I work with this guy. Supposedly he had his friend come up to me and ask me if I was single. I say yes. I give his friend my number. This guy who is supposed to like me calls me but I am at work. and I come home late. The next day I see him at work and I asked him what he wanted to talk about. He says well my friend just gave me your number and said to call and he repoeated this twice and walked away fast. What's going on? Does he like me or not? I really dont think the friend weas just trying to match make. So, now I hear from his friend who is married that this guy likes me alot and he give me tips on how to attract him, and what he likes but this guy is still acting brisk with me even though sometimes I know he is aware of me. And I know they aren't playing little kid games. They are older guys. I' 22 and the guy who likes me is 47. what kind of game is this? Can I get some feedback please? I dont even know if I should pursue this because of the age difference, but he makes me laugh
2007-02-18 19:20:44 · 4 answers · asked by Silver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's wrong with being straight forward and talking to him. Maybe (almost certainly) he is of telling you and being laughed at. Come on, the guy is much older than you. Do you think he is confident that you will say yes? Almost certainly not!
Just do it! Tell him how you feel. What's the worst that could happen?
2007-02-18 20:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you. What 47 year old man wouldn't like a 22 year old girl? Come on. He's obviously extremely shy around you and likely a little concious of the social overtones of asking out a girl young enough to be his daughter. Are there no other single men in this town? I'm sure you could fin a guy under 30 that can make you laugh.
2007-02-19 03:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAAAMMN!! He is WAY old! Perhaps he is very nervous about the age difference. If I was you, I'd try to meet someone in their late 20's, who is still young, has established themselves financially, and most likely has more compatibility with you. Remember, the 47 year old is from another generation. His ideas and your ideas are different because of the different cultures he grew up in and you and I grew up in.
2007-02-19 03:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Vince Russo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. did you say 47??
does he seem mature enough for it to even work out because you're saying that he is trying to play games??
if not then
boys will be boys
2007-02-19 03:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by justine2j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋