I fell deeply in love with a man years ago now, we never could be together and i went through the heartbreak and moved on with my life. I thought i was fine, i would never have imagined that i could actually still be in love with him even though i knew i still loved him as a person. I decided to call him a couple of days ago to see how he was and he said how nice it was to hear from me. When i hungup i imediately started to cry. Just hearing his voice completely brought me undone. By absolute coincidence i saw him and a couple of old friends the next night and we all had a drink together. Now i cant stop feeling exactly like i did years ago. Its like my heart was broken all over again, and as ifi have always been in love with him. There is so much that is unsaid between us, how can i ever move on?
2007-02-14 23:19:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you need to tell him a few things, send a letter, in person contact with him is not a good idea for you obviously, but to write what you feel and make it clear that there will be no further contact, you just wanted to get your feelings out because you felt there was things left unsaid on your part.... and from there move on with your life it should put end to it for you... Good luck
2007-02-14 23:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling the same way as you were feeling year ago is absolutely natural and your crying spells are also natural reactions. If you feel they were unsaid things between two of you , You must take initiative and talk to him whatever you feel like but do not expect anything positive just talk and judge by yourself whether he is still interested in you. Otherwise face him and go on with life .
2007-02-15 07:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by APNim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation. I just can't get over my ex. I tried praying, I tried hypnotizing myself, drinking, etc. Lately I'm just accepting it. Between tears I try to think of the positives. The fact that I can "feel" such emotion. It's like stretching your life's experiences. . It's a sweet sadness type of thing and I try to let it inspire me and the memories kind of make me happy now. I tear when I hear love songs, etc...I feel....I feel...I feel and so do you and that's what makes up beautiful people. So allow yourself to feel.
2007-02-15 07:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by UM360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what was left unsaid. Do what was left undone. Dont hurt or torture yourself. Love yourself and your relationship and feelings.
2007-02-15 07:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a connection, tell him how you feel. it may be difficult but it is not impossible. it is defiantely better than carrying about question marked feelings. if u find it difficult, schedule a lunch, dinner or something where you two can be together and then you can start talking to him about other things to build up to your feelings about him
2007-02-15 07:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look.......even i'm in a situation like dis...Even i'm completely heartbroken....but u knw how it goes...if he is not yours now..maybe he will neva be.......even i had asked this qs long back...and wat i got was suggestions tellin me to live my life and forget it...They really were right...just try it once....i know its difficult to come out of it but thats the best option....Maybe i'm too young to give u dis advice but i'm tellin u wateva i feel.....even i tried to 4get him but d moment i saw him after a long time...i felt very depressed...but lets learn how to live life...try to be urself and enjoy each and everyday of u r life coz life's too short...if he's in ur FATE ...he'll come to u....or else maybe sum1 else will......
so cheer up .....GOOD LUCK !!
2007-02-15 07:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋