No you can't. And if you, believe, you can then its not love its infatuation!
An infatuation is intense and often times, short lived. In infatuation, people tend to idealize the other person and fail to see their shortcomings. They emphasize the positive attributes in the other person and this adds to the intensity of their infatuation, which they mistakenly perceive as "real love," or more accurately described, they feel they are "in love."
Being in love is an exhilarating feeling, and it has the potential to become real love. Being in love is like the hook for the opportunity of real love to present itself. When you are in love with someone, you feel very attracted to the other person, in several different levels: physical, mental, emotional and yes, spiritual. From getting to know the person with whom you are in love, real love has the opportunity to flourish.
Real love, unlike an infatuation is realistic. Real love is a complete acceptance of the other person, and of oneself. Because if you can't love yourself, who can you love? Or who will love you? Complete acceptance does not mean that we don't find shortcomings in the other person, as that is not possible, we are humans and we are not perfect, we all make mistakes. Complete acceptance means discernment with no judgment. It means that we accept the whole package just as it is, without trying to change the other person to meet our every need.
Real love resides in knowing one another. In knowing what our strengths are, what our weaknesses are, what our potential is. In knowing these things we come to respect, and admire each other, and out of that, real love is born. In the words of Wayne Dyer, " Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you."
All the best!/
2007-02-14 00:35:26
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answered by Ebby 6
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no, never
if u can put a pricee on it, then it isn't called love, right
2007-02-14 08:34:14
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answered by athena k 1
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u will need price of love when u married. i mean love need money if u r married. but true love feeling cant buy with money. coz true love is beautyfull
2007-02-14 08:34:56
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answered by WINNA 2
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If u really love you won't think of it in terms of money. You can't by feelings!
2007-02-14 08:37:14
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answered by Bojana 2
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love is not priceless,the price is understand ur luv ok
2007-02-14 08:36:05
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answered by doonnn 2
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NOPEEE!!! never can u put a price on love!
2007-02-14 08:34:37
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answered by toppercheerleader2012 1
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Dont even think about it.Love is priceless
2007-02-14 08:34:42
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answered by cutiepie 3
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no you can not buy love
2007-02-14 08:35:04
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answered by tauntonkaleb 2
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yes. the hookers around here charge $20.00.
2007-02-14 08:48:42
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answered by Anonymous
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wat the hell r u talkin abt?
2007-02-14 08:46:47
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answered by || SMI || 3
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