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ok my girl of nearly a year is starting to make me wonder.......

she has told me she loved me but acts like this...

tells me that this relationship is a full time job and she already has a full time job. Then the next day she is calling me asking me to take her to the airport.!!

Another time she told me I was clingy because I call her most days to see how she is, then again the next day she is emailing me to go and pick up (pay for aswell) a necklace that she reservered in a shop.

I treat this girl like a princess,give her lots of love, she eats at the best resturants, she never has to pay for anything. I also take her child out aswell to concerts etc. All this and I am also 10 years younger than her. Its not a bad deal.
Is this just how it is in a long term relationship or am I being sold short?

2007-02-14 01:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by john g 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

We have had a wonderful time dating and she said she wants a kid with me??

2007-02-14 02:08:33 · update #1

9 answers

Stand up for your rights. You deserve the best woman you can have and she does not sound to be that. Think about what you want ideally from a partner and then compare. Does this attitude even come close? Take charge of your life and seek out the happiness you deserve.

2007-02-14 02:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis K 2 · 0 0

I hate to say this but she's using you. I know where you are coming from. Best thing to do is not pay for stuff for a while and not call her to see how much she really wants to be with you. Basically start acting like her. I've done this before and the roles were reversed. She started calling me all the time and even started paying for eating out and stuff. It might be hard to do but it has to be done to see if she really wants to be with you.

2007-02-14 10:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by whatever 2 · 0 0

No that is not like a usual relationship. i had one like that where the girl NEVER PAID 4 ANYTHING and i treated her like a goddess but we parted ways and now she is leaving me messages saying that she was wrong to treat me that way and she wants me back. I guess you have to sit down and talk with her and explain the situation to her and if she dosent change then you have to do what is best for you. It sounds like you are being mistreated and overlooked as just someone that is there to look after her every need and that needs to have its limits.

Hope this helps

2007-02-14 10:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by nickmesa2005 2 · 0 0

buddy- you deserve a girl who will love you as much as you love them. This girl is not worth, she doesn't love you, but she is trying to get as much ($) out of you as possible before she breaks up with you...DO IT FIRST- i know it may sound meanl, but what she is doing to you is way meaner

2007-02-14 09:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 1 · 0 0

A person who does not know what she wants is using you and testing you. Go get someone else who actually appreciates you.

2007-02-14 10:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0 0

for you...
You love me when you need me
and use me when you don't
you can't seem to make up your mind
or maybe you just won't...?

I hope your loneliness fulfills you
when you need my loving ways
and maybe you'll even want me
on one of your better days.

from you about her?to her?

* that's what it sounds like to me.....sorry.

2007-02-14 09:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by missellie 7 · 0 0

lol. You're a pathetic, gullible, desperate man and she's milking it for as long as she can.

2007-02-14 09:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by theangel1025 2 · 0 0

SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS JUST USING YOU

2007-02-14 10:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

GOLD DIGGER lol..but yea, she is

2007-02-14 10:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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