Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

this is for the ladies only no limits

2007-02-14 21:16:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do some people play games with others, giving us false hope, calling, texting, showing that they "care" and then running away? Don't they know how much it hurts being left behind.. We let them in our lives offering love and affection and all they leave us with is emptiness in distroyed world.. I hate that V. day, it reminds me of what I had and what I lost.. Or maybe it never was mine in the first place..

2007-02-14 21:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by ssagittarius78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 21:12:33 · 14 answers · asked by AJAY P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do people think that 'love' and 'romance' still exist or has it just disappeared in a world of 'casual sex'

2007-02-14 21:11:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 21:10:45 · 29 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Friends

i've w/ my gf for about 2 years. i am sure she'll not cheat on me. but i know she is lying. we are both students, and in seperate schools all day long. i let her go out w/ her friends. Recently i've been suspicious of her talking to this guy from her school (by the way she has a lot of guy friends but this one sounds different to me). I noticed him calling almost everyday recently and her too (i tracked his phone #). the thing is this she does not admit that she talks to him, in fact she doesn't even mention his name (which is figured out). last week on saturday she went out to work on her project @ 4 pm she said it will take at most 2 hours she came back home @ 2 am. so @ night i checked her cell voice messages and this guy had called her and asked her if she wants to take a brake around 8pm at starucks. when she got home she told me that she was working @ her project!!! a couple more instances such above have happend since then. i am going crazy and have no sleep! what should i do!!!

2007-02-14 21:09:40 · 24 answers · asked by ez_is_not_so_easy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I was walking through the neighborhood I got tired and felt sleepy. There was times I went walking so far I went to my ex house and she invited me inside to rest. She was so nice. Why is she so nice to let me spend a night at her house? Ex has a soft spot?

2007-02-14 21:09:17 · 5 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

scooter for her for around the house. She doesn't want to spend the money. She can barely walk an says I will just sit around all day. I mentioned the scooter will help her be more mobile around the house. She refuses to spend money and I cannot afford it my husband just got downsized in his job. My mom really needs outside help. She refuses it she says they will steal from her. I live 30 miles away and worry about her. My husbands job is here near where we live and my husband says he needs my help financially. She is very stubborn. When I suggest something she says she's old enough to take care of herself she is 83. I have noticed things aren't getting done around the house any suggestions. She refuses any help..

2007-02-14 21:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn H 1 in Family

2007-02-14 21:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

anyone else out there have an insensitive pig for a husband / boyfriend ?!? i do. mine never even mentioned valentine's day until about 8pm, and that was only because i had a face like thunder.... i calmly explained that i was disappointed that he hadn't even bothered getting me a card, and his response was 'i didn't think u'd be bothered by it all'. i have no idea why after 6 years of sending cards to eachother that he suddenly feels like i'm no longer bothered, and i felt like ramming the card & gift i'd got for him down his throat (or somewhere worse !) anyone else out there have totally insensitive partner ? ( i guess i should ask the guys too - i know women aren't perfect either. ) and please - i don't want to hear stories of perfect guys who treat u to meals out, etc, etc, - i'm depressed enough !!!

2007-02-14 21:06:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a lesbian stud i met is playing cat and mouse. how do i tell her that i don't like it. we are cool, we talk when we run into each other which is often, laugh a lot, discuss things, stare at each other, and she compliments me well. she has my contact info but i dont have hers. she gave me a number at work and the days and times she off- in this case y not call me when u get time at work. just yesterday i found out she has been and still is in a short term live in relationship, which explains it. but y would she play with my emotions. is she not happy at home or something or just loves the attention we give one another and the flirts. should i say something????

2007-02-14 21:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by cute_dimples2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 21:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in love with this woman for 8 years and I am friends with her but I want more. What should I do?

2007-02-14 21:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend left me when I was 7 months pregnant with my son and I went into premature labor and had him at 32 weeks . I was so upset that he left me that I didn't give my son his last name! I gave my son my maiden name.Now my son is 11 years old and I would like to have it changed to his fathers name.I don't want anything from the father he hasn't helped at all up til now and I don't expect it ever. I just realized that he should have his rightful name like I had my fathers name.I should never have robbed him of that out of spite. I would appreciate any answers I can get THANK YOU

2007-02-14 21:03:31 · 19 answers · asked by karencnasinger 2 in Family

She got infatuated with me. I met her only once. I was shocked to learn that she knows my number. She call me several times in my office. I told her that I am very busy. One time, she visited me in my office. She is pretty but I am turned off by her constant presence. What will I do?

2007-02-14 21:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My gal anD I were goin on about almost 2 Years... She left me for another guy.... Its gonna be 1yr plus almost since she broke up with me.... I still havent gotten over her... I cant concentrate wit ma other stuffs either.... what should I do? Im helpless...

2007-02-14 21:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by eragonlzrd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It would be easy to figure out but the problem is that she lives on the other side of the country. Advice would be helpful.

2007-02-14 21:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner and I have lived together for a year-ish. Before we moved in we decided that since we both have full time jobs, we'd both do 50% of the housework.
He doesnt do any housework unless I tell him. I wouldnt tell him to do anything if it didnt affect me but if he doesnt do the washing then I dont have any clean clothes etc.
Everyday he tells me he's going to leave me cus the place is so messy and he cant live in mess. When I've done my housework he picks at things saying they're not quite right and tells me Im lazy even though his washing up is still there 3 days later and the bins are never emptied until I scream at him. He then says he's sorry and he loves me.
Sometimes he has a major clean up, tidying all the places he uses and moving all the stuff to places he doesnt use.
I dred coming home cus when I do, he's sitting on the computer demanding me to clean the bedroom when he's been home for an hour already!
Its my home 2 and I feel dirty and useless!!

2007-02-14 20:59:52 · 18 answers · asked by Wicked Top. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 20:58:42 · 19 answers · asked by BMW M5 3 in Family

2007-02-14 20:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5 in Weddings

Ok so say YOU started seein some1 & u connected right from the start u thought they were perfect & visa versa. But the other person wasn't lookin 4 a proper relationship at that stage. (I know some of u will say that is bulls***t! but it does happen I hav felt like that b4 & so have a few of my friends, as u just feel that u don't want to hav to answer to anyone & u just don't want to feel tied down at that stage no matter how well u get on wit that person! But what if in the process of u 2 bein 2gether that person messed u about due to the fact that they were confused about what they wanted due to thier inability to commit at the time & in the process hurt u. Would YOU when movin on intend to never b with that person again? Due 2 the fact that they messed u about & didn't put u 1st priority? & if u had gone ur seperate ways & after time the other person HAD realised how much of a quality & asset U are & wanted U bac would you giv them another chance?or would u decline & jus b friends?

2007-02-14 20:57:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 20:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my b/f to bits and i trust him with my life. However a few days ago he started texting someone and he kept hiding his phone from me. He had moved up from England 2 years ago and left his life behind him. Now i've figured out its a girl from down there who he used to be friends with. I keep saying to myself that he is 500 miles away and wouldnt do anything to hurt me but im not so sure! He really isn't that type of guy but im still a bit worried! Any advice???

2007-02-14 20:55:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kaz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 20:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in a rural town without much chance to meet people. There are so many online services, and my friends and family suggest from time to time that I go online Eharmony? Match.com? They all look so invasive, and I'd have to divulge so much personal info online???I'm what you call very private and paranoid to put into any computer a complete profile about myself. Anyone have bad stuff happen as a result of using a service? Or good stuff---like you met lots of cool people to date? Please ---what'd ya' think?

2007-02-14 20:51:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i go to an art school where girls to guys is like 6:1. I don't want to date any of the girls there because if i don't want get any kind of reputation regardless of what it is, because i know that i will come back to haunt me (happen to me before) if i ever really want to seriously date one of the girls i go to school with. now i don't want anything serious now, just some friends (and not the w/ benifits kind) I try to just be friends with them, and i don't even flirt or hit on them, yet they constantly do it to me. I've learned that i can't ask them to do anything with me, they get the wrong idea. It is making me feel uncomfortable, like im always being watched, cause i pretty much am. i catch them all the time, i've never been in this kind of situation before and i bet neither have most guys. Its like i've fallen into some wierd alternate universe where the roles of men and women have been reversed..so what they heck do i have to do short of telling all of them im not interested

2007-02-14 20:49:45 · 9 answers · asked by Mark B 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends husband is a man of no interest in anything(nor in work or in family)to be specific he says " i can give only 1000rs per month for the family, u have to do all needs within that" what to do with a person of this sort?
she has a boy of 7yrs old?
due to parents compultion she has married him?
now she is working for the child of no enjoyment in life?

2007-02-14 20:49:06 · 17 answers · asked by rabbits 1 in Family

i bumped in two beautiful women who happen to be sisters. i am proud to say it ended with me at their flat. nothing really happened but it was lots of fun coz a iam sure of threesome one day. they wee terrebly both flirting with me.

2007-02-14 20:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Singles & Dating

When a guy you work with not in the same department. comes and hands you a choclete moffen ?? does it mean something or nothing??and what should i do ?

2007-02-14 20:46:43 · 9 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 20:46:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating