Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

2007-02-18 19:42:14 · 11 answers · asked by frosty t 1 in Singles & Dating

im going out with a guy since da last 2 months...i just like him i dont love him....the problem is dat im working while hes not...and im studying also...n hence im nt able to make time for him...but he constantly keeps calling me up...n if i dont pick his calls he calls up my frnds n sometimes even at my workplace...this really irritates me...if i dont speak to him he tells me things like ill die right now if u dont call me up...or he tells his friends to make me understand....what has his frnds go 2 do in our relationship?????.....he behaves so kiddish sometimes.....just few hours back he called up my bst frnd n told her to tell me 2 spk to him....why his he behaving like dis???? should i break off with him??????sometimes he even tells me to leave my job 4 him...i cant do dat i hv to support my family n my younger brother

2007-02-18 19:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I hooked up, just for one night, and it was so passionate. When I said I still love him he just replied, I know. He then says I mustn't expeact too much from him? But he can phone me out of the blue for a drink and I must just go? Its silly coz I miss him so much so I go. He acts like he still cares, but he cant verbalize it. Why does he do that? We've been split up for 5 months now after a 3 year relationship. He loved me once. Or at least he said he did. Now I dont know what to do. Do I hang around hopeing he sorts himself out? Do I give him the space he wants? But at the same time I suffer because I miss him so much? Iv tried letting go and I just cant. For once I want to think with my heart and not with my head.

2007-02-18 19:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5 in Singles & Dating

im 31, my boyfriend is 33. we have been dating for 4 years, and living together for 1 year. i love him very much and would like to get married to him, and start a family soon. he says he doesnt feel ready to get married and that he doenst know when he will feel ready. he also says he cant live with the pressure of knowing i want to get married and he doesnt. i dont know what to do, i came all the way from south america to live with him in europe. i dont know if i should just pack and go back home or wait around and see if he changes his mind. im so lost. what do you think? we have has this conversation 100 times and every time he says he is not ready!!!!

2007-02-18 19:39:49 · 19 answers · asked by dear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

blue monday blues....who's feeling blue?

2007-02-18 19:37:04 · 8 answers · asked by totaly confused 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this really hot guy in one of my classes! i can already tell that hes a major player but he always calls me sexy and beautiful and it always makes me fall for him. ive only heard him say that to one girl in that class and he called her sexy but i know she would never go out with him. hes a major flirt but not just to me. i know he had a 2 year relationship with a girl so he can commit. but im just scared to fall for him and him end up cheating on me. im not sure if he wants to go out with me. it seems like he wants to be friends with benifits. im confused. should i trust him? my sisters boyfriend was a player when they started dating but she changed him and now hes a one girl guy. could i change him like my sister changed her boyfriend? i like him so much and i dont know what to do!?!?!

2007-02-18 19:36:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy and we get along great! and in the past i have been very premiscuous, he doesnt know that, but after all that i dont want just the hit and run kinda thing, how do i sit him down and ask casually what we r all about? oh and by the way we have already .... "yeah" and we still talk and everything

2007-02-18 19:35:18 · 9 answers · asked by princess_prtty 1 in Singles & Dating

Real friends. How do I figure out why I'm no one's choice to hang out with?

2007-02-18 19:34:24 · 12 answers · asked by Bart Simpson 2 in Friends

2007-02-18 19:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Ren 1 in Singles & Dating

while havin sex...my husband wants me to do oral for him..while i ask him to do the same for me he says that there is smell in my genitals....to avoid the stench what shall i do? is there any cream i can use to avoid the smell.I alwys wash my intimate areas with soap after every activity...still he complains is there anything i can do to make him happy while doin oral?

2007-02-18 19:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

Im always angry always yelling and stuff...(im 11 and punched my 8 year old bro in the face!) dont wont counsling..

2007-02-18 19:32:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if there is no sex then life is empty do couple separate because of lack of sex

2007-02-18 19:32:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 19:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by BAMA G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:31:43 · 15 answers · asked by maulik s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What can I say that doesn't come across as too aggressive. Like the type of thing that after I say it the girl thinks I'm sweet but can tell I didn't go out of my way to think up a real nice compliment.

aka, what to compliment and not make it look like you're tryin too hard

2007-02-18 19:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by x88x 2 in Singles & Dating

hey this is really sad but i live in a town that has tons of married men an the girls at the college outnumber the guys 3 to 1. As you can tell we dont really have alot to choose from. But here it is. I am 22 and I have never kissed a guy. How am I supposed to learn? I feel so stupid. Do i ask a guy to teach me? Is that sexy?

2007-02-18 19:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by Silver 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this other girl, and this other girl likes me. i know the girl i like doesnt like me, and i have never had someone like me before, i feel guilty going out with this girl but i kinda of want to because i will barely ever get the oppurtutnity to come again for a girl to tell me she likes me. i feel guilty for kinda using this girl. i will reat her with respect but i mean i dont really have that kind of feelings for her. should i go out with her or just tell her the truth?

2007-02-18 19:29:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl, she is in a relationship i know she does not enjoy..there are things that make her happy..but its the fact the person she is seeing a very huge verbal abuser..doesnt pay attention to her..doesnt give her the attention she needs..this guy is a complete A**. he only is into her for the sex, she needs love. she needs a better man..and i want to be that better man..iam that better man.. What could I do to get her to see the better things at life and that "I" would be the better thing she needs..Without begging her to leave? How could i show her in actions not words that what your missing is right in front of you...ME!

2007-02-18 19:28:56 · 15 answers · asked by veryconfused 1 in Friends

2007-02-18 19:28:05 · 16 answers · asked by krtny_adams 1 in Friends

A few years back I was aproached by a girl claiming she was going to be w/ my ex forever. And she went on to talk about marriage, children, etc. My ex told her about me, thats how she knows me. Now recently she approached me to show me their child. Was she being nice or proving to me things went as she/they planned?

2007-02-18 19:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Singles & Dating

compliment or insult?

2007-02-18 19:27:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:26:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've met a guy 1 month ago and we started dating almost right away.After 3 weeks of dates, a lot of kissing, massage...we had sex.The sex was okay and that's why I was surprised when the day after he started ignoring me.I should mention that we work together;I'm his supervisor, so we see a lot of each other and I am older than him(I'm late 20s and he's early 20s) Now, he avoids me.He talks to me only when he has to.When I asked him why he reacted this way,he said he didn't know.He said he was worried of what other people could start saying about us.He also said he didn't want a relationship which is fine by me,I don't want 1 either.I tried to talk to him twice, but 2 times were very frustrating as he didn't say anything.I asked him why he has been treating me this way,and he couldn't say anything.I am really hurt by his attitude.I feel like he doesn't care about me and it hurts.Btw, I don't have friends here, I'm new to this city, so I have no one to talk to.What can I do?

2007-02-18 19:26:13 · 19 answers · asked by clueless_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had my adorable son all day and he has been really clingy today and I'm just having some down time. My husbands upstairs 'cos' he's wonderful looking after him and I can hear that bub is getting a bit cranky. Should I go up and retrieve bubba or take a few moments to myself?

2007-02-18 19:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

allllllll the boys like her im like the second pretiest girl or i think the prettiest girl ever

2007-02-18 19:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know this is a cheesy question, but me and a friend joke about it all the time. For me:

1. Glasses (not wire rimmed)
2. Uniform
3. Ability to play the piano

and so on.... what for you?

2007-02-18 19:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:21:56 · 20 answers · asked by moparts_24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for apprx. 5months and we are in a long distance relationship. I met him through his sister while I was at college and started to talking through email and phone calls. We decided to start dating and now it seems like he never wants to talk to me. We used to have such good convos but now we dont. When we around each other he holds my hand but doesnt want to kiss me. It think about breaking up with him but it hurts too much to think about that. I do not know where our relationship is going and it feels as if we just dont have a spark anymore. I love him so much but yet my mind wonders if I could really handle being with him for much longer. Is it the distance or have we lost that intial spark. He says he loves me all the time but rarely shows it. I didnt even get anything for valentines day until two mins. before it was over and even then it was a cute but lame e-card. I do love him but I dont know what to to do. Any advice would be helpful now...

2007-02-18 19:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by lalalapia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 19:21:01 · 18 answers · asked by oneslovakgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about a month. We have never had sex, but he spends the night sometimes. This morning he found a used condom on the floor by my bed. I told him that he was the only person I was dating, and that the condom was my brother's condom from 2 nights ago, but he says he feels awkward. He said that he would call, but he hasnt.

2007-02-18 19:20:49 · 19 answers · asked by symone 1 in Singles & Dating