i seriously dont understand, why i get dumped and ditched. i mean, i have this bf of mine who is like 3 yrs younger 2 me. he's a nice guy but the only problem with him is tht, he doesn't answer my phone calls and he only mesages me after 20 hours , i.e the next day. sometimes when i feel like talkign to him and i dial his number, he wont answer my calls and only he will call me in the night. we're from different states (abt 4 hours drive). i have told this to him many times, and he appologizes, but the mistake is repeated again. i'm confused why is he making me suffer from not being able to hear his voice. am i a difficult gf or am i being too posesivie? but just tht i want to hear his voice, i can't even be sure if he'd answer my call and i wud only have to wait for him to call (tht too sometimes he wont even keep in touch with me for a day or 2).but he says he loves me a lot and told me to be with him always.what shud i do.
2007-02-14 00:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are way to possesive of this guy. If i had to call everytime you called me, i'd dump you so fast it would make your head spin. Men don't like this. You need to back off a bit and let him have some space. If you don't he'll dump you simply because he will be tired of dealing with all this female insecurity.
2007-02-14 00:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships need work... even though you both are only 4 hours away that still can cause a lot of friction in the relationship and anxiety like in your case you just want to hear his voice but he only answers your calls at night and returns them days later... that to me throws up a red flag - if he cared for you he would answer your call or at least let you know he was busy and not to call during those hours and that he would get back to you later that evening. To give the guy a fair chance also you should take into considerations his schedule if he is really busy or has some stress going on in his life he may forget. you should just ask him and tell him what you are feeling, after you do this give him his space and let him come to you. Just remember if you are going to be overbearing and nagging him all the time this could just push him away further instead of him letting you in his life. He may just need time. I hope this helped but I suggest whatever you do take it slow and don't put pressure on him.
2007-02-14 08:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by ☆Ele☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if hes doin that to u
u r a ood gf
and hes a terrible bf
plus long distance NEVER works
i kno it may be hard to dumo him and move on
but u gotta do SUMTHIN
and being torchered aint it
2007-02-14 08:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by ahhitskailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distant relationships become distant in a hurry. Find someone closer to home and he'll probably be closer to your heart too.
2007-02-14 08:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by jim j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like either move there or he move where ever you are so your closer , or dump him or keep that up and suffer for the rest of your life. you choose
2007-02-14 08:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know what he does for work? if this is repeated all the time, then it is obvious that somethin is up, and he isn't able to step up to the plate and tell what is going on.
2007-02-14 08:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. kick him out
2007-02-14 08:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋