is it jus me bein paranoid n jealous or should i go with my instincts?my man n i hav a long distance rel,we talk everyday bt since at he hasnt called when he says he will doesnt return my calls n today valentines day did wish me happy valentine n when i asked him what he's doin he said he's going for a meal with his landlords(he's a estate agent)he did say they were middle aged men!also he clearly pointed out that when he gets married he wants to live at home with his family as his mums not well.when we talked b4 i said it was ok but evenyually wld like to getr own place bt he wants to stay there 4eva!i dont know wether he's trying to put me off him by being like this even though he says we're ok n he's just been busy,why would he take his landlords out for a business meal on valentines day?i am jealous bt knw il see him on the weekend,shld i bite my tounge n say nothing till i see him or question him 2nite n potentially piss him off?
2007-02-14 00:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way you will know for sure what's going on inside his head, is by picking up the phone and talking to him. Tell him about your concerns and be completely open and honest with him. It may turn out that he does love you and its all in your head, but if it isn't, he'll tell you and it's better to know now than find out 10 years later with 3 kids and living with his parents. Good luck!
Ps, Happy Valentines Day!
2007-02-14 00:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously taking another girl out, sorry but you know yourself that hes lying about the landlord dinner thing. Find someone else closer to home whos not a wanker like he is!!
2007-02-14 00:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Christina B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he is taking his landlords out to dinner on valentines, surely they would be doing stuff with their wives or gf's. Maybe they are all gay really?
You should say something, he should have been with you tonight not them.
2007-02-14 00:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on the conclusion that he is cheating bulid your self up and hold it in till the weekend. when he comes gently drop itin to the conversation if he starts to get angry it could be and indication that he hasnt done anything but if he gets all mushy, probe deeper. if he addmitts cheating cut his b*lls off
ps HAPPY VALINTINES DAY
2007-02-14 00:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by baby blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you think, but use proper english else he might not understand you.
He might not call to chat because he cant understand a word you say if you speak like you type.
2007-02-14 00:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by whycantigetagoodnickname 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this loser ... you deserve better .
2007-02-14 00:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋