2007-02-14 23:53:05 · 21 answers · asked by purpledog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let time work it out....in the meantime, simply date both of them, but I wouldn't sleep with either one of them. That will only confuse the issue. In the long run, the one you will choose will end up being the best companion, and to choose the best companion, you need to spend time with each of them outside the bedroom.
2007-02-22 02:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your pain. I never got over my first love when I married my first husband. They shared a lot of the same qualities. They had the same first name, drove the same kind of vehicle, same nickname-though for different reasons. I was in a world of hurt and confusion. One day I sat myself down and wrote a list of each of their pros and cons. Why I loved each of them and which one I could see having a family with. Who would be there if I was terminally ill. Who would run to my aid if I was arrested-which guy really had my back. I soon realized I was holding onto my past because it was a great relationship that just met it's end. My marriage was worth holding onto after all. But when my husband found out that I still had feelings for my ex he felt betrayed, even though we were only friends who only spoke in passing. I never told my ex that I still had feelings for him, either. It's hard, but it's a choice that has to be made, if you really care for the men in your life. Good luck to you.
2007-02-23 02:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by monicastocker74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible!!! You can't love 2 men @ the same way Every man is different from the other, Your just confused , there is something on this guy that you can't find on the other you didn't just notice it! You've got to look for it.
2007-02-22 01:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's possible to love to men at the same time. i would chose the one i feel who loves me more and won't be afraid to tell anyone and the one i felt i loved more.
2007-02-15 07:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by ch3rryontop2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means you are lusting over both! you could never really have true love towards someone and feel as deeply for someone else, maybe you just care about these two people and you think you are in love but probaly not! i would just stay friends with them and try to find my true love!
good luck!
2007-02-15 07:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love the second guy he's just doing something that the guy you was with first isn't doing and it's making you happy after a while it will die or you 'll leave guy number one to be with number two and you'll find his flaws.
2007-02-22 21:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by rashida r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i felt the same long time ago but i was no in love i just like them, so when you love you only love one at the time.
2007-02-15 07:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as the saying goes "you cannot cross two rivers at the same time" its not. you cannot love two persons at thesame time but if the level of living them is just a friend then its ok.
2007-02-23 04:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best not to think that way. Because true love means one and only. Not 2.
2007-02-22 10:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, i do not think that is possible.
but if you honestly think you love them the same way then find time away from both of them.
you will realize who you want to be more than the other.
2007-02-23 03:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by daydream13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋