My boyfriend is in the british army hes away 5 days a week only home at weekends but on weekend i never see him hes always out saying hes out at the pub or at a mates house. I only see him in the mornings when he gets up and at night when he goes to bed. Is he playing away??
2007-02-14 00:40:21 · 21 answers · asked by gemmaloveschris06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if he isnt he is not exactly been a very loving boyfriend is he??
Is it your house he stops at on the weekends?? Im sorry honey but it sounds like he is just using you as a place to stay for the weekend so he can be with his mates.
stand up to him tell him your not a door mat and your house is not a b&b and if he doesn't start treating you with some respect then he is out!!
You deserve better you cant be getting much out of this relationship can you xx
2007-02-14 00:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is u need to find u a guy who wants to be with u 24-7 and not just 2 days a week in the mornings. Leave him and go look elsewhere for a guy ok.
2007-02-14 09:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he's away 5 days a week - should mean he really misses you and can't wait to spend time with you. Whether he's playing away or not, only you know - trust your instincts - the bigger issue is he doesn't spend any quality time with you - you can't have a relationship like that - tell him you're not happy and have a chat
2007-02-14 08:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not necessarily be 'playing away', but you should be more important to him than just last thing at night and first thing in the morning. He needs a wake up call. Be tough and set some ground rules down.
2007-02-14 08:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of this relationship? You never see him and he upsets you to the point where you are seeking advice off the internet.
If you are the kind of girl who want's a boyfriend just so you can tell everyone "I have a boyfriend" then great. If you want a boyfriend so you can have someone to have a laugh and share affection with then get shot of this imature **** asap.
Good luck x
2007-02-14 09:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might be up to no good and using you as a hotel. if i was away from my girl for 5 days a week, i'd want to be with her all weekend.
2007-02-14 08:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't nessesarily mean he is playing away, I can see your train of thought though all the same, best tell him that you would like to spend more time with him when he IS home, you will find out then how he really feels about you.
good luck hun
2007-02-14 10:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is using you, i know you probably didn't want to hear that, ask him if he could spend some more time with you at weekends, ask him Q's and if he seems tense and pauses hs lying to you and then its time to get rid of him :) hope this helps and good luck
2007-02-14 09:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jenz90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he get you a nice valentine present? He sounds a bit annoying to say the least. Start charging rent now.
2007-02-14 08:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by 👑 Hypocrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmm, not sure if he's playing away, but he's treating you badly. Seems to me, he's using you for a bed and your probually doing his washing too.
2007-02-14 08:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by thepurestone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋