Does love exist in the same form as in case of Romeo and Juliet?
2007-02-14 00:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by raj_22oct 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All true love involves compromise - Romeo and Juliet would soon have found that out if they'd lived to get married and have kids. They'd have had the same arguments about washing the dishes and leaving clothes on the floor that we all do!
2007-02-14 00:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes id does and that is where the difference lies between true love and infatuation.
An infatuation is intense and often times, short lived. In infatuation, people tend to idealize the other person and fail to see their shortcomings. They emphasize the positive attributes in the other person and this adds to the intensity of their infatuation, which they mistakenly perceive as "real love," or more accurately described, they feel they are "in love."
Being in love is an exhilarating feeling, and it has the potential to become real love. Being in love is like the hook for the opportunity of real love to present itself. When you are in love with someone, you feel very attracted to the other person, in several different levels: physical, mental, emotional and yes, spiritual. From getting to know the person with whom you are in love, real love has the opportunity to flourish.
Real love, unlike an infatuation is realistic. Real love is a complete acceptance of the other person, and of oneself. Because if you can't love yourself, who can you love? Or who will love you? Complete acceptance does not mean that we don't find shortcomings in the other person, as that is not possible, we are humans and we are not perfect, we all make mistakes. Complete acceptance means discernment with no judgment. It means that we accept the whole package just as it is, without trying to change the other person to meet our every need.
Real love resides in knowing one another. In knowing what our strengths are, what our weaknesses are, what our potential is. In knowing these things we come to respect, and admire each other, and out of that, real love is born. In the words of Wayne Dyer, " Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you."
I wish you, true love!
All the best!/
2007-02-14 00:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some, love is true love. For some, they think love is just compromise.
You would have to experience love, to know what love means for you. Love can be sweet and bitter.
For me, I believe love is true love.
2007-02-14 00:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Annie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love is true love ppl that think loves any diferant must realy go do some reserch
2007-02-14 00:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by cristle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course true love exists if you really love someone then you comprimise.
2007-02-14 01:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋