I had my first official boyfriend in the 9th grade along with my first kiss. If it hasn't happened yet, don't fret, it will.
There are soo many girls out there LOOKING for boyfriends, by doing this they put out a desperate aura, and this doesn't attract the opposite sex, it actually makes them take two steps back. I have found that when you aren't searching all the boys come to you.
So relax and have a fun times with your friends and i promise, if you aren't looking, someone will come.
and yes, my brother is 14 and super cute, and hasn't been kissed or had a girlfriend.
2007-02-14 00:38:00
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answered by misselizabee 2
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I was 21 when I had my first boyfriend and first kiss. Personally I think that you're a little too young to have a boyfriend. Enjoy what you have now. Stay focus in school and your future. A lot of my friends now who dealt in a realtionship at a young age, regret it and wish they can go back and start over. Always consider in looking for a friend in someone first before jumping into a relationship, especially if you don't know what having a relationship is, and trust me its a lot more than just hugging and kissing and saying that someone is your boyfirend or girlfriend. I say to maintain your innocence. Always tread lightly around the opposite sex, especially if they're not mature enough to respect you as a person. You're doing great now. You should be happy where you are. Don't feel desperate in needing something because you see someone else have it.
2007-02-14 11:03:54
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answered by Anonymous
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ROFL! Ok, composing myself... ok, we're good.
Alrighty then... now to the explaining.
IT'S F**KING NORMAL!
I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 16.
I'm currently "courting" a really nice girl of 17 who has never been kissed or had a boyfriend (let alone asked out). She's pretty as hell, so I'm rather confused by it. You're not the only one, boyfriends are not a key to acceptance.
2007-02-14 08:34:21
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answered by tyleniel 1
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Thats pretty damn normal actually. I know 18..19..even 21 year-olds that never had a boy/girlfriend..never been kissed..never had sex...etc.
2007-02-14 08:39:47
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answered by Kim 3
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Nope.
Ignore them and all the distractions they bring. Get the most out of you're schooling and make goals for yourself, then worry about boys.
2007-02-14 08:32:31
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answered by Anonymous
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lol. I dont know what werid about that. I am 20 and never had a girl friends.
Do you think that is weird?
2007-02-14 08:34:36
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answered by Thomas Le 2
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lots of people. and it doesnt matter your age. the point is to find someone you like, not find some random companion to cling to by whatever age. when you find someone you like, youll be together. :)
2007-02-14 08:36:24
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answered by midnightsnacker13 2
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