a man with a very unuasual girl problem...please help?

Question

i go to an art school where girls to guys is like 6:1. I don't want to date any of the girls there because if i don't want get any kind of reputation regardless of what it is, because i know that i will come back to haunt me (happen to me before) if i ever really want to seriously date one of the girls i go to school with. now i don't want anything serious now, just some friends (and not the w/ benifits kind) I try to just be friends with them, and i don't even flirt or hit on them, yet they constantly do it to me. I've learned that i can't ask them to do anything with me, they get the wrong idea. It is making me feel uncomfortable, like im always being watched, cause i pretty much am. i catch them all the time, i've never been in this kind of situation before and i bet neither have most guys. Its like i've fallen into some wierd alternate universe where the roles of men and women have been reversed..so what they heck do i have to do short of telling all of them im not interested

i guess my biggest problem is that it makes me uncomfortable, i guess i should have said the the quantity may be high, but the quality is low

there are cute girls at my school, but they aren't the problem

Answer 1

Wow! it is really a good coincidence that I do have the same thinking like you do. I have also this problem I mean it is not a problem to me any more. You don't have to worry about this much. If you are interersted you can show no interest by your actions. I know that even by doing this you may not succeed avoiding them. But you can tell them straight if things are coming seriously. As a girl has a right to accept or reject a guy why accepting or rejecting a girl become questionable?
The reason for the girls to have the wrong idea may be the fact that you are pretty. This usually happens in pretty people. So unless you are interested the other way, you know your self and if the pressure comes from them, tell them straight politely and reasonably.

Answer 2

don't be paranoid. stop being afraid. if they're watching you, let them, if it shows you're uncomfortable then, they definitely talk behind your back and be more curious and a lot more of people will start to watch you. so relax and be friends with them. as long as you know the truth in yourself, that all that's matters. you dont owe any explanation.

Answer 3

oh god i went to risd.
guess what. girls who want to be your friends will just be your friends. girls who want to boink you will make it clear. especially at an art school. i think a lot of this is in your head. at the art school i went to, most girls were freer and more expressive so it should be a little bit more obvious to you what their intentions are with you.

Answer 4

Just stay away. Girls are vindictive and they see you as the prize in a competition. The are only competing with each other.

Answer 5

jesus, your head must be the size of pluto and just as empty, you egotistical young pup, what makes ya think you're so great that they all want more then just conversation. your so paranoid that paranoid people won't bother with ya, lighten up! its not what ya don't know that hurts ya its what ya know that ain't so that really screws ya up. how do ya like me now?

Answer 6

keep them around in case you need them in future its a man's nature to seek services though wo dont want anything serious with them ,,get the picture

Answer 7

Tell them you are not interested, girly!

All the best!/

Answer 8

boo hoo mate

Answer 9

Tell them you are gay.............