Why do some people play games with others, giving us false hope, calling, texting, showing that they "care" and then running away? Don't they know how much it hurts being left behind.. We let them in our lives offering love and affection and all they leave us with is emptiness in distroyed world.. I hate that V. day, it reminds me of what I had and what I lost.. Or maybe it never was mine in the first place..
2007-02-14 21:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by ssagittarius78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I gave him space but love also, never was jelous maniac.. But now I think that maybe I should've.. then I would sooner see whats coming around corner.. He cheated on me, left with another girl and I don't think that it affects him at all.. He has no regrets, met him with his new girlfriend yesterday, happy as ever.. he is able to love but all of his love goes to the other person.. Like I don't exist
2007-02-14 23:05:36 · update #1
There are many happy Valentine's days waiting for you on your way.
2007-02-14 21:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
valentines day leaves me kind of cold too, think we thought we had a relationship, think it was all just an illusion in our minds, the way we felt for the other person. they may know they hurt us but due to selfishness they don't really care about how much they hurt us. but more importantly than the hurt we got is what do we want to do with the rest of our life. we can't control the past, but we can the present and the future. just begin to look at all of this from a different viewpoint, don't see it as a punishment, but as a way u got away from someone who treated u unfairly. our world is not destroyed unless we say so, has alot to do with what we are telling ourselves about our life. as our own thoughts and words control our own emotions. u can stay in this for as long as u want, but for what? for someone that wasn't able to give love in the first place.
2007-02-15 06:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hate V day too soon yet. next year, you may worship it with a good guy. you know, it hurts more on his side in a way. i don't believe you can hurt others without hurting yourself first. there is a reason he leaves and it may or may not have anything to do with you. and you may or may not ever find out. forgive him and move on. learn to forgive is actually for yourself..therefore you let the grudges go and have compassion for yourself and him. you'll find someone else. life is impermanent and you won't stay hurt forever! good luck!
2007-02-15 05:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself a question are you giving him space to grow or are you smothering him and choking him out, as a man I too have stayed away from my girl today and it was a sad and lonely day for me as well when I need my space she always chokes me out and there are things I have to do and need to do but when I do them with her she always asks me questions like I am being interrogated, and that to me is choking and dis-alarming to me not to mention unsettling I am a one woman man and I expressed to her that she is the only woman for me but she has been hurt in her past relationship and has created a insecurity and the worst part is that she is in denial concerning that fact she believes she has gotten over it but hasn't, the sad part is that I really Love her and would do anything for her, I am not saying that you are this way, but if you are give him some room , keep fit and look good for him not sleazy but sexy, be his fancy dancer, and watch the sparks fly
2007-02-15 05:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by MinO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do this a lot too... for example everything was fine then out of the blue i was broken up with on valentines day... woohoo
2007-02-15 05:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must fall for tall, dark and handsome. Alpha males will do it every time.
2007-02-15 05:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how men are and the way life goes
2007-02-18 17:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We let them in our lives..." All people aren't like this. There's someone for everyone, if we want someone.
2007-02-15 05:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop it and leave it alone will only cause problems if you keep after him
2007-02-15 08:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not following you ... where you maried to someone who left?
2007-02-15 05:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Rock Star Outlaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋