Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

Why bother dating someone in High School when they just break up with you anyways?

2007-02-14 00:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:42:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel really really ill. I have a cold, I've pulled a muscle in my hip, and I feel like I'm gonna throw up, and I generally feel down. :(

I have an old friend coming to my house today, but shes SUCH an old friend, that I barely remember her. I went to her house a few weeks ago, and it was great, but she has a massive house, and loads to do. Should I make an effort, or be quiet, because I can get away with it, being ill.

Please answer ASAP, she'll be here any minute.

2007-02-14 00:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by Live4Music 2 in Friends

You know blogs right? Well, we were doing homework for social studies on it and I accidentally deleted his work and he started cursing at me...but tomorrow is track and field day and we're on the same team. i'm trying to apologise to him but he won't listen and keeps cursing at me...i have no feelings for him and he doesn't like me that way. but he is a friend.

2007-02-14 00:40:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is in the british army hes away 5 days a week only home at weekends but on weekend i never see him hes always out saying hes out at the pub or at a mates house. I only see him in the mornings when he gets up and at night when he goes to bed. Is he playing away??

2007-02-14 00:40:21 · 21 answers · asked by gemmaloveschris06 2 in Singles & Dating

He was a working project,he used to have tons of fights, get arrested, drink alot, let's just say ,a complete bad boy package.But thats was before we met,after, as in now.He stays a home all the time, talks on the phone, running up my bills,complains, but he doesn't do none of the old things he used to.Which should be a good thing, it is it's just , he doesn't go out no where,work, do nothing. now he's a couch potatoe.I love him i just got to much on my plate to be trying to take care of a grown man.and it's not like we haven't tried to make it work, i took him out alot, to have fun down in dallas with my family, he just sat in the car playing with the cd's and the only family member's he became cool with was my brother,and my mom.I know so whats wrong.I pay my moms bills,and my brother lives with his girlfriend just like my boyfriend.and none of them work.So point is now his sensitive, and lazy and i want out.it's hard taking car of my mom, i can't take care of him too.Help me Please!

2007-02-14 00:39:37 · 16 answers · asked by pvy_crazy 2 in Singles & Dating

U really loved him, dated for a year, he moved and now hes back.....would u give it another go?

2007-02-14 00:39:04 · 20 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

We've been together six years and in the past, he has always been so lovely. He's bought me roses, taken me to Paris, out for lovely meals etc but he says he can't be bothered anymore. Where's the romantic man I love gone?

2007-02-14 00:37:58 · 46 answers · asked by lucyt20 5 in Singles & Dating

married for 7 yrs sincce day 1 we r fighting for one or the other he gives his sister every 3 months about 80,000 -1 laks to spend and he always says that is my responsibility.but she is married.so when i was pregnant i just asked him if i can have 50 dollars to keep with me he got angry and stopped talking to me as also my pregnancy was complicated.but now i have a beautyfull baby boy so due to my pregnancy i could not work .after my baby born i went to india he just gave me 80 dollars i went with 2 boys one 6 and 2nd 3 months i went to my sis marriage.i asked him to come with me as it will be difficult to go with 2 kids but he said he did not get permission from office.he did not let me do even 5 dollars shopping i went with just my kids with 60 dollars chocolate.he came exactly after 15 days to india with a computer with LCD monitor,lipstic,nailpolish chocolates etc with $2250 cashier check to his sister gave in front of me.now i got a job do i still have to give mymoney to him

2007-02-14 00:37:08 · 16 answers · asked by nals 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 00:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i am 16, i live with my step dad, he let me hang round with my friend and ever thing but i need to go bake be4 9.

2007-02-14 00:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by cold_ice23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been wit my girl for 9 years.. Ive been having some trust issues/suspicion... last night I went to her house, she was acting weird, wasn't really talking... I brought up my issues I had remaining, and she wasn't really talking about it, she said, "not right now, i am feeling sick" but her feelin sick never stopped her before... I told her I didn't think she cared and left her house.. I called her back and told her why I felt like that.. I buckled and we are together again.

I said, jokingly, "I can't be sexually attracted to you, acting like that" and she said, "i'm not sexually attracted to you either" I said, "really?" and she said, "NOPE" but then said she was joking.

She said she got me a V-Day present and it's not good and she'll show me how much she don't care about me. She said she was joking as well. Finally, she brought up the fact that her friend just cheated on her b/f..

Dunno what to think???

2007-02-14 00:35:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here's my situation; I'm in a serious relationship with a dancer at a nightclub. Whenever she is working, I always get the feeling like she is cheating on me, even though she never has. I am planning on taking our relationship to the next level, but I am worried that I will not be able to handle the stress. What can I do?

2007-02-14 00:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by MojoFace 2 in Singles & Dating

i have never told hubby he couldn't go, and i've never wanted to go, but recently for my (girl) friends bday me her and 5 guys went. i had a pretty good time. hubby was upset that i was with 5 guys, but they were just "aquatinces", now i know i'd be ticked if he went with 5 girls but is it different for girls. p.s it was a booby bar, not a willie bar.

2007-02-14 00:34:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how far/much are you willing to go during valentine's day?

2007-02-14 00:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by fat_itchy_worm 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for nearly 6 years. Recently my partner and I married and I am 23 weeks pregnant. We have the usual ups and downs like all couples. Ours are always due to my mother-in-law. She has a habit of interfering and generally running me, my family, my culture even my deceased mother, down. Due to my current state, I decided to take a stand against this, as I didn't want to have to put up with it before and after my baby was born. This has caused huge fights with the over bearing mother-in-law who is refusing to let go, and my husband is caught in between as his mother keeps calling him at work and ranting at him. He has in the past 23 weeks, walked out on me 4 times, always returning to say sorry. The whole situation is stressing me out. I know that we are better apart if he can't control his mother, but I feel that i'm punishing him for his mothers spitefulness. My husband is a good man, but his mother brings out the worst in both of us. What should I do?

2007-02-14 00:32:36 · 27 answers · asked by Jamie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She doesn't know when to let things go. She still blames me for the time she broke her arm when she was eight because I was the one who gave her the roller skates. When my sister died (in December) she said "Well, didn't you want to be an only child"!!! She has gotten on my last nerve... but I am basically her only friend and she is homeschooled and NEVER gets out of the house to hang out with teens her age. What should I do???

2007-02-14 00:31:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am altering the hearts suit of a deck of cards to make them into coupons for hubby for V-Day. I need ideas for 13 coupons. They can be a little dirty! :)

2007-02-14 00:31:21 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda M 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 00:30:57 · 10 answers · asked by ~~simply me~~ 4 in Singles & Dating

ex-husband a very secail valentine's day present. one last hit of this sweet chereepie. i hope he tells his girlfriend. if he doesnt. i will. do you think he will like this?

2007-02-14 00:29:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:29:03 · 9 answers · asked by dark_mad_shadow 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you could ask one question on here without using up points - what would you ask.
(trying to avoid the subject of Valentines - I am not seeing my bloke for another 7 hours and so far he's not been able to ring or text me either.....so not very happy just now)

2007-02-14 00:28:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and Is 14 that age? Do anyone out there know anybody right now that is 14 and has never been kissed or had a boyfriend?

2007-02-14 00:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

prefer that they be free.

2007-02-14 00:27:56 · 5 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is what I'm going to send her

"not sure what to say
today is a fine day
hope I'm not over the line
but I'm glad you a friend of mine
have a splendid v-day ~hugs~"

I want to be more than friends with her....she knows that but we both have issues from the past that we need to resolve and get over it....
she needs to get over a divorce and I need to get over a break up from 5year relation ship

what else can I say in this message to make her aware that i like here more than a friend?

please keep it short so I can fit it in a txt msg
a clever rhyme would be nice

2007-02-14 00:27:20 · 2 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1 in Singles & Dating

well am new in the uk and we living with my brother and dad but the later likes terrorising us at home,reaching to an extent of slapping me,he drinks alot and likes to beat dad as well, i've just discovered that hes been doing this even before i joined them so,please help me with what i should do,coz dad had been scared to report him to the police that they won't do any help,please help me am really living in fear of what he can do to us and the neighbours in future.

2007-02-14 00:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by penelope c 1 in Family

When February 14th Arrives,
I know what they'll do,
The couples will come in tides,
And feel sorry for me and you.

When February 14th is here,
I know what they'll say,
Cheer up, my dear,
It's Valentines Day!

There'll be cuddling and loving,
and kissing too,
they'll do it so much,
it'll make us go "Ew!"

The shops will be smushy,
lovey dovey and red,
there'll be bears and music,
there'll be so much that it wont escape your head!

So beware, beware,
that sick-making time,
when everyone, everywhere,
will be speaking in Rhyme.

2007-02-14 00:27:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 00:26:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No one said Love is easy and now one said life does not throw people curves - both male and female - questioning one's decisions from time to time. This creating upheaval in relationships. Does anger and abusive acts automatically imply punishment. The dynamics of relating assumes struggle now and then - not always a bed of roses and since we as a race are still trying to figure ourselves out, we are also still trying to understand the dyamics of relating - particularly long term. When the going gets tough - over a period of time - people say "divorce and move on". Isn't this a quick fix for what could turn out to be a speed bump or trouble that could last for awhile but in the long term playout favorably with dedication to the "possible end result" of a good ending in the long term? Even if it can be a one way street at times. We all become the most selfish in times of suffereing - even within a relationship. Selfishness implies some form of abusive acts towards that target.

2007-02-14 00:26:02 · 4 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce