is it right?

Question

to have sex on first date
why if not?

Answer 1

1. You make yourself cheap,
2. no self respect.
3. You will hate yourself for it the next day. This is for sure.
4. It is not right that you do it this way while you do not even know the person well.
5. There is a possibility he could be carrying a disease. You think it only affects the person next door and not you? Think again.
6. This is the last but worst point: You could get pregnant; the guy will leave you; you won't be able to support the baby etc.... lots of complications. Your life will be one big mess.

Answer 2

Its fine...if you never want to see the guy again.....one night stands are cool sometimes. If you actually like the guy and could see some potential...I'd hold off for a while.

Lets compare a person to a bar of chocolate. You see it, you want it...the longer you wait, the more you get to know it (how it feels, a tiny taste and smells)...the more you like it or it starts to turn you off. Now if someone rams that choccy bar into your mouth before youve even got time to check it out properly...you will probably still eat it BUT it'll be nasty or sweet. You certainly wont feel like chocolate again for a while because youve already eaten. No time to obsess or get infatuated with little choccy bar....its easter time and the pantry is full of similar brands...so THAT wasnt so special (unless the pantry has been empty for quite some time and it will do until a better one becomes available).

I'm not saying all choccy bars are rejected after a quick first bite but the attraction has so be so high as to make the person swoon.....and if they know everyone gets a bite easily...it takes away from the flavor. They may even tell the world how easy it is to get a sample....bitter or sweet....some people just like chocolate even if its average and many people get an ego boost by advising others of the supplier.

Choccy bars dont have feelings but you do......so dont give it away for free, unless you know they are interested in your juicy centre and are willing to take time out from their busy lives to work for it. So its up to you...do you want a snack or the whole box of chocolates? If youre snacking then what do you care? If the whole box looks good........wait until youve checked out its packaging properly and whether its good for you.

Answer 3

The first date is supposed to to be a time when you get to know the person better and you learn about them. If you automatically have sex on the first date this leaves no challenge i mean if you just give the guy what he wants your just giving him a one way ticket out.

Answer 4

Stuff that....If it feels right then go for it.
But under no circumstances do it drunk or you will have doubts the next day.
Nothing wrong with sex on the first date as long as it is what you want.

Answer 5

I'd say it is not right.

You would likely lost 80% of the fun you suppose to have dating anybody if you do that.

Why give in too easy too fast? The guy will respect you more for not doing that.

Answer 6

first know d person properly and den go down to the act.
if u hurry like this....u'll regret !!

Nothin else to tell u !!!