I actually have feelings for my guy bestfriends but im scared to tell him.I really need an advice from men,specifically!Thanks a lot!
2007-02-14 23:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by starunner05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes it's possible...
2007-02-14 23:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok this will hapend alot depending how much u know each other and weteher u guys are hanging out as much. What i say sorta coast fer a while start to show ur feelings jus show. See how he reacts and if he reacts positive ur okay. But go slow cause if u rush it will be a wierd frendship him knowing that fer awhile.Also it depends what kind of guy he is is he the nice type. Or the sport jock type, or maybe even ur match. Good Luck!!
2016-05-24 02:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, and sometimes its a whole lot better, and a long lasting relationship because you already know everything about him, you know that you get a long. and you can talk about everything to each other. and don't be scared just ask him how he feels about you. and then go from there. You might just find out that he likes you too. but is afraid to tell you, the only way you will ever find out is to ask him. go for it. and best of wishes.
2007-02-14 23:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and if you ask me, I wouldn't date a girl in the world unless we were friends first. When a relationship is based on first-sight lust, its ferocious at first yes, but becomes stagnant lacking a foundation. When a relationship is built around friendship and trust, the possibilities for true happiness together is increased 10 fold.
:-)
2007-02-14 23:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by kalpon777 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys fell the same way about their girl best friend. Guys usually don't get close to girls unless they are attracted to the girl. I have had feelings for even girl best friend I have ever had. You need to let him know because to stay with someone for most of your life you need to have more than a physical attraction and you will have that with him because you are already friends.
2007-02-15 00:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by janickiv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be scared.
Start by telling him that you respect him and don't want to lose his friendship... and then tell him that you like him and want to date him.
Be prepared he may not feel the same way, if he doesn't don't be hurt, just respect that he is your friend and is probably the only guy that will be you friend without trying to get into your pants.
2007-02-14 23:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can. Don't "tell" him. Ask him to do things that most people would consider a date. Get close and personal just like you would with someone who you were dating. Hold his hand. Move slow. You'll know if he's reciprocating.
2007-02-14 23:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
You wrote that need help from man.Thats why i anser u.Don't tell him directly.just talk to him around ur perposer.
One think i want to tell u that,Love is not selfishness, When ur friend is live happily,whatever with other girl.You should be happy with his happiness.What ever is he with u.....that is called "Love"
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2007-02-14 23:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Those can be the best relationships but be sure because you could loose your best friend unless it's discussed openly and honestly.
2007-02-14 23:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've fallen in love with ur best friend? most bf/gf relationships dont last long, you have to ask yourself what would happen when you break up? would it be worth it if a consequence could be loosing your best friend?
2007-02-14 23:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-14 23:27:11 · answer #11 · answered by booge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋