I was on a "blind Date" last nite, The GUY Describe Himself as "handsome / good looking .... he must have looked at himself in a wooden mirror .... TO ME .... HE WAS UGLY !!!
he had : grey teeths, bumped nose, no nice bone structure, he was nothing special,
it is not the first time .... I go on a blind date .... and it is always the same ..... the guy is UGLY ... and describes HIMSELF as HANDSOME , I will not go on blind date anymore, anyway ...
When I DESCRIBE myself I say : I Am Beautiful Because I AM
( I used to be Model ) I don`t Lie ! SO How do you DEFINE BEAUTY ?
to me a Handsome guy is : tom cruise,brat pitt, prison break guys, ...
2007-02-14 23:37:17 · 18 answers · asked by JaneDoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They want you to think well of them. They want to get you to go on the date..Even if they are ugly. No one wants to give off a bad impression. Even if they stretch the truth they think its better than not having an opportunity at all because what woman would go out with a man who said he was ugly? It would be nice if they were more honest about it.. and some are but the majority lie to make themselves look good just to have a chance with you.. Or maybe these guys really want to believe they are handsome despite the reality. Delusional. Wishful thinkers.
What is beauty? An average looking person can be beautiful due to certain other characteristics of their personality, it shines through. But the typical definition of beauty- i think we all know what that is but many have different opinions on it.
2007-02-14 23:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by heartofgold 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'll go with the first answer, to top it, what's the point of being 'beautiful' when you can't find a single guy who is handsome to ask you out? either you need a prespective change or brain transplant (it's risky but we'll live by if it doesn't go through)
2007-02-15 08:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by sha m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im no Brad Pitt, or Tom Cruise, but i consider myself quite good looking and have been told that, i think i look pretty good for being almost 43 years old, so if women dont like it to bad, I have absolutely no problam turning heads, dont set your standards so very high, Good luck finding you Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt look alike.
2007-02-15 07:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi dear I totally agree with u... People need to be very honest about their looks because
anyway if they lie it's not going to work when the other person sees them...
U make me remind about something which happened to me some time back...
There was a guy who was after me to meet him... He told me he's really gd looking,
very smart, gd personality and all... When I saw him i was shocked...
He was not gd, seemed to be a weak boy whom i could easily dominate and all...
I also have stopped meeting people unless I see a picture of them as it's really difficult
to say 'No' to them once u meet them... I mean it's difficult for me to explain
to them that they are not the right ones for me...
I would suggest that u insist on getting a picture of the person before
meeting him... But I also had cases where the person looks good in photo
but very bad in reality... but photos can help a bit still... gd luck...
2007-02-15 07:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
try not being so vain and immature and look for someone who advertises himself as having average looks. What you see as handsome someone else may find repulsive and visa versa. you may think your beautiful but others may not. like you said beauty is in the eye of the beholder as therefore you have answered your own question. people say i'm pretty but i think im average. try looking at a persons personality. people and partners are not accessories to show off.
2007-02-15 07:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
So if you claim to be so attractive... how come you have to rely on blind dates to get someone! Probably because you're so self-absorbed by your own looks you don't give anyone who doesn't look like a movie star half a chance. GET A LIFE and stop being so vain.
2007-02-15 08:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by chris g 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To me beauty is a bit of both(skin deep and outside appearance)because no matter how HANDSOME a guy can be if he doesn't know how to conduct himself in a proper manner than automatically his just no good to me and then again they are guys who are so sweet and they conduct them selves in a proper manner,then you gets so taken by his kindness that you think his cute.Just to conclude to me both this things goes hand in hand,one can't survive without the other
2007-02-15 08:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Twang 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you'll have to widen your genetic requirements for handsome. It's people like you that make me not want to get up in the morning. I'm not that good-looking, but I feel my personality carries me through...I wouldn't lie to you--my all means, I'm ugly all right--but you need to loosen up and look more into inner beauty, not outer beaty.
2007-02-15 07:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Joe K 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
every girl ivespoken with on the net is perfect 5 5 110 pounds blonde n blue eyes and hot an horny soo there ya have it and you sound like a stuck up one tracked trailor of a girl
2007-02-15 07:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im sure a lot of your blind dates are calling you UGLY.Just because you used to be a model doesnt mean you are gods gift to men.
2007-02-15 07:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋