Ok, so there's this guy that i have laid my eyes on, but he's a year younger than me. But i think he's cute and all. I don't know if i like him or not. but i need some advice to if i should talk to him or not. i don't even know him know him. i just know his face, name, and that he's goes to my school. What should I say to him? I see him after second period and at lunch, but i want to talk to him and get to be friends with him. I'm not expecting to be his GF or anything. Hmmm. what do you guys think? do you think i should compliment about him or something? any advice? but the thing that is really confusing is that whenever we see pass each other after second period, he always stares at me or just keeps looking at me. im confused. and our eyes have met many times(i tend to look at him too). any ideas what is going on? so my questions are, What shoul di say to him and what is going on wiht this guy ?
2007-02-18 19:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by fudge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.... just start making small talk with him and then that will help break the ice...find out what some of his interests are like does he like sports if so what kind and what teams does he like??? Then go from there.....if you know he likes a certain sport start making small talk about that like for instance if he likes football and say his favorite team is say oh the Chargers then make a comment like "Im sure glad I like them 49ers" just to see what he would say---- or maybe you could compliment him on his outfit.....
Good Luck
2007-02-18 19:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm in highschool and I'm a guy. I'm kinda in the same situation. Anyway, if your eyes had met then it probably means that you're in his mind! Anyway just be like "hey, I notice you like everyday in the hallway..would you mind having lunch with me?"....if you two can have a conversation then it will only be the beginning...from there you know.....
If you'll never talk to him then you'll never know if there had been a chance for a friendship....take the chance....the worst that could happen is that you'll find out that he really isn't the guy you'de wanna be friends with.
Also, there's definitly no reason for you to be afraid cause he'll be complimented by having a girl that's a year older than him talk to him. Hid freinds will be jealous!
2007-02-18 19:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Pro90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if you both have a mutual attraction for one another. I would suggest that you just go up and say, "well, since you and I are always looking at each other, I thought I'd introduce myself to you. My name is _____." And Smile!!! He'll probably feel like fainting, because he's probably a little shy, but that's OK. Start talking about your school or mutual subjects taken or teachers, ask him if he's into sports or what he does outside from school. Talk about mutual interests, anyone you may both know...just build on the casual conversations and go from there. If he likes you, I'm sure he'll probably follow up with you. Just keep it simple and casual, friendly and all, things should be fine.
2007-02-18 19:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anything that he is interested in that you have seen? Does he play any sports or anything like that? That is the easiest way to find something to talk about, have something in common. If you are just wanting to be friends with him then you need to be a buddy instead of a girl that is too scared to talk to someone. The fact that he is a year younger shouldn't matter. If he is someone that you think would be fun to hang out with then do it. No one else can tell you how to be happy.
2007-02-18 19:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and say hello to him. I did the same thing to a guy in high school who was a year younger then me. I always smiled at him every time I saw him then one day we met up both late getting to class when he said "hi" to me. From then on when ever we met up we said hello to each other. Finally got together after I graduated for a short time. But you will never know until you try either smiling or saying hello.
2007-02-18 19:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys keep looking at each other after 2nd period, maybe he likes you too. Maybe you should ask him if he wants to have lunch with you one day. Tell him he's cute and you want to get to know him. I've been out of High School for 6 years, so I really don't remember how we used to talk to guys! LOL Do you know any of his friends? If so maybe tell one of them that you like him. Maybe put a note in his locker.
2007-02-18 19:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Hi and would you like to help me with something just make sure you do it slow and then later on ask him if he would like to hang out that would be good I think.
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2007-02-18 22:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Taarnick Nolth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know i some what have the same problem except we are the same age. and well I'm not one of those girls that stare. i don't know why but I'm not like that. i cant really help but to say bye.
2007-02-18 19:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you have to do is just say hi to him, and maybe by that you can see his personality (i can read it when i talk to someone) i think you can do that too,,..
2007-02-18 19:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Shemei Carter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋