I actually have feelings for my guy bestfriend but im scared to tell him.I really need an advice from men,specifically!Thanks a lot!
2007-02-14 23:25:31 · 11 answers · asked by starunner05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You bet they can....
Go for it.... Don't be shy....
The guy just might be as in love with you as you are him.
Just remember. Because you ARE good friends don’t fall into the LOVE pitfalls of past loves. Treat this like a companionship love. That means, treat it as best friends with much more to offer. You both have known each other for a while now more than likely. You know what each other hates and likes. Don’t use these things against each other when in disagreements.
What I did when this happened to me. Just dive in..
Make sure that both of you are alone, no other friends around. This is MAJOR. Outside influences can sway/ harm the outcome…
I just told the other person. “We’ve known each other for a long time. Out of curiosity I want to know what your kiss feels like.”
What this does it leaves it open if the SPARKS don’t fly off the bat. Don’t be afraid after the kiss to let your feelings say either, “wow, I liked that.” Or “Gosh, I think I need another one.”
If the sparks don’t fly, make sure and have a compliment ready. Like, “That was nice. You’re a good kisser. Your going to make someone very happy.”
2007-02-15 00:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this will hapend alot depending how much u know each other and weteher u guys are hanging out as much. What i say sorta coast fer a while start to show ur feelings jus show. See how he reacts and if he reacts positive ur okay. But go slow cause if u rush it will be a wierd frendship him knowing that fer awhile.Also it depends what kind of guy he is is he the nice type. Or the sport jock type, or maybe even ur match. Good Luck!!
2007-02-14 23:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they can, if you could somehow ask his guy friends to find out that might make it easier for you, but if he is single and considering he is a guy there is a good chance he has some sort of feelings for you beyond just friendship, i think its worth talking about i doubt it could hurt anything, it might be awkward but in the end it might also make things more honest and open between you two, i can understand being scared tho, but love takes risks, fortune favors the bold and all of that stuff, best friends are usually better than lovers tho, fewer and farther between in life, as long as there is not risk of loosing the friendship its worth a shot.. either way i wish you the best of luck
2007-02-15 00:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Matt H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will fall in and out of love with your spouse many times over the years. The advice I give to people is to marry someone you like, not just love. The best possible deal is to be in love with your best friend, or be best friends with the one you love. Win-Win!
2007-02-14 23:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Scotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually affection can be on a Best friend. feel free and teel him your feeling, if he is ur best friend he will never brack up ur friendship for this reason. and he will care for you.
He may not be love you and he may not having this type of feelings but when you will express your feeling to him it will creat a feeling to think about it.
so go ahead and do it
2007-02-14 23:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebloom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do. Infact if they fell in love it would be great because the relationship would have a friendship start
2007-02-14 23:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taaaaaaaaaaaaaaake goooooooooooood caaaaaaaaaare!
2007-02-14 23:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST OF THE TiiME THE GUY FRiiEND FEELS THE SAME WAY...SO i SAY GO FOR iT HUN....SOMETiMES iT MESSES UP THE FRiENDSHiP...BUT FROM EXPERiENCE 100% OF MY GUY FRiENDS WANT TO BE MORE THEN JUST FRiENDS!! SO DO YOUR THiNG MA!!
2007-02-14 23:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens all the time!
Good luck.
2007-02-14 23:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by brown one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2007-02-14 23:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by ahhhlain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋