Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

can some one please help me and my girls, i really need to find a place wear we can go and not be found from my husband and we need to do this soon and with out him finding out, can some please tell me if there are people we can go to, to dissaper with out him finding out, thankyou for any help

2007-02-14 23:59:32 · 19 answers · asked by sharon w 1 in Friends

in the last year I have gained about 20 lbs+ (that I had just lost) I have allowed my house to become completely out of order, its messy and only cleaned up for guests and then only areas that they will visit. My bedroom is totally out of order theres clothes everywhere, and I wont even sleep in it. I have also this past year began going to the casino with all my extra money. My emotional , and physical relationship with my husband is suffering. I am a religious woman and I go to Church faitfully, and have never had these issues before, I have always kept a clean house and my Spirtual life has been great since I have been in Church for the last 8 years until last year. I have big plans to change things but no motivation to do so Whats wrong with me.?

2007-02-14 23:57:34 · 15 answers · asked by overcomern07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a man's mother was stoic, hard nosed, always putting him down, making him feel useless etc.....does this have any bearing on how a man treats his women? let me hear ya?

2007-02-14 23:56:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 23:55:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 23:53:05 · 21 answers · asked by purpledog 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is very shy he never cry for 7yrs hes has alot of anger in him he has sean poeple but they are put it down to him to being so far behind at school and my 2 outher boys are behind at school and they don't go on like him and does'nt sleep in his own bed

2007-02-14 23:52:03 · 11 answers · asked by jane hall 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is suspecting that im cheating on him with a guy from work which im not. Me and the guy from work is just good friends. How can i convince my bf that there is nothing going on between the two of us without getting angry or iritated. my bf will phone at work and when i dont answer he would be like - so you enjoy your "friend". This is realy starting to hurt me i just want to let him know that he is the only one i want

2007-02-14 23:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Singles & Dating

anyone else like a zombie today.........?!!

2007-02-14 23:51:13 · 22 answers · asked by Dolly 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 23:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by chilledbeer 1 in Singles & Dating

i lost £2,000 on the horses today and i need to get £500 back to pay my mortgage. i dont want my wife and kids to lose their house

2007-02-14 23:48:25 · 24 answers · asked by on every street 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need help on pleasing my bf, on technique eating the banana,and working with the walnuts?

2007-02-14 23:48:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i were jobless and you are a lady
would you marry ME?

wel-come

2007-02-14 23:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by wel-come 2 in Singles & Dating

Well we went out for 5 1/2 monthes but he broke up with me about 4 monthes ago. However we've remained close friends, we still talk on the phone nearly everynight theres no one i'm closer to. In our talk last night i learned a few things, he thought that it was only going to be a break and we'd get back together(however he started dating this girl, whos kinda a ****,but there completly over now), he thought it would seem like he just broke up with me to be with her. He says that his feelings for me are a kind of friendship love. He says his love only changes 3 times, from just liking someone, to love, to just friendship love. He says that we won't date again, but then he goes and says stuff like, were basicaly still dating(refering to the hours on the phone and hanging out etc.) He said that we are defiently still attached to each other, if he wasn't he wouldn't be up till 12:30 on the phone with me when we both need to get up at 6 he wants to have sex with me too and i do to, but i really want him back, as my boyfriend, how can i make him like me in that way againhe broke up with me because he didn't belive i loved him and he didn't think it was going anywhere, the second one i've proved wrong but he still doesn't belive i love him

2007-02-14 23:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends boyfriend threatens her in way unimaginable to any one . he says he will kill her ,catch her asleep and slice her throat. he once said he would mess with her breaks so they would go out on her going down the road . every thing you even think of . she even taped his conversation with her. he found it . told her that if she truly wanted him gone that she would sign everything over to her or pay him 20,000 to make him leave. she called a lawyer and he really could not tell her anything.she did manage to make him leave once and he sat across the road and watched her every move.he told her that if he caught her at anything that he would kill her and whom ever . she runs a day care in her home , that puts the children in danger. he makes real good money and so does she . what would you do ?

2007-02-14 23:47:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well over the weekend some girl called my phone playing on it at 1st. Then she called me back saying bouth of use cant have him and she was like that is all i had to say.. Then she called me back sayin how me boyfriend told her all this stuff about me and how they are messing around.That rite there really did hurt cause i really do like him alot. And the funny thing about it is that he was rite there when the girl was callin me. so waht sould i do or think

2007-02-14 23:45:35 · 12 answers · asked by Nique Nique 1 in Singles & Dating

Am the one who keeps calling my bf though am working en he is not but i feel am being used

2007-02-14 23:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by cnzuu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to have sex on first date
why if not?

2007-02-14 23:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by wel-come 2 in Singles & Dating

Its a fact, If you ask the average person how much money would they like they have not got a clue.

If you ask them what would they like to do with a lot of money they just dont know.

But here are some more very interesting facts:

Most people say they would make sure that their family members are taken care of.

Or

They would give to charity (some of it) .

Well the facts are they don't do any of that.

Most just leave it in a Bank account after they have bought a new house, had a holiday and bought a new car.

2007-02-14 23:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why dont girls see Playboy mags and porn no different to their pin ups of boy band members or brad pitts chest.


Ie same think only girls are more romantic and like muscells and guys abit rough dressed as firemen, rock stars, diet coke guys or rich with a tux, showin muscles and chest.



Whilst guys like seeing boobs and bums and girlie bits with girls in a Im open to you kissing me and making out poses.


And not for dirty old men... Honrey teenage boys are probab the main people into ti, Just like teen girls go bonks for the latest hot and huntk teen boy band.



And if either meet their sdafe non threatening sexal object of desire.


They are probably just shy, want their photo to show their mates and many fancy them.


And like girls dont try and kiss their hunky guy posters.


As for sexaully objectifying people.


Well if you dad had only been interested in your mums personality and intellect, seeing her as a person and she had seen your dad that way.

2007-02-14 23:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I take my car to the shop for one problem, the guy checks it out and does a complete inspection of my car and repairs those problems too. He says its covered by warranty, and the total cost covered was almost $3,000 worth of repairs. He only charges me for what I brought the car in for - only $100.

I also get a call back from him the day after I pick up the car. He says I picked up the car after he got off work and he wanted to see how everything was doing and he was checking up on me.

Does he sound interested?

2007-02-14 23:44:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I’m a guy who’s a virgin and I’m abstaining from sex till marriage. I was just wondering what the percentage amount of people who wait till marriage to lose their virginity is. And please, I don’t need to hear about sexual compatibility or you wouldn’t buy a car before test driving it rubbish, only stupid and shallow people think like that and I don’t want to hear it. Because love has nothing to do with sex, and I know that the sexuality compatibility thing can be worked out over time, where as love can’t, it’s either their or it isn’t. It has nothing to do with if your compatible in bed or not.

2007-02-14 23:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 23:43:26 · 3 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Friends

almost everytime without fail he comments on how hot the weather is. Like its a way to break the ice.Then other times we talk about heaps of different things.It's almost as if its awkward between me and him sometimes.I tease him and he goes quiet.But its alright for him to tease me.i don't understand him.i really like him,he is nice to me.I get a feeling in my gut he does like me too but then other times my logic says no he doesn't.what do you think about this?

2007-02-14 23:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in love with my brothers old best friend for the past 5 years. They dont really hang out anymore but i see him at the occasional gig. He used to flirt with me loads when him and my brother were best friends.
I saw him at a gig a couple of weeks ago and all my friends said he was flirting, as he was picking on me and constantly hugging me.
He has been quite evil to me in the past but as he is now maturing i love him even more. All my friends know, and he thinks he has an idea that i fancy him.
I really wanna tell him but i dont want everything to be ruined.
I really do love him alot. =]

2007-02-14 23:43:23 · 8 answers · asked by a.boozie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 23:42:44 · 8 answers · asked by marianty20001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

long story short. I'm in a 2yr relationship. He did support me the first 1yr and a half. Now I work full time, he works 50-70 hrs wk, cause he refuses to work anything less. I do 98% of the cleaning , 90% of the cooking. Anytime he asks for a drink or a cig, anything I get it. When I come out and talk about anything stressing me, like my job, or how I feel about something he tells me I am b*tching or if I tell him we need to talk about something it always turns into an aurgument and he'll raise his voice at me. I would talk to my gf's about what's bothering me but they are all far away and not always available. We moved here about 6 mos. ago. Since I quit going to the bars and stuff cause he feels that i don't need to go to such places. I have no friends here. He makes me sometimes feel like I should always have on a happy face. He lives his life and i live mine. Says "I work but that's not good enough for you." even though he would do that ever if we weren't together.

2007-02-14 23:42:07 · 5 answers · asked by burncrystalheven 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfirend and I are going to the movies togehter with my friend who lkes him. Shge says it s fine he is not going but I want her to have a date. how can find a date fro her in two weeks.

2007-02-14 23:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by IloveDr.Will K 1 in Friends

2007-02-14 23:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

What happens when a relationship of long standing dies? Is it a feeling of boredom and stopping making an effort? What if the sex is good but you fancy other people too? Is it constant bickering and resentment? Help please...

2007-02-14 23:40:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 23:40:02 · 19 answers · asked by chilledbeer 1 in Singles & Dating