Any tips on getting a girlfriend? I never had a girlfriend before nor do I have good female friends. I hear that just because a person has a female friend, that doesn't necessarily means she will become his girlfriend. And that is true. I have heard that 1st appearance matters a lot so will it be better for me if I stop biting my nails and talking to girls? I know for a fact that my voice is a really bad turnoff. My friend say I need to impress a girl with my other qualities. What is the other qualities that I need to find to get a girlfriend? I am 19 years old already.
2007-02-14 01:57:28 · 20 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't try so hard ,relax! open up and be yourself theirs the right girl out there for you build up your confidants that's what attracts people. you sound like you are a nice guy and it my just take a little more time for a more intelligent girl to find you and see what a great man you will make . hang in there it will happen!!!
2007-02-14 02:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by ken m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can get a girlfriend and anyone can be a girlfriend. You're being too specific in qualities that you think you should have. Girls date nail biters.
Find a hobby or take a recreational class and attend on a regular basis. You'll eventually meet someone and get a chance to learn more about them over time. If you don't put yourself out there and engage in some extroverted behavior, no one's going to notice you.
2007-02-14 02:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
work on getting female friends first, solely for the purpose of friendship to allow you to get used to talking 2 girls and by listening 2 there conversations they'll give you hints into the female mind especiallyt when your talkin 2 a group of girls. Also if your female friends and you get along then they can set u up on a blind date. if not then you can learn from associating with girls gain confidence and be able to talk 2 girls then when you get to know one you ask if they wanna go 2 the movies or somethin. then after the movies you eat and then you tell her how u feel, hopefully she sees you as a good guy then u date.
it also helps to be well groomed so no biting nailes, also learning different topics 2 discuss with girls since girls dont all like talking about the same things guys do. swaring less and avoiding crued sexual jokes or inuendos until you know each other better.
other qualities which attract girls are humour, intellegence ( but not overdooing it and looking pompous), being confident but not arrogant, chivalry, being independent and not clingy, actively listen more then talk which means nodding your head asking questions reguarding wat she says etc, success and stability also helps having a car, a job going 2 uni things that indicate your going place and that u have goals, being fit and active also helps, being happy as well as being mature ( being able 2 joke when needed and being serious when its called for). also try 2 get along with her friends so dont flirt with her friends just look like your a nice guy.
yeh thats it, good luck
2007-02-14 02:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to find what kind of girls you like then find that girl
next you should try to find out (through one of her friends) what kind
guy she likes and if your that guy then go for it be yourself no lies i mean no girl likes a lier! or you can approach by being her secret admirer you know send her sweet and romantic poems then (after a couple of days) you tell her too meet you some where but it has to be romantic and give her
dark red real roses with a big box of candy but find out if she likes
chocolate first and if she has a boyfriend!Oh and for your voice do some warm ups you know work on it but it shouldnt matter they should like you for you after a while!Yes you should stop biting your nails and here are some qualities you have to have funny, sweet, sensitive but not too sensitive,understanding ,open,charming,smooth and all around real!
2007-02-14 02:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer, go to the gym, take some classes, go to church, take a dog for a walk to eventually find a girl to introduce yourself to. Be a regular somewhere, go to the beach, hang out at a coffee shop, or bookstore, or move to the big city. Girls are everywhere; some introduce themselves some are waiting around the corner for Mr. Right to introduce himself. Be confident, have a good sense of humor, know how to treat a lady and you should be fine.
2007-02-14 14:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! you have not seen the world yet,and honestly do what i say and you'll get what you want,lol.so listen! START FROM BEING A BAD BOY,that means go to a strip club,see what bad women is,then hang-out clubs,but don't be addicted then finally start hangin-out at the bars very often.by doing that you'll see different kinds of women with different kind of attitude and looks.if those ideas sucks then only 2 things you got left is to wall around in the mall or find"connections" that's the best way to get your kind of whatever girl.Good Luck Dude!
2007-02-14 02:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by born4mission 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need for qualities at all.
The most effective way is to involve yourself in activites that you enjoy, and can interact with many other people.
Another more efficient means is internet dating.
I can think of no better way to stay single than not communicating with women.
2007-02-14 02:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by polk2525 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have sex 10- 14 days from the day she starts her period, this is typically when women ovulate and sperm can hang out waiting on an egg for 72 hours.
2016-03-29 06:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg from a girl's do not do the sock thing... that's a major turnoff! just try and b nice to her ur voice hasnt matured yet and girls or at least i understand that.. just use ur boyish charm! lol um... idk if u write poetry, which most girl's love... then send her a poem, i hope that i helped! im 15 and havent had a bf worth mentioning!
2007-02-14 02:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by nickelbacksmyhero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence, mon amis.
Converse, pick out a girl, and talk about your life, your beliefs and your values.
Be open, and she will be too.
2007-02-14 02:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋