What should i do, please help?

Question

I have no idea on what i should do. My little brother (age 14) goes out with my former best friend (age 18). At first i didn't know how to react. Then i tried to be supportfull, because i diddnt want to push my bro away or lose my friendship. But i couldent, and the more time they spent togather the angrier i got. It has been 4 months now and that anger has grown to hate. The woman who used to be my best friend, i now hate with all my soul. Everytime i see the two of them togather i cringe. And they come home every-day after school togather. And everyday i am pokite to the both of them. And my former friend still thinks that we're good friends, but i dont. My question is this, should i tell her how much i hate her, or continue being polite. Oh, and she knows that i dont approve of them going out. Please help, thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Why does this bother you so much? Because she is 4 years older than he is? Or is it because you were hoping that your friendship would develop into something more? Is there some jealousy going on with this? In my opinin, you have been a horrible friend. To say that you hate this person now, how good of a friend could you have been? She hasn't done anything wrong to betray you. She still seems to want to be your friend, you have the issues. Where are your parents and why are they letting a 14 year old date someone 18? Something seems to be wrong with that situation all together. But I think the reason you have so much anger is because you wanted her to be more than your friend, and it didn't happen.

Answer 2

um lets see 14yr.old BOY with a 18 yr.old ADULT,sound like trouble to me..what would you do if it was your 14yr.old sister with your 18yr.old "boyfriend"...she needs a reality check.go for it tell her like it is.good luck...

Answer 3

if u want, go out with ur friend and ur brother..
thats wut i ve been doing since my brother also was going with my best friend..and now we go all together and i m like my brother's friend