i have never told hubby he couldn't go, and i've never wanted to go, but recently for my (girl) friends bday me her and 5 guys went. i had a pretty good time. hubby was upset that i was with 5 guys, but they were just "aquatinces", now i know i'd be ticked if he went with 5 girls but is it different for girls. p.s it was a booby bar, not a willie bar.
2007-02-14 00:34:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think there's a fine line that you and your husband need to draw. I go to the strip club with my boyfriend and have a blast! The only thing I ask him is that IF he goes without me, please don't get a lap dance. I don't mind him looking at other women...it's only natural for people to look at attractive people-just because youre with someone does not mean everyone else suddenly looks like medussa. I think that the lap dance, for me, is crossing the line...having another women rub herself all over my man... he agrees, bc he knows he would hate it if I went to a male strip club and had some stripper rub himself all over me...
I think he might just be more upset that you went with other men..doesn't really matter that you know them- bc men think other men are scum....
2007-02-14 04:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by paha4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it had more to do with the 5 guys than the strip club. If you want to get him over it, take him to a strip club and get him a couple of lap dances. He will forget all about what happened before.
And, if you are "allowed" to go with 5 male aquaintances to a strip club, you have no right to be angry if he were to do the same with 5 female "aquaintances. Fair is fair.
2007-02-14 10:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it not wrong and if two people love each other than the word trust should exist and just because your taken or married does not mean your dead. I think people get jealous way to easy.
2007-02-14 13:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Er 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No; it is not "wrong."
Actually, being that we both have a healthy sexual appetite, we go to strip clubs together. It's much more fun that way...
2007-02-14 11:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only go with your husband or you will bring drama into your relationship.
2007-02-14 11:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋