I love my b/f to bits and i trust him with my life. However a few days ago he started texting someone and he kept hiding his phone from me. He had moved up from England 2 years ago and left his life behind him. Now i've figured out its a girl from down there who he used to be friends with. I keep saying to myself that he is 500 miles away and wouldnt do anything to hurt me but im not so sure! He really isn't that type of guy but im still a bit worried! Any advice???
2007-02-14 20:55:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Texing a frined is not wrong, nor should you try to dig in and cause problems in your relationship.
Try to have a friendly chat with him on this, but do not push too far.
If you love him and he loves you then try to trust him, unless and untill you see a clear signs that he is no longer the person whom you love. Judge him for his actions and deeds as back up to his words.
All the best!/
2007-02-14 21:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Donot trust him too much.. i donot want to upset you.. but he is miles away and hiding his cell from you...
If it is bothering you then i think you sholud not ignore it totally..
Trusting your partner is really good but if someone takes advantage of it then it is not fair..
and also, a person's mind can change at any time be it a guy or a girl.. so just keep your eyes open a bit...
2007-02-15 05:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never can tell - but just remember, we all have someone in our past that re-surfaces some time or another. It's unavoidable. But when a person comes back into your life, it is not necessarily always a bad thing. So just chill a bit and stop worrying about something that has not even happened yet.
2007-02-15 05:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hiding, he's cheating! You really need to confront him asap!! Don't let it go on any longer. It sounds like he wants the best of both worlds. There is only room for two in a loving relationship! It won't be easy for you I'm sure but you deserve better. I wish you well.
2007-02-15 08:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Yankee Dude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, then you can see if he is trust worthy. If he tells you he is having a little thing, he might be honest enough to tell you that its only playing around. Maybe his answer might tell you that its time for you to look as well........If you and him arent supposed to be together, wouldnt you like to know sooner than later? If he iis just scared to be serious, dont you think getting the truth out might strengthen the relationship?
2007-02-15 05:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you have to look at the big picture, yes he may be cheating on you, but there is also a chance that he is planning something for you and doesnt want you to find out till he is ready, and thus is talking to his friend for advice. I would sugest that you talk to him before you do anything ask him about it and pay close attention to his face and body language as he answers.
2007-02-15 05:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss your findings with him once and for all to enable you take a decision whether to continue with the relationship or not. This is the only way you can relieve yourself of hurts and frustration arising from same.
2007-02-15 05:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is very important in a relationship.. but he's making it hard for you to do so hiding his phone. If she was just a friend he shouldn't be so shady about you seeing it though.
2007-02-15 05:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run to any conclusions! It is probably nothing! By the way, there are no cheating and no cheating types in humans. But don't worry.
2007-02-15 06:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by filip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hiding his cell from you, then there's a problem. He wouldn't care if you read his text messages if there wasn't anything going on.
2007-02-15 05:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋