He bought a pair of high heels for his own pleasure maybe he said he wanted me to wear them.

2007-02-18 19:10:39 · 2 answers · asked by Just Curious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a very wonderful guy (#1) right now and we might get engaged soon. But lately we have been arguing a lot. At the same time I have been thinking of this other guy (#2). This guy (#2) I met a few years ago and we never dated, but I always wanted to. He ended up becoming engaged to this other girl. Recently they broke it off because she cheated on him. This girl wouldn't let me and him be friends because she knew that I still had feelings for him and for some reason was paranoid that I would take him away from her, even though I was completely happy with someone else. Anyways, I think I have feelings for him because I never got to experience a relationship with him. And he has feelings for me too. But at the same time things seem to work better as friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship that we have. I love guy #1 more than words can express but our relationship seems to be getting old and we are annoyed with each other and argue all the time. Any advice anyone?

2007-02-18 19:09:25 · 16 answers · asked by Kace06 1 in Singles & Dating

this was one guy talking to another trying to see if the other had slept with me...the full comment was: "have you slept with her yet?a guy could get lost in a girl like that. Note that I haven't slept with either of them. what did he mean?

2007-02-18 19:08:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:08:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that women are most likely to cheat. They say men are dogs. Well, women are like cats, they're sneaky. They'll have sex with another guy and then come and sit on your lap and purr like everything's normal. LOL Nasty Bi**hes! LOL Has anybody seen the movie "Unfaithful" with Richard Gere? I can't believe he took that h*e back too. What a dumb a$$! She was at it hard with that guy too! I hate shows like Desperate Housewives too. It's saying it's o.k. to cheat on your husband, that sh*t ain't cool either. If I was a husband on that show. I'd probably be going to prison if I EVER caught my b*tch screwing around. I'll do the time. LOL You don't play around with people's feelings. People learn the hard way though. Ever seen a "Thin line between love and hate" with Martin Lawrence in it? UmmmHmmmm.....LOL

2007-02-18 19:06:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For some unknown reason, I feel someone if not you has been having me on all this time. If I find out, someone is going to be VERY sorry when I get hold of them, whoever they are OK?

2007-02-18 19:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by jane b 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's this guy that i have laid my eyes on, but he's a year younger than me. But i think he's cute and all. I don't know if i like him or not. but i need some advice to if i should talk to him or not. i don't even know him know him. i just know his face, name, and that he's goes to my school. What should I say to him? I see him after second period and at lunch, but i want to talk to him and get to be friends with him. I'm not expecting to be his GF or anything. Hmmm. what do you guys think? do you think i should compliment about him or something? any advice? but the thing that is really confusing is that whenever we see pass each other after second period, he always stares at me or just keeps looking at me. im confused. and our eyes have met many times(i tend to look at him too). any ideas what is going on? so my questions are, What shoul di say to him and what is going on wiht this guy ?

2007-02-18 19:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by fudge 1 in Singles & Dating

Filipinos cant.. should follow the last name of their moms..

2007-02-18 19:04:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello again everyone. I took my girl out on Saturday night. I gave her a flower, told her she looked nice, and then before she got out of the truck, I told I had a nice time. Well while we were in the restaurant, I could tell that she was nervous. I know I don't need to pressure her into anything. My question is, why do you think she was nervous, and how long should I wait to ask her on a nother date? Any info would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in andvance,

Matt

2007-02-18 19:02:20 · 9 answers · asked by Matt from Ga 2 in Singles & Dating

nearly all my friends have problems and most trust me but i have a problem and that is how can i help them when they dont want to tell me everything... they will tell me most thins but not the info that i need to help them and than when i cant help them they get all pissed off at me

what do i do???

2007-02-18 19:01:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bro-in-law has 2 kids w/an ex-wife.He also has one w/an ex-gf. He recently asked the court to lower his child support 'cause the job he has after coming back from Iraq pays less than what he was getting in the military, and his ex-wife makes more than him. When he petitioned for lower CS it apparently encompasses all 3 kids. His ex-gf is mad because she thinks she'll get less $, which isn't true since she gets welfare.As a result, she is now w/holding visitation. He hasn't been able to see his daughter in about a month. He doesn't have extra $ to hire a lawyer, so I'm wondering what resources are out there for him. He's normally a very strong person but when that subject came up he walked out 'cause he was starting to cry. She's basically using this as leverage because she can't have him back. Any ideas for his options that won't cost too much since he doesn't have much as it is? He's NOT trying to get out of paying, just lower it some.(BTW, we're in Cali if that makes a difference)

2007-02-18 19:01:46 · 15 answers · asked by davega7 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my lover,in my point of view she is so open to all and not only to me alone!but when i asked her about this she told shes open only to me!but i want to know if shes having more freedon with her male freinds...the problem is she is not with me,i mean we are not in same place or counrty how can i know her more deep..how to understand how she behaves to her male friends...is she discussin bot every matter like she is discussin to me...we hav daily chats and phone calls is that enough to keep a relationship? please help me.if girls answers that will be more helpful,,,be serious

2007-02-18 19:01:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you really think its about the money or is that just how it seems? but if not then why do they act like all they care about is money? do you think it makes other women look bad?

2007-02-18 19:00:32 · 20 answers · asked by comacati 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a husband. no job. a preacher .. Im catholic. He does not earn anything from preaching cos he's s starter. He doesnt want to look for a job. he stays in house and take care of our child.. he depends on what his family can offer any amount to him which is not right cos he's married. Im working and us living with my mom. yeah.. my mom spends everything that we eat. he cant look for a job here in our town. i think he doesnt like working away from us.... Is he right thinking of this??

2007-02-18 19:00:07 · 13 answers · asked by pato29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 18:59:56 · 3 answers · asked by sweetsal 4 in Singles & Dating

Was 6 months cheating with his ex-gf & a handjob from a friend of his ex, as well as a couple coed group things.
I found out from a friend, not him, and from his ex herself. And he had lied about it until I told him that his ex had explicitly told me what happened. When told, he broke down crying while I was crying, wouldn't let me touch him because he said he was unclean, let me take a LOT of day-after-finding-out rage out on him physically (slaps-backhand and front, punches, a kick, etc), and now is very good about saying what he's doing, is very kind, very patient, but kindof expecting me to move on for us to move on, which is a little pressuring.

We've talked lots about marriage and kids (even though we're in our teens), and had been together 5 months before the 6 month cheating period and 3 or so months afterwards.Always been good friends besides lovers, never bored. Should I give it a 2nd try and trust him? We really did seem happy & in love, was it just a stupid 1 time mistake?

2007-02-18 18:59:30 · 1 answers · asked by primapeache 2 in Singles & Dating

will it change my life
will i marry him
ur opinions pls

2007-02-18 18:57:00 · 18 answers · asked by ChatJ 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically, i'm outgoing enough with the friends i have and people i warm up too. i know i'm funny and people like me, but i'm too opposite of that with new people. especially the fems, and that really what i'm more concerened about. i can talk to guys, but you know, who can't? and i know i'm not the only one like that in my family, but if anyone can give me tips other than just sucking it up and being a man, because i got that part already. so far, for me that's like telling a smoker to quit cold turkey. it can get rough for me.

any advice you can give on here, or you can IM me:
donttrustsheep (that's yahoo). I would like to talk about it with anyone who thinks they can help or advice, but leaving answers on here is cool the same. thanks.

2007-02-18 18:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by donttrustsheep 3 in Singles & Dating