I have been in love with my brothers old best friend for the past 5 years. They dont really hang out anymore but i see him at the occasional gig. He used to flirt with me loads when him and my brother were best friends.
I saw him at a gig a couple of weeks ago and all my friends said he was flirting, as he was picking on me and constantly hugging me.
He has been quite evil to me in the past but as he is now maturing i love him even more. All my friends know, and he thinks he has an idea that i fancy him.
I really wanna tell him but i dont want everything to be ruined.
I really do love him alot. =]
2007-02-14 23:43:23 · 8 answers · asked by a.boozie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is hugging on you alot and touching you that means alot. guys dont touch because its not a very masculine thing to do, imagine a guy touching a nother guy or trying to hug him. if he is hugging you alot its definately becaus he likes you. he was probably picking on you to keep conversation going or to get you to talk to him. an easy way to find out is to ask him what kind of girls does he like, if he describes you then he is describing you on purpose. if he describes another kind of girl and your features dont match up just be like "oh what about me" and see what he says.
2007-02-14 23:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by destrega 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd get a mutual friend to quiz him on his thoughts on you. That way you can play ignorant and not get embarrassed should he not fancy you. If he does know that you like him, he might just be messy with your feelings as he enjoys the attention. It's a tough one, but as they say in Newcastle 'shy bairns get nowt'. Good luck.
2007-02-15 07:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie's_Secret_Society 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush on him, this is not true love. You have two chioces - continue admiring him from afar, and the feeling will fade away eventually, or do somehting about it, talk to him , tell him how you feel, but be prepared for a rejection.
There is no right answer - what can you live with?
2007-02-15 07:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by cuddles_gb 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u need to tell him otherwise u won't know how he feels and where it will lead. when u want something, u have to go after it. otherwise u will always be wondering 'if only'.
2007-02-15 07:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well............if he has an idea u fancy him and he still flirts....maybe dats coz he likes u to .(well i think so)......try to be slow and steady and try to make him realise u love him....drop signs but dont do anything in haste.......
HURRY BURRY SPOILS D CURRY !!!
2007-02-15 07:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't lose if it's real love
2007-02-15 09:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Don't ask, don't get.
2007-02-15 07:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
flash your knockers at him
2007-02-15 07:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by the gay bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋