Why am I so angry at women?

Question

I hate women because I must risk my self-esteem to talk to a woman only to get rejected. Women don't appreciate men who approach them.
I'm so sick and tired or women who don't accept compliments. I tell a girl she's hot and she got offended. She should be flattered.
I'm sick of girls at clubs that give me their numbers but don't return my calls. I left 18 messages on her voicemail and she didn't return my calls.
I'm sick of women who only date good looking guys. Why am I a 32 year old virgin? Every woman on this planet thinks I am ugly, that's why women won't hit on me. I'd be A PERFECT BOYFRIEND! I'd make breakfast in bed, sing to her, and give foot rubs DAILY! I'd wait on hand and foot and constantly be pampered.

I think women are worthless. They break men's hearts and they cause so much stress. I wish I can live in a world without women. Women are good for is sex but that's not that important. If every woman on this planet disappeared, I'd be a happier person.

Answer 1

Your anger will only make things worse. Be patient, things will work out. There are good girls, who would appreciate what u have to offer, but they are less. U may meet them one day, and then your anger may turn into love.

Answer 2

Angry At Women

Answer 3

It's your attitude! I mean, frustration is one thing, but you are reeeeally bitter and angry! If you think this doesn't come through in your interactions with people, particularly women, think again.

It seems, underneath this rant, that you think too little of yourself. Maybe you should take some steps to improve your self-worth, which will in turn improve your confidence. Any confidence you try to demonstrate with women is not sincere, but forced. Don't force it! And don't force situations.... just let it happen. You will meet someone who sees and appreciates you for you. but only if you are being YOU. Feeling truly good and confident with yourself emanates from you and people respond.

How do you expect a woman you've never met before to respond to, "you're hot". You're coming across like a big dumb gorilla. And, just a tip, clubs are not the ideal place to meet women. At least not you want to actually form a relationship with. It is possible, but not likely. If you left 18 messages on my voicemail I'd think you were psycho. I wouldn't call you back either.

Believing that women are out to get you is not a healthy outlook. Not by a long shot. The sooner you stop viewing them as the enemy the sooner you might get a date.

Answer 4

Please don't be angry at women in general!! You are probably hitting on the wrong people.

1. 18 messages? Come on. I would NEVER call back if a guy left 18 voice mails on my phone. I'd be creeped out, and it sounds like the guy is desperate!

2. "I'd make breakfast in bed, sing to her, and give foot rubs DAILY! I'd wait on hand and foot and constantly be pampered." Uhhh, NO. yes, that is nice... but it gets to be a HUGE pressure on a girl, if you do too much, and if it becomes a routine, she will take you for granted.

3. What is this "Every woman on this planet thinks I am ugly" junk. No one is ugly. Those who are ugly are those who have ugly personalities.



A girl ALWAYS (I think most ladies out there will agree with me) wants what she CANNOT have. Act cool, busy, and do whatever that interests you. Women loves a man who does his own thing, whether it is sports, passion about his work, or his hobbies.

Maybe you should look for women at places other than bars and clubs. Trust me, you will find your perfect person, when you least expect it.

Take a step back, relax!!!! Yes, some women out there "break men's hearts and they cause so much stress." like you said, but not all.

Answer 5

"I tell a girl she's hot and she got offended. She should be flattered."

Try not looking at women as meat. If woman, and men for that fact, have been drinking do you really think either would be being themselves? There are many group social settings out there. A good place to start is with things you are interested in. Wouldn't you find that common interest is a good place to meet people in general?

Answer 6

I am a WOMAN!!

Now if that's what you think of what woman really is... oh dear.. you was just that Blind!

OPEN YOUR EYES WIDE OPEN!!

Look at around you! Why don't you take away that anguish that empowering you. Let your heart be humble and try to understand OUR nature!

Well... i can never Blame you for that ( as In ). Why do you go from the other side of the planet. Women DIFFERS in EVERYTHING!!

Perhaps... WE, WOMAN is not really the main problem here...
But YOU in the whole. Free yourself from those impressions of yours.

Now... why don't you see woman as WOMAN. Try at least in a day spent your day with a woman from the other side of your world... Eliminate those kind of thinkings that persuade your mind.

Well, if you say that we are WORTHLESS(?) How about you? You never born in this earth because of us(woman). If you just try to have a leaden heart for a day with me(woman)... JUDGE ME as the sunsets appears.

All i can say is... Do not GENERALIZE a WOMEN that you've met, from the WOMEN who know how to appreciate MEN in unpredictable ways. You need some sparks. Perhaps, your strategy is tough enough. YOu were thinking that your UGLY(?)??

Well... if that's the way of your thinking.. you had a very low self esteem dear. Why don't you fly free as a bird and go to distant places alone. A 32-year old virgin...( whoooaaa...) is that so? Are you sick of WOMAN or you are SICK of taking an effort. If you are a risk-taker person, you can win a heart of a WOMAN and be able to WIN her heart to VALUE you as well.

Regarding about S.E.X that you said not important to you....
All i can say.. SEX is an appetizer of life, although it is somehow, sacred.

You can never achieve happiness if you don't know how to forgive yourself...

WE ARE NOT SICK!!! We Woman are your partners, your wing so you can fly to the zenith of success.. If you aim for the HAPPINESS!! forget it!!! You want to be a happier person... that's erroneous tough thing dude! Try to vanished your Hatred with WOman.... then know your purpose in life.

BE MAN MAN!!!

Answer 7

A LADY will not appreciate being told she's "hot", because that is a word that immature people use. "Lovely" or "Charming" are much better, classier words. Also, nightclubs are NOT a good place to meet women. Try coffee houses, gyms, or Church. You need some kind of activity....bike riding, a running/hiking club...or take a night class at your local college. There are many places to find single, classy people. Good luck, and stop generalizing all women. Have a positive, approachable, friendly attitude, and SMILE.

Answer 8

Well if someone left me 18 messages id be a bit freaked out to be honest. Maybe your just a bit full on and it scares women. I think its unfair of you to say all women are worthless. Maybe your just going the wrong way about it all.

Answer 9

I quite agree that night clubs are not the place to meet "quality" women. If you ask me, I can say the same but about men. They never apprecate what I have given to them. That's why I have not had a really worthy relationship so far. But I never give uo trying. Otherwise I have to stop living...

Answer 10

and you think all women are the same no wonder you cant find any one. we are not all the same or worthless, just because you have had some bad luck doesnt mean the right girl isnt waiting out there for you, stop looking an she will find you dont sound deperate women hate it .you sound the ideal man theres no rush.she is out there some where. good luck