i had a boyfriend,,
he was good and kind to me..
however,we have broken up due to my parents' opposition.
as in my parents' eyes, he is what they calledd a "bad" guy
but just..i admit that he is kinda bad sometimes..
like he always hangs out with friends who just smokes all the time..
but i do still miss him so much until now..
what should i do..?
Should i care my own feeling or my parents'?
2007-02-14 00:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by athena k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It comes to a point when you have to realize that its your life and not theirs. Tell them you respect their wishes and understand why they'd be concerned for you, as you are their flesh and blood, but explain to them it is your life and in the end, your life is your own to choose.
Buddha said, "Everyone is responsible for their own happiness".
2007-02-14 00:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by crazylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your life..not theirs..to some point you should respect your parents..you know they are just looking out for you..and if he is around alot of people that smoke or do bad things..then I'd say thats why they dont want you around him...but if your love is strong enough for him...tell your parents to give him a chance and prove that he is a good guy to you.
2007-02-14 08:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are. if you are under 18, then you should probably be guided by your parents views on this, as they probably can see things about him that you can't that he's no good.
but if you are an adult, you really need to be making these decisions yourself. but if you can see some negative traits in him, then question yourself if this is what you really want in a partner.
good luck.
2007-02-14 08:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. own
2007-02-14 08:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make your own decisions,you are the one who has to live with the consequences.
2007-02-14 08:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's you choice to make.
Good Luck
2007-02-14 08:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋