weve bin goin through a rough patch n im 3mth pregnant with his child,i cin his car out side his exs house wer his ova child lives so i rang her,we have no split up ,and he says we wil never get bk to geva as i wil never b able to see his other kids coz of his ex ne ideas on how i can get him bk?plz i need ur help
2007-02-14 00:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm...You are three months pregnant, he has another child with his ex, he broke up with you, says we're never getting back together, and now is back with his ex. Sounds like an immature player to me. I know it is hard because you are pregnant, you have a part of him inside you and you love him (or think you do). Is he showing his mature side that he is going to take care of you? Yes, he does have another child with his ex, which means he is always going to have a part in her life, but he needs to wise up and realize that he now has two children with different mothers. First ask yourself a few questions, did he ever show he really truly cares for you? I'm not saying buying you roses every so often or buying you a ring. I mean is he there for you emotionally? Does he ever put you down or intentionally hurts you? Back before you met him, remember what qualities you always wanted in a guy. Then compare your qualities then with your ex now. Does your ex have a lot of good points or bad points?
I know it's hard because you love him and you really want someone to fill that void and love you in return. If he's acting like this now, chances are he will continue this act and never change. And yes it's a hard thing to tell yourself. You may have to move on to someone who will respect you and love you. There are other guys out there. I hope the best for you!
2007-02-14 00:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES - before you have that child, buy yourself a nice shiny new dictionary and learn how to spell and how to put a sentence together. As for the bloke, is he really worth it? but i suggest that you play fair with him for the sake of your child (shaking my head) it's such a shame the way kids are brought into the world these days.
2007-02-14 08:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by xhoneybeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see him remind him that he also has a child inside of you and that one is just as important, be care full that he isnt going back with his ex!!!
on the other hand you deserve betta than him, he clearly doesnt give a sh*t about anyone else but him self. get a betta bf. please
i hope thias helps
ps HAPPY VALINTIES DAY
2007-02-14 08:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by baby blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww! u poor thing u much be really hurting. Try not to get to upset as your having a baby. Try talking to him about it and sorting things out face to face. If that doesn't work leave him to it he doesn't no what hes missing.
2007-02-14 08:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by gemmaloveschris06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know you are feeling hurt im guessing but if you are haveing his child and he doesnt want to know you hes not worth the bother you will have to just move on for the sake of your child
2007-02-14 08:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by cristle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes not worth having back really
2007-02-14 08:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did'nt understand most of that but if hes that ****, wot i sort of understand is your pregnant and he has left u kick him to the curb
2007-02-14 08:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by knowlesy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to spell and speak properly first.
2007-02-14 08:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't need him back move on and be happy for you and the kid.
2007-02-14 08:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋