Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

So I've been single for a long time, and I'm wanting to find someone.
Why is it that there is virtually no one?

2007-02-14 02:04:16 · 6 answers · asked by MrPodpechan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 02:02:56 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

i want to take her back but im scared too im afraid she will break my heart again she is sorry for what she did i can tell ive known her for 9 years but im scared to give my heart back to her. She said she did it because she thought i did not love her and she found an old friend online they started talking and her said things that made her feel good they meet up one night and she spent the night with him he held her all night and the next morning made his move. she said she just got caught up in the moment but really did not want to.I believe she is sorry and made a mistake but should i forgive her.should i set her up to find out the truth
or should i just man up and get over it?

2007-02-14 02:02:48 · 24 answers · asked by demorider2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it started off that me andmy girls were going out we were at a hotel getting ready and a bus was gonna pick us up. the bus came and i was shaving my legs i hurried to the line but one of my friends took off for the bathroom. i thought she was sick so i followed. when she opened the door i so mortified heres my fiancee masterbaiting my friend takes off and i yell at him then to make him feel like crap i help him finish and he gets it all over my black pants i was pissed my friends all left and i had nothing else to wear he totally ruined my night out. and even though i helped him i was mortied and pissed off severely. i told him that the discussion wasnt over and he was in deep **** and i said i might even leave u for this. then i woke up. very confusing i dont understand what this means please any input would be of great help thank you. oh and i usually never dream or if i do dream i never remember them but this was so vivid i almost thought it was real life.please help
kritter876p

2007-02-14 02:01:26 · 2 answers · asked by kritter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her mom is a drug addict and has been to the nut house, so she is completely unpredictable and emotionally unstable. Her father was emotionally abusive to her and beat her down mentally to the point she sounded like she was gonna attempt suicide. She wants to get emancipated, but is afraid to tell anyone what is going on. She needs help badly and because she has been taught to keep her emotions pinned up inside she doesn't know how to express whats going on. she just says everything is fine and she can handle it till she graduates. Yet every time she sneaks a call to me, she weeps because she wants out of there so badly. She wanted out so badly that she ran away twice, so now I'm not allowed to see her because they think i am responsible for her running away. It sucks so badly because this is our first V-day and we cant be together, and I'm afraid of what she may be going through. Please advise, and if your a lawyer or know one personally tell me what i can/should do legally. thanks.

2007-02-14 02:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family

We were suppose to get married in April, now he says he can't get away until May. Because everyone took vacation spots at work for April. He said he wants to go visit a friend first. I feel like he is putting this off. But when I ask him if he is sure he wants to get married he says yes. He said he is a private person and wants to get married at the Justice of the Peace. Is this normal behavior or am I just paranoid.

2007-02-14 02:00:36 · 18 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Weddings

that the most importan qality of a man is his sense of humor?
are they that miserable that they need someone to make them laugh all the time?
and another thing is Honesty....they want an honest guy but they cant be honest them selves

you women dont want funny, clean, romantic....etc etc all the crap you say because you dont want to look shallow
lets be honest you want rich, hot/handsome looking, and you always think you can do better thats why you shut down all the guys because you are waiting on your prince in shiny armour on a white horse...isnt that right?

2007-02-14 02:00:25 · 16 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 02:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by Saravanan K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been wid this boy for about 2 weeks and im fine when i am talkin to him over msn messenger and texting but when i come face to face with him he is very diffrent...he can be quite nasty to other people and i feel quite sorry for them also he is quite rude and im not sure if i like his personality...i dont want to finish with him but i might just wait and see how it goes but i feel quite mean finishing it! what shall i do?

2007-02-14 01:59:32 · 31 answers · asked by lou lou 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an online friend. She says she's my age and she live is my town. I never gave her anyother information. We've been talking for 4 weeks and now she's got it in her head that we are meeting at this one restaraunt on Tuesday. I emailed her sayin this-"I am so sorry! Today I got bad news that I'm moving to Miami! I'm sorry!"
Suprisingly she believed it and she replied saying--"This sucks! I can't believe it! I really wanted to meet you at _________."

Just to be safe I said-
"Yeah, and I'm dying my hair brown and getting it cut to my shoulders."
(I just said that because my mom says she wants to go to that restaraunt on my brothers birthday which is on the same day!she already has my description of what Iook like in my profile so just incase she thinks that's me it's really not)She told me she was cryin so I feel kind of guilty But I wanted to be safe.I know it was bad that I met someone I didn't know online! I learned my lesson! But is it ok that I made her upset like that?

2007-02-14 01:59:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-14 01:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no idea on what i should do. My little brother (age 14) goes out with my former best friend (age 18). At first i didn't know how to react. Then i tried to be supportfull, because i diddnt want to push my bro away or lose my friendship. But i couldent, and the more time they spent togather the angrier i got. It has been 4 months now and that anger has grown to hate. The woman who used to be my best friend, i now hate with all my soul. Everytime i see the two of them togather i cringe. And they come home every-day after school togather. And everyday i am pokite to the both of them. And my former friend still thinks that we're good friends, but i dont. My question is this, should i tell her how much i hate her, or continue being polite. Oh, and she knows that i dont approve of them going out. Please help, thanks in advance.

2007-02-14 01:58:57 · 3 answers · asked by Brent E 1 in Friends

but I'm not sure that would be a good idea amd I would need some help because he is a rather tall fellow and i'm petite. Any ideas on this?

2007-02-14 01:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want to break up with him like "that" . but i want to slowly drift away, because i want it to make sense that he and i arne't meant to be. but i want to slowly make it fall apart. can u guys help?

2007-02-14 01:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband of 10 years. We have two wonderful kids together. In the past 3 years we have been through a lot of changes- Moved twice, 2 job changes for him, etc.

It seems like lately we go through the motions- We are friendly. He has a very stressful job where he leaves at 7:00AM and comes home at 7:00PM. I have a stressful jobs of taking care of our children and doing everything house related. We are both exhausted and spent by the end of the day.

We barely communicate. When we have time together we do home improvements or sort through bills or other chores and obligations. There is no romance at all. I feel that we've been like this for too long.

How do we get the romance back?

Please only serious replies- Don't say, "have sex". Also, it is VERY difficult to get babysitters.

2007-02-14 01:57:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Any tips on getting a girlfriend? I never had a girlfriend before nor do I have good female friends. I hear that just because a person has a female friend, that doesn't necessarily means she will become his girlfriend. And that is true. I have heard that 1st appearance matters a lot so will it be better for me if I stop biting my nails and talking to girls? I know for a fact that my voice is a really bad turnoff. My friend say I need to impress a girl with my other qualities. What is the other qualities that I need to find to get a girlfriend? I am 19 years old already.

2007-02-14 01:57:28 · 20 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

So you hate a girl for some reason; doesn't it also mean that you could like her back also just as much?

2007-02-14 01:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by jenn's answers 2 in Singles & Dating

my youngest son acts like he is the father of the house and shouts at the top of his voice

2007-02-14 01:55:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have always heard this supposally the GUY CODE.
you don't date your friends wife, ex wife , gf or ex gf. even if they break up. is this true? if not is there such a thing as the GUY CODE and what is it?

2007-02-14 01:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Any tips on getting a girlfriend? I never had a girlfriend before nor do I have good female friends. I hear that just because a person has a female friend, that doesn't necessarily means she will become his girlfriend. And that is true. I have heard that 1st appearance matters a lot so will it be better for me if I stop biting my nails and talking to girls? I know for a fact that my voice is a really bad turnoff. My friend say I need to impress a girl with my other qualities. What is the other qualities that I need to find to get a girlfriend? I am 19 years old already.

2007-02-14 01:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime my beautiful 60 y/o wife who has movie star looks go out dancing, young men in their twenties are flirting and hitting on her when I go to the restroom. She gets digits often....I am not the jealous type so it does not bother me but am curious why the sexual attraction for a 25 y/o to go ga ga over a 60 year old woman.

2007-02-14 01:54:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she goes around feeling onall these boys and since I hang out with her every one thinks I am a hoe too. What do I do? I need help..!!! She has sex with one of my best guy friends and he wont talk to me anymore what do i do about my friend that is a hoe.?

2007-02-14 01:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Help
In my mind i feel so sane,
in my body i feel so much pain.
How can i be real when i live
my life based on a lie,i don't want to continue
but it's so hard even when i try.

Am i a faker? could this really be me?
How can i change it? i want to be free.
Often times i think i'm happy, but deep
within i know it's not true.

I feel alone, and cry all day,
i want to be with somone who cares,
someone who's willing to play.

My life has ended, it funny because
i don't think it has begun,i just want to be
accepted and have some fun.

Hold me, touch me, show me you care,
feel what i feel let me know it's for real.
carry me around and show me to your friends,
that's what i want and hope it never ends.
Kimone march

2007-02-14 01:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by kelly 3 in Friends

some sort of perverted agenda

2007-02-14 01:53:46 · 28 answers · asked by beer buddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,

I am male aged 30 from chennai, India.

I am looking for my life partner.

I have worked in a software firm. I am currently looking to establish my own development firm in chennai shortly.

I am medium complexion and 6 feet tall with average looks. Have deep spiritual beliefs.

I trust in thinking, talking, doing good always and looking for a companion of same charcteristics.

If interested, pls let me know and we have discuss more

2007-02-14 01:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jack D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for last 2 yrs i've been feeling like something was wrong .tried to get him to join in /go out more to no avail. he has put me through hell making me feel bad about myself for the last 3 months and making me feel as if it was all me. i've also been v ill over january and been diagnoised with glandular fever and liver problems so not been up to par.i moved in with my mum so as i could rest and him look after the kids to give me a break as i've still been trying to work. came home to get something and over heard part of a conversation. didn't judge but asked the next day saying didn't mean to hear then he told me what was actually going on. the last 2 years now make sense,his reaction to me and lack of wanting to do anything. apparently she was very controlling and it was a highly abusive thing on her side .if we went out she would make his life hell.he pushed me to a virtual breakdown what with the illness aswell. i now just feel like a switch has gone off and numb. just have the kids.

2007-02-14 01:52:35 · 31 answers · asked by mistyfied 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my girl of nearly a year is starting to make me wonder.......

she has told me she loved me but acts like this...

tells me that this relationship is a full time job and she already has a full time job. Then the next day she is calling me asking me to take her to the airport.!!

Another time she told me I was clingy because I call her most days to see how she is, then again the next day she is emailing me to go and pick up (pay for aswell) a necklace that she reservered in a shop.

I treat this girl like a princess,give her lots of love, she eats at the best resturants, she never has to pay for anything. I also take her child out aswell to concerts etc. All this and I am also 10 years younger than her. Its not a bad deal.
Is this just how it is in a long term relationship or am I being sold short?

2007-02-14 01:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by john g 1 in Singles & Dating

or fat? or bald?

2007-02-14 01:51:52 · 23 answers · asked by Coco32 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeimng this man for off and on for 4yrs. He was there four the birth of my son who is not his. The man who is took off and left me with no place to live and pregnant. I have lots of feeling for this man. He has a daughter from a previous marriage. He is way more into me than I am into him. I have been struggling with post pardum depression. So my feelings and enerything are all over the place and i am not sure what I want. He says he cant wait forever for me to decide. I just dont want to make a hasty decsion.Tell me what u all think.

2007-02-14 01:51:37 · 26 answers · asked by sunshineruthere 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a college student and I am 21 years old. When I was at high school I have always wanted to make it to the basketball team but I couldn't because I was too short. I never had any friends untill I entered university. I had a girlfriend here but I ended up just being her rebound guy altough I liked her and cared about her a lot. And finally I failed all of my exams. My life is in ruins, so is there anyone who is optimistic enough to show me reason to live ?

2007-02-14 01:51:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships