Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out? my friend has never asked me out and we both really like each other !!!! would it be weird if i asked him out? help me !!!!!

2007-02-14 00:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Edward Cullen...Twilight 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend passed away.....................................................
:(

2007-02-14 00:22:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-14 00:21:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 13 years and together for 20 with my husband. we are now seperated and have been for 18 months but i just cant seem to let go. he is with another woman but i just keep thinking he is going to come back because of how our relationship used to be. his new partner calls me and our kids (we have 2 teenagers 14 and 16) and says things like her and my ex are so happy and that they are a family now and that my ex loves her more than he ever loved me, also to my kids she tells them that their dad is so happy with her and her son and that her son and their dad have so much fun together all kinds of things like that she tells us and when my kids or i have told my husband about what she is doing she denies it and he thinks we are lying to him. because of all this my kids and their dad havent seen each other for 9 months and my kids say they dont want to see him again and they were once close to their dad. it has also caused many nasty arguments beetween my ex and i.

2007-02-14 00:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me say first my mum is the most loving and caring person in the world it is because of her that i have learned to be a great mother as i just followed in her foot steps.
OK my dad is an alcoholic and my mum wasnt but she drank with my dad alot in the end she was drunk by 11 am every.She is very dependant on my father,her mum died when she was 19 and dad became her carer in a way.Mum never got a licence so she is always very bored, trapped inside four walls with 3 teenage kids and an arseh0le husband!Any way one day she imbarresed her self so bad she said she was giving up the drink for good all us kids got excited we only dreamed of this day.Now we have got used to always having happy normal smart caring mum everyday and she always bring up drinking and acts upset that she cant do it.she says things like
'when i die i hope you know i had a miserable life because of you arseh0les"how do i make her understand it for the best? alcohole has made us miserable for far too long!

2007-02-14 00:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We met a year ago and have been good friends, but there was always that underlying sexual attraction. We always talked about having sex. He said he would not cheat on his wife. I pursured him by calling him, he always took my calls or would call back. Then the day after my birthday he came over which he did alot and said if we are going to be an item here are the rules until I get divorced. I was so happy! I have wanted this man for a year now I get him. Did I mention that I was in already in relationship? Well my boyfriend caught us together and that relationship was over, I didnt care. So now 4 months into this relationship with the married man, things are not going well. He has moved out of his house and in with me 3 times. He spends the night maybe 4 nights a week. But it seems like he is cooler to me than before. I am desperately in love with this man and am sick over the thought of losing him. Some advice please. His wife knows about us.

2007-02-14 00:17:09 · 17 answers · asked by Holly1366 1 in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering what do you men realy think on valentines day this question goes out to women aswell

2007-02-14 00:17:06 · 10 answers · asked by cristle 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for Debbra Hurtt, can someone help me? She has a yahoo email address? She called and left me her email address but I could not get it all. I have tried what I thought she had said but I have tried many email addresses but they have all come back. She lives in Fort Dodge IA. Someone help me?

2007-02-14 00:16:07 · 1 answers · asked by tyashda28 1 in Friends

weve bin goin through a rough patch n im 3mth pregnant with his child,i cin his car out side his exs house wer his ova child lives so i rang her,we have no split up ,and he says we wil never get bk to geva as i wil never b able to see his other kids coz of his ex ne ideas on how i can get him bk?plz i need ur help

2007-02-14 00:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does love exist in the same form as in case of Romeo and Juliet?

2007-02-14 00:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by raj_22oct 1 in Singles & Dating

I met someone through a friend of mine, and i had seen him out a few times, but we always made eye contact but never actually got to speak.
then i met him one night an we went for a drink everything was great got on so well but after this the texts became dry. he loved textin durin the week an didnt want to know at weekends! the other night he text me at night after i had text durin the day, sayin he just wanted to c what i would do if he never txt back, then said he was up seein his kids til 11:30pm!
although he had previously told me he never gets to see them! i think he was testin me, he must have wanted me to text an go mad or somethin sayin what were u doin up there til that time of night! but i never, i played it cool. my friends are tellin me that he is playin games with me! i have been hurt before an i dont want this to happen again.

the only problem is i like this guy, but i haven heard from him since an altho i want to txt im not goin too!

can anyone advise me? plz

2007-02-14 00:15:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:15:26 · 9 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:14:32 · 42 answers · asked by gmans_shadow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf of 1 1/2 months sent me an e-card saying "will you be my valentine? i hope you say yes!" what should I say in response instead of just a dorky yes??

2007-02-14 00:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Singles & Dating

what do you think?

2007-02-14 00:14:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What to ask before entering into an exclusive relationship?
The guy that I am seeing and I are discussing potentially going exclusive (we are both in our late twentys.) He e-mailed me a few questions about me to answer the next time we get together to help him make his decision. He asked me what I would like to know to help make me more secure that this is right. Okay...what should I ask?

2007-02-14 00:13:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anne 3 in Singles & Dating

(coworker) suggested to you "let's have lunch sometimes". What would you think. I asked this question last night. I'm asking again because I could not believe some of the repsones. I think some women look way too much into things and give themselves way too much credit. I don't think it's a big deal for two people to have lunch together even if they are married but not to each other.

2007-02-14 00:13:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told my ex in email that somone I know would be visiting his city. He asked if I wanted him to show them around cause he thinks a friend of mine is also a friend of his. He even said I could give them his number so they could ring him if they got stuck and he might be able to help.

Why is he being so nice?

2007-02-14 00:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by lak 1 in Friends

i seriously dont understand, why i get dumped and ditched. i mean, i have this bf of mine who is like 3 yrs younger 2 me. he's a nice guy but the only problem with him is tht, he doesn't answer my phone calls and he only mesages me after 20 hours , i.e the next day. sometimes when i feel like talkign to him and i dial his number, he wont answer my calls and only he will call me in the night. we're from different states (abt 4 hours drive). i have told this to him many times, and he appologizes, but the mistake is repeated again. i'm confused why is he making me suffer from not being able to hear his voice. am i a difficult gf or am i being too posesivie? but just tht i want to hear his voice, i can't even be sure if he'd answer my call and i wud only have to wait for him to call (tht too sometimes he wont even keep in touch with me for a day or 2).but he says he loves me a lot and told me to be with him always.what shud i do.

2007-02-14 00:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after a relationship hold..he wants to break..sayin he does not want to hurt me.but he sounded upset.almost like its not really what he wants..i just asked if he stil loves me..he says yea..den i told him why cant we go back to the way things were if he stil does..i was really sad..then now we're stil together..but he seem like he doesnt care..did i forced him to stay?what sud i do....i wud let go if he does not love my anymore..or has someone els..but now?

2007-02-14 00:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-gf phoned me today to wish me happy Valentines day. The ordasity she has. We were together for a year and a half. Then she tells me, she loves me as a brother, not a boyfriend. Do you understand how much that hurts after giving up so much. I did everything for that girl, just for her to hook up with some guy she knew for less than a month!!

2007-02-14 00:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a boyfriend,,
he was good and kind to me..
however,we have broken up due to my parents' opposition.
as in my parents' eyes, he is what they calledd a "bad" guy
but just..i admit that he is kinda bad sometimes..
like he always hangs out with friends who just smokes all the time..
but i do still miss him so much until now..
what should i do..?
Should i care my own feeling or my parents'?

2007-02-14 00:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by athena k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:08:47 · 8 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Family

should i open it ???????

2007-02-14 00:08:37 · 33 answers · asked by reem2 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:08:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:07:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate women because I must risk my self-esteem to talk to a woman only to get rejected. Women don't appreciate men who approach them.
I'm so sick and tired or women who don't accept compliments. I tell a girl she's hot and she got offended. She should be flattered.
I'm sick of girls at clubs that give me their numbers but don't return my calls. I left 18 messages on her voicemail and she didn't return my calls.
I'm sick of women who only date good looking guys. Why am I a 32 year old virgin? Every woman on this planet thinks I am ugly, that's why women won't hit on me. I'd be A PERFECT BOYFRIEND! I'd make breakfast in bed, sing to her, and give foot rubs DAILY! I'd wait on hand and foot and constantly be pampered.

I think women are worthless. They break men's hearts and they cause so much stress. I wish I can live in a world without women. Women are good for is sex but that's not that important. If every woman on this planet disappeared, I'd be a happier person.

2007-02-14 00:06:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Split from my husband over a year ago
We were together 15 years
Built up a good relationship with his father over that time.
My ex is fine with me and the kids going to the funeral but i'm worried about upsetting my ex mum in law.
We havnt spoken since her son and i split and we were never exactly the best of friends during the marriage. Having to take the word of others that she is ok with me being there.
Last thing i want to do is cause any problems.
Should i stay away or should i go?

2007-02-14 00:05:08 · 51 answers · asked by sonia h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it jus me bein paranoid n jealous or should i go with my instincts?my man n i hav a long distance rel,we talk everyday bt since at he hasnt called when he says he will doesnt return my calls n today valentines day did wish me happy valentine n when i asked him what he's doin he said he's going for a meal with his landlords(he's a estate agent)he did say they were middle aged men!also he clearly pointed out that when he gets married he wants to live at home with his family as his mums not well.when we talked b4 i said it was ok but evenyually wld like to getr own place bt he wants to stay there 4eva!i dont know wether he's trying to put me off him by being like this even though he says we're ok n he's just been busy,why would he take his landlords out for a business meal on valentines day?i am jealous bt knw il see him on the weekend,shld i bite my tounge n say nothing till i see him or question him 2nite n potentially piss him off?

2007-02-14 00:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Singles & Dating