Recently, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years has finished with me, even though he has admitted he still loves me. He is 10 years my senior (37) and i am 27, i was 23 when i started going out with him.
He has a 15 year old son from a previous relationship, which I get on well with. What can I do to make him want me back?
2007-02-14 23:38:14 · 22 answers · asked by charmedandwelsh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you feeling broody?
Does he feel heis too old to be starting a new family with you?
He will allways love you in some sort of fashion, If you truly love someone then you must let them go and do what is the best for all concerned. I'm sure you are a fantastic girl and in a few months you will be madly in love with someone your own age and with simular interests.
Good luck
P.s Paid a poni fym carriad fach!
2007-02-15 00:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chris W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously ended the relationship for a reason, as it was his choice you will find it very hard to get him back. Give him some space to think, maybe he might start to miss you and then he'll start regretting the decision that he made.
Failing that happening you'll just have to move on with your life. It may seem like you don't want anyone but him now but 12 month down the line you'll be wondering why you felt like that. Everything happens for a reason, if your meant for each other then you'll get back together in time. If not then mr right is out there somewhere for you. Good Luck.
2007-02-15 07:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by dollydaydream22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing the deed with someone else. Men have have a hard time telling women it's over eg. "I still love you" or 'yeah I'll ring you'.
and how many women sit around waiting for the phone to ring as life goes by? Too many!
You sound like a used toilet brush "after he finished with me?"
Get your self-esteem back women move on and play with something younger that will go all night.
2007-02-15 07:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by shiraz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.. how many times has this happened in the past, if youve broken up before and got back together he may just want to give it another shot. Maybe in the future. He may come back , you never know. If you desperately love the guy try a couple more times but dont ever lower yourself if hes not interested. Wait for him to come back to you, if not , it wasnt meant to be and you deserve better.
2007-02-15 07:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by heartofgold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do. best to talk to him, find out why, but when we ask why we sometimes get answers we don't want to hear. so sometimes if someone doesn't want to be with us, we need to just let it go, and move on. Way open ourselves up for more hurt, asking why they chose this road in life, without us. change of behavior can sometimes make a person see us in a different light, unless they have started a relationship with another, in that case, there is nothing we can do about it, as they will not be able to hear anything we say to them.
2007-02-15 07:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on yourself - workout - take long baths - treat yourself...just take care of yourself. You've been dealt a blow and it's time to heal. Concentrate on your career and getting your life in order. Clean your apartment/house....get yourself together and force yourself you move-on and to stop thinking about him. BE STRONG!!!
This is what you absolutely HAVE to do. While it is not a guarantee, it will increase the chances for him to want you back and if he doesn't someone else will....so either way you win.
2007-02-15 07:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by UM360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did he finish with u if he still loves u? if he doesn't want u back, there is nothing u can do. cos if u force him back into ur life when he doesn't want u, u will only get hurt in the long run.
my advice : find out why he finished with u if he still loves u. if he doesn't want anything to do with u, move on and find someone else who will love u and want to be with u. it hurts to move on when u love someone but that's life. its painful sometimes.
2007-02-15 07:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did you a favor- in another 10 years you would have been finished with him and having to tell him. Thank him and move on...
2007-02-15 07:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anomaly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hell is wrong with u if he is done he is done leave him alone and find somene else otherwise u gone keep getting hurt by him so the sooner u get over him the better u can stay in touch with his son if its ok by him but do not try to impose coz u gonna get ur heart fucked over again
2007-02-15 07:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say you can't make a person take you back if he does not want you. Just be strong and move on. there are other guys out there. good luck.
2007-02-15 07:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋