Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

2007-02-14 23:39:31 · 4 answers · asked by Gracie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here goes--
when i was in 5th grade, i met my bestfriend
she transferred to our school
at first we weren't that close but after a few months we became bestfriends
we were so close that we treat each others a precious possession
but when we got to other schools, she changed a lot
and what's hurting is that she had another bestfriend..
she totally have forgotten our friendship
she even forgotten my bday!
when i asked her 2 choose between us 2, she never picked any,she said we're both her no.1 bf..
but she told me i'll only be her no.1 bf forever when we were in grade 6...
she used to love me like we'll never leave each other's side..
she promised that...
she broke her promise...
it made a very deep scar in my heart and upto now it still aches everytime i remember her...
i feel like it can't be cured...
the pain she've caused was really hard to forget...
i really love her so much that maybe it's the cause i feel this awkward feeling...
i've cried hard enough..
help..

2007-02-14 23:39:22 · 2 answers · asked by ravenkyle2004 1 in Friends

Do you struggle at all with it? I struggle more with other people's perception, which shouldn't matter, but would love to hear people's experiences and how they managed to get through it. (I am 22 and look young, she is 32 but looks a lot younger).

2007-02-14 23:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by p i 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years has finished with me, even though he has admitted he still loves me. He is 10 years my senior (37) and i am 27, i was 23 when i started going out with him.
He has a 15 year old son from a previous relationship, which I get on well with. What can I do to make him want me back?

2007-02-14 23:38:14 · 22 answers · asked by charmedandwelsh 3 in Singles & Dating

I was on a "blind Date" last nite, The GUY Describe Himself as "handsome / good looking .... he must have looked at himself in a wooden mirror .... TO ME .... HE WAS UGLY !!!
he had : grey teeths, bumped nose, no nice bone structure, he was nothing special,
it is not the first time .... I go on a blind date .... and it is always the same ..... the guy is UGLY ... and describes HIMSELF as HANDSOME , I will not go on blind date anymore, anyway ...
When I DESCRIBE myself I say : I Am Beautiful Because I AM
( I used to be Model ) I don`t Lie ! SO How do you DEFINE BEAUTY ?
to me a Handsome guy is : tom cruise,brat pitt, prison break guys, ...

2007-02-14 23:37:17 · 18 answers · asked by JaneDoe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am re-sending this question because 2 days ago I mistakenly dropped it in the category of the gays/lesbians box to which I do not belong. In trying to answer, please, take note of the fact that here I am mainly interested in finding out what particular actions/moves a man should do in order to win the attention/interest for the 1st time of a nice lady/girl he likes. I am currently facing a similar situation and would like to hear more from the ladies' perspective.With your help/advice, I hope not to make a blunder. Thanks.

2007-02-14 23:36:11 · 7 answers · asked by jason 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 23:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by Ceejay 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright-- so i want to make my boyfriend feel special, just for the hell of it-- cause he means everything to me. so i figure so far im going to get him a card saying how speical he is to me and then..... i go blank! lol so please give me some really good ideas! and not just sex.. lol thats prob after everything haha

2007-02-14 23:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by fashion_sprkl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i worked in illinois for a year in 1991-1992 where i workd as a volunteer at the Arlington Heights Teen Centre.

There i met a girl who i became friends with caled Jill Templeton (now marred - not sure of marrie dname)

She worked as a school teacher, younger children, moved to florida, married then back to illinois, buffalo grove i think.

Does anyone know of her? if so tell her to email me, lisaviduka@yahoo.co.uk

2007-02-14 23:34:04 · 2 answers · asked by lisaviduka 3 in Friends

Our current world is time oriented. We can't spend more time to anything. In this situation by spending less time how can we control our unnecessary feelings?

2007-02-14 23:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by manoj g 1 in Singles & Dating

coz people comment on me &try to say homey baby.i dont like it what should i do.

2007-02-14 23:33:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my fiance and myself had an emal/phone arugement on monday morning and have not spoke since and also we live together, how long has someone in this type of relationship went without speaking ?

2007-02-14 23:33:13 · 4 answers · asked by GRUNT 3 in Singles & Dating

I am planning to have a romantic picnic with my bf and i dont know what kind of foods i can bring to the picnic?? anything simple and easy anyone? plus i have to try and hide what im doing from my mom. shed kill me if she knew whats going on. so plss helpp mee. i really want to make it a very special picnic for a very special precious someone. i need ideas for food yall!! help

2007-02-14 23:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by ILOVEU 5 in Singles & Dating

I have moved to Redcar to be with my new bloke who i am havving a baby with and we are getting married. Things are fab but all my family and friends live 50 miles away. I have no one here that i can pop to for a chat, pop out shopping, cinema with which i am finding really hard.

How can i make new friends. I work at the minute 9-5 and have a 3 year old already. its hard to find time for anything?

2007-02-14 23:29:55 · 18 answers · asked by lisaviduka 3 in Friends

Now I can't decide should I pursue engg as a career or start taking professional training in vocals.I know I can be a successful singer but at the same time I can even have engineering as a successful career.I have to take an early decision since the placement drive in my college is going to start from march 07.Please guide me taking into consideration the fact that my parents are not financially too strong to provide me with a professional training in singing.Please suggest me.

2007-02-14 23:29:09 · 5 answers · asked by him 1 in Friends

I am trying to get over an ex that I fell in love with but can't commit to me right now. Obviously he wasn't putting me 1st priority, as he wouldn't risk loosing me. But he say's that it wouldn't be fair on me to be with him in a relationship when he can be 100% attentive to me the way he should be.. I have spoken to other people and say the can't be that much of a bad person as he was honest and could have led me on. He feels that I am definately a woman that he would be with no doubt about it if he was looking for something serious. He still wants for us to be friends and see what happens but I CAN'T! It hurts so much. People say stay away from things that remind me of him to get over it but I can't. I keep seeing his/or a simular make car that reminds me of him, I pass his work on my way to work on the train. He lives in the same area as my mum, I think of him at work when we use to email each other!! IT IS KILLING ME! I CAN'T GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD, I JUST WANT TO SCREAM.

2007-02-14 23:27:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I actually have feelings for my guy bestfriend but im scared to tell him.I really need an advice from men,specifically!Thanks a lot!

2007-02-14 23:25:31 · 11 answers · asked by starunner05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I actually have feelings for my guy bestfriends but im scared to tell him.I really need an advice from men,specifically!Thanks a lot!

2007-02-14 23:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by starunner05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy friend david has been treating me like c*** and he called me a troll and last night i text him and told him that im sick of him and i told him to lose my number. and he said and what if i dont what are you going to do. and we spent like a hour arguing calling each other stupid names. and i told him that he's the only one im having s** with and he was like in that case just text me when you want it. and i asked him if he had a nice bone in his body and he said yes and i said yeah right. and he said ya well im sorry but i have to go to bed.

2007-02-14 23:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys like shy girls or do girls have to be all loud and out there to be noiced and can girls just sit back and a dude come to her cause i am 15 and i have not had a boyfriend its not that im ugly all my friends say i am to shy i just dont want to be all loud and be like oh i like you cause i am scared that i will be shut down and i dont want that so i want a dude to tell me they like me is that to mucn or no

2007-02-14 23:23:26 · 12 answers · asked by ebonee h 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was young about 6yrs old, my mum would leave me in the house on my own when my dad was nightshift, her reason she was having an affair. One night I woke up at midnight there was no-one home but me the dog and cat, I called my mum as I was scared, I was crying and really frightened and asked her to come home, she wouldnt come she just said you will be ok now go back to bed..

I lay there crying for ages and must have cried myself to sleep, next morning she said dont you ever call me again with your put on crying and looking for attention, I was really hurt and cried all day.. When her other man died I was 17 she never ever left my dad and he knew what she was doing and put up with it because he loved her so much, she couldnt cope without her b/f so took an overdose, she left a note and I found it ,got her up and made her sick my dad was so upset by it all,she said life was not worth living without the b/f, I felt hurt for my dad and me as she was saying we meant nothing to her

2007-02-14 23:22:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son writes to me "it is not gonna happen" even thou she my wife is not married again. To reconcile Jehovah witnesses is the way, It is terrible to go thru there study.My wife believes whatever wrong v both have done will b covered if i b J.W.She is threatened by her past of what she did against me n vicevarsa, that she has come to a conclusion J.W. is the only way n as i said before to become a J.W. is like telling my mom why did u give me birth.Jesus has not allowed me to b J.W. neither has considered my love for my wife past 16 years.Im at Mumbai n she n fly at MD. USA.Pl. least start communication between us but should never break thereafter in whatever circumstances.Pl.dont give me answers in the ways of man n God or say it is over. Thanks.

2007-02-14 23:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Rashid I 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am looking for an old freind. i live in va and have lost contact. thanks!! :)

2007-02-14 23:21:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-14 23:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by Steve N 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's breath smell really bad, especially in the morning and its really coming between us! How can I tell him about his bad breath and get him to do something about it without offeding him?

2007-02-14 23:19:59 · 25 answers · asked by beansarebest 2 in Singles & Dating

who is a very sexy girl?

2007-02-14 23:19:37 · 4 answers · asked by Prince of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

I fell deeply in love with a man years ago now, we never could be together and i went through the heartbreak and moved on with my life. I thought i was fine, i would never have imagined that i could actually still be in love with him even though i knew i still loved him as a person. I decided to call him a couple of days ago to see how he was and he said how nice it was to hear from me. When i hungup i imediately started to cry. Just hearing his voice completely brought me undone. By absolute coincidence i saw him and a couple of old friends the next night and we all had a drink together. Now i cant stop feeling exactly like i did years ago. Its like my heart was broken all over again, and as ifi have always been in love with him. There is so much that is unsaid between us, how can i ever move on?

2007-02-14 23:19:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My babysitter has a daughter who is incredibly rebellious. She gets dropped off at school in the morning and leaves to meet an over age boyfriend. She is now under lock and key at home but not getting an education. Her family does not have a lot of money and I do not think you can get a GED from home on line if you are only 15 and supposed to be in a traditional school. The police have been to the home because the daughter has hit her mom(my babysitter). I hate seeing their family fall apart. Are their any other options to get her an education in a controlled enviornment that will not leave the family broke? They have tried counseling and have had a preist come to their home . With the current relationship she has with her mom, home school is not an option. I also think that the state government could step in and punish the mom if the school reports her absences. We all live in Florida.

2007-02-14 23:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by robynmarty2003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHAT U CALL THE NEXT DAY AFTER VALENTINE DAY????????Be Honest!

2007-02-14 23:15:18 · 10 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Friends

2007-02-14 23:14:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce