after a relationship hold..he wants to break..sayin he does not want to hurt me.but he sounded upset.almost like its not really what he wants..i just asked if he stil loves me..he says yea..den i told him why cant we go back to the way things were if he stil does..i was really sad..then now we're stil together..but he seem like he doesnt care..did i forced him to stay?what sud i do....i wud let go if he does not love my anymore..or has someone els..but now?
2007-02-14 00:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just that he doesnt tell me he loves me anymore until i says it..and he just say yea..unlike the past...does all guys just let it go like dat??why??
2007-02-14 00:34:38 · update #1
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2007-02-14 00:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you must set him free if you can see that he doesn't care anymore and you felt that as if you forced him to love you back. anyway if he still loves you he will come back to you again, maybe he just needed some time or space maybe to work some things out that are bothering him in your relationship.
2007-02-14 08:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about the whole thing and if he wants to break up than just let it be. and just ask him did you force him to say yes and if he say yea than just let him know that you did not mean to do that.
2007-02-14 08:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by lovely_sexy_finer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask him what makes him ask for break up! You must know the reason why!
You need to talk to him (and make him talk). Then you will know if you had forced him to stay. Then decide what to do next.
If there's way to patch up, try it. Else, let go.
2007-02-14 08:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Annie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things might be over between you two already, it's just that he's staying beside you because he feels that it might hurt your feelings deeply if you two broke up. get him to tell you the truth if you wish, but you must be able to take it. he wants to move on cause he might not be feeling what he felt towards you when he first met you, and now he thinks that things are over between you two.its not that he doesn't love you anymore, its just that his feelings aren't as strong as the past's.
2007-02-14 08:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Love cannot be forced. If it is not there, don't waste your time. Just move on.
2007-02-14 08:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, see his body language, see his actions. If he is forcing himself just to please u, it may be better to make the first move, than to wait for the inevitable to happen.
2007-02-14 08:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on how u approached him. he may of felt forced to get back togethter with you. don't be so blunt, lay back and act the way you did when you was happy with him.
2007-02-14 08:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel your feelings 1st. what u feel is more important. dont force love. love is something tht comes abt naturally and with full of beautiful feelings.
2007-02-14 08:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by dora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not force he to stay.
It might be hard but, each person must do what they need to do.
2007-02-14 08:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋